Why Has Dating Collapsed? The Real Reason No One Talks About

[aurum]

She makes some fair points, but the bias is obvious.

Calling it unbiased is a stretch.

[Butters]

Can you describe in your own language what is the problem in the dating market? I'm curious. 

[CARDOZZO]

4 hours ago, Butters said:

Can you describe in your own language what is the problem in the dating market? I'm curious. 

The only problem is high standards from both sides. There is plenty of woman wanting to have sex, marry, have children.

Are they your dream woman? Probably not.

The same thing for man. 

Edited 4 hours ago by CARDOZZO

[Miguel1]

4 hours ago, Elliott said:

"93% of women are undatable" ?

We have to definite what dating means. From my experience, if I were to pick random 100 girls from the street that is attractive and in the age range 20-30, I would not make at least 80% of them my wife. That's for certain. I would imagine in a place like the US, it would be worse.

Light dating where there's not much commitment, AKA, FWB? Sure I would have that with more women.

That being said, I dont see the point of FWBs in my life right now, would be a waste of energy and time.

Finally, dont take titles that are designed to play there algorithm's game too seriously. The point is that a lot of girls is not worth the hassle, depending on where you are coming from. If you are a newbie who haven't gotten much of that out of your system? Go for it!

Edited 5 hours ago by Miguel1

[Miguel1]

3 hours ago, aurum said:

She makes some fair points, but the bias is obvious.

Calling it unbiased is a stretch.

I honestly don't see the value in comments like this. What are you trying to accomplish?

For example, you could point out the obvious way she is biased? Would that be more constructive to the conversation? Hmm?

[Miguel1]

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

This only problem is high standards from both sides. There is plenty of woman wanting to have sex, marry, have children.

Are they your dream woman? Probably not.

The same thing for man. 

This.

For me especially, I have extremely high standards. Also, with the raise of unhealthy female's movement and other stuff, women are pushing men away and are less willing to let a man have a place in their life, and to provide proper containment for them. Obviously not talking about all women.

Teal made a video talking about this 6 years ago, and I feel like the situation has gotten worse and worse every year.

 

Edited 5 hours ago by Miguel1

[CARDOZZO]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

This.

For me especially, I have extremely high standards. Also, with the raise of unhealthy female's movement and other stuff, women are pushing men away and are less willing to let a man have a place in their life, and to provide proper containment for them. Obviously not talking about all women.

Teal made a video talking about this 6 years ago, and I feel like the situation has gotten worse and worse every year.

 

Sure. All this incel, femcel, MGTOW, redpill movements are just symptoms of human expectations that was never met.

They have a ideal woman/man on their heads and how they should behave. They go to reality and they do not see it. 

I guarantee you that if you lower your standards/expectations toward the opposite sex, you will never be alone anymore. 

The "male loneliness epidemic" is over. You have girls, you have sex, you have relationships. Are they what you want? Probably not. Are they perfect? No. 

They both want the perfect one. They want the total package (beauty, intelligence, humor, good personality).

[Jannes]

Wait what!? 63% of men in the 18-29 age group are single while only 34% of women in that age group are single!??

So girls nowadays rather want a piece of chad then settle down with a beta for themselves? Thats what the data is suggesting. 

I wonder to which degree something like this affects politics. 

[Ulax]

40 minutes ago, Jannes said:

Wait what!? 63% of men in the 18-29 age group are single while only 34% of women in that age group are single!??

So girls nowadays rather want a piece of chad then settle down with a beta for themselves? Thats what the data is suggesting. 

I wonder to which degree something like this affects politics. 

Thing is though, we need to know stats for the previous generation to know if anything has significantly changed.