Deconstructing physical sex.

[Majed]

Deconstructing physical sex: 
An implicit assumption within the materialist paradigm is that physical sex is better than pornography. 
While there are differences between the two, they share way more similarities than there are differences. 
Up to 90% of the experience is the same, from a technical scientific perspective. 
This shows you just how ridiculous the whole notion of virginity is. 
If someone is watching pornography everyday and orgasming, they are basically getting 90% of a similar experience to physical sex. So what makes him a virgin according to science ? 
And once you know this it is freeing because, a big part of sexual frustration is related to fantasies we have in our minds about the sex we should be getting. While the reality is that, to a large degree we cannot control whether we have a partner for sex or not. However we can watch pornography as often as we would like, and get the same feelings and experience.

Edited 21 hours ago by Majed

[CARDOZZO]

Don't fool yourself. What if your ancestors had porn?

If you have problems with woman, seek help. 

Porn is not healthy. Do you want to fap? Use your imagination.

Edited 20 hours ago by CARDOZZO

[TruthFreedom]

My friend, there is much more to physical sex!

Mostly, it's the fact that you have to contend with another human being! 

Which is not easy. So stick to your fapping lol

[LordFall]

Porn is like fast food. It can satiate you for a while but if you're a straight male(or bi) you will not find much like a beautiful women that's really into you in this universe. Definitely would suggest you work on your game and social circle so you can sleep with women you're into on a regular basis. 

[bazera]

@Majed

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However we can watch pornography as often as we would like

This will fuck you up for sure.

[theleelajoker]

Have sex with a woman that is really into you and you are really into her.

Enjoy the smell, the touch, the eye contact.

Enjoy the foreplay, the exchange of energy, the kisses and the tension before.

Enjoy the alignment during sex and the cuddling afterwards. Enjoy being 100% relaxed and in harmony with another human.

And then come back and tell me porn is 90% of that experience.

Edited 10 hours ago by theleelajoker

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, theleelajoker said:

Have sex with a woman that is really into you and you are really into her.

Enjoy the smell, the touch, the eye contact.

Enjoy the foreplay, the exchange of energy, the kisses and the tension before.

Enjoy the alignment during sex and the cuddling afterwards. Enjoy being 100% relaxed and in harmony with another human.

And then come back and tell me porn is 90% of that experience.

Preach 

Many users here haven't experienced this though. Something something deaf ears

[bazera]

This "deconstruction" sounds like a good excuse to not take initiative and responsibility over dealing one's fears regarding dating, sex and attraction.

[theleelajoker]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Preach 

Many users here haven't experienced this though. Something something deaf ears

Yeah I realized that later. Even if one had this experience, it's easy to forget. I had a relatively long time without such an interaction, and when it happened I was thinking: "shit, I forgot what it feels like"

@OP: in my experience, the mind is very good at making up stories to justify some things or to find reasons why one should or should not do XYZ. It's typically just fear of rejection behind it. 

Edited 7 hours ago by theleelajoker

[Ramasta9]

"If someone is watching pornography everyday and orgasming, they are basically getting 90% of a similar experience to physical sex."

More like 9%... If you had real sex... no pornography is ever going to come close to the experience itself.

Most people haven't had real transformative orgasmic sex, just average sex.

[CARDOZZO]

19 hours ago, Majed said:

Deconstructing physical sex: 
An implicit assumption within the materialist paradigm is that physical sex is better than pornography. 
While there are differences between the two, they share way more similarities than there are differences. 
Up to 90% of the experience is the same, from a technical scientific perspective. 
This shows you just how ridiculous the whole notion of virginity is. 
If someone is watching pornography everyday and orgasming, they are basically getting 90% of a similar experience to physical sex. So what makes him a virgin according to science ? 
And once you know this it is freeing because, a big part of sexual frustration is related to fantasies we have in our minds about the sex we should be getting. While the reality is that, to a large degree we cannot control whether we have a partner for sex or not. However we can watch pornography as often as we would like, and get the same feelings and experience.

There is no problem about being a virgin. I don't know if you are. 

We can help you.

[Majed]

@Leo Gura what do you think ?