Men Are Not Approaching Women

[integration journey]

3 hours ago, UnbornTao said:

One of our religion's main tenets. Well done.

Are you implying we are in a cult? 

Edited Thursday at 02:14 AM by integration journey

[CARDOZZO]

46 minutes ago, integration journey said:

Are you implying we are in a cult? 

[Joseph Maynor]

I feel like the wrong men are approaching women -- and the men that women would like don't approach.  Attraction is not difficult at all.  I don't understand all this need to struggle to attract.  This is the exact opposite way to be attractive, this try hard mentality.  I don't get it.  Just be yourself.

[Jacob Morres]

I realized this yesterday interestingly. I think this is a good thing from the perspective that since nobody is doing it, it will help you stand out 

I think also since society has gone more introverted because of covid, there might be an opportunity for business ideas surrounding social skills 

[Kid A]

1 hour ago, Jacob Morres said:

I realized this yesterday interestingly. I think this is a good thing from the perspective that since nobody is doing it, it will help you stand out 

Too bad that women see standing out/being weird as a red flag. At least where I live... 

[UnbornTao]

9 hours ago, integration journey said:

Are you implying we are in a cult? 

Sort of - but it's probably not what you think. Remember how people couldn't really tell with Teal Swan either? There's a thread on it. 

The religion part referred to a joke I made with @cardozzo elsewhere.

[CARDOZZO]

 

[Dauntment]

Hivemind & Echo-chambers & Social Media Algorithms

*clears throat*  Get the fu-- off the internet!

[Jacob Morres]

On 2/5/2026 at 1:36 AM, Kid A said:

Too bad that women see standing out/being weird as a red flag. At least where I live... 

You could probably find ways of doing it while blending in. I see pickup moreso as a way of developing social skills - and nobody generally has anything wrong with that

The dark part can come with the manipulation tactics from pua, but if you avoid that, nobody will have issues (for the most part)

Btw i did pickup in both eastern europe and nyc btw and only got a maybe 1 negative comment in total 

Edited Friday at 09:14 PM by Jacob Morres

[CARDOZZO]

Do not be afraid. Embrace your masculinity.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

It's this crazy independence epidemic, as a core element. Independence is the new definition for what it means to be healthy and empowered. 

This isn't necessarily true; you are still fully engaged in a social system, benefiting from the collective. Nothing about an extreme is healthy.

We won't always BE independent. We WILL need help, eventually, or at points on our lives. As you age up this becomes clearer and clearer. This is healthy. Needed. 

Women need to make space for men in their lives. They need to learn to accept the abundance and providing a man can bring; and not view it as a threat to their safety. Not view it as control (financial, physical etc). This is a tough lesson in balance. When this balance isn't had you see men giving up due to women cucking them and killing their natural masculinity.

I see many women these days completely uncomfortable with simply receiving a compliment from a man. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Ramasta9]

Unfortunately there is a huge disorder in modern society and most people are very scared to even call it that or admit it. I am not one of those people. I've been seeing it pretty much all my life. Its very clear to me, our environments are full of toxins, we eat garbage, we put poison in our bodies, air and water supply, and basically most city-dwellers are not even human anymore, rather mutations and half-dead zombies, as harsh as this sounds, its the very truth that people need to wake up too.

I see this every time because the moment anyone of these people (lets just call it the kardashian syndrome) venture out into nature, do some fasting, do some healing, eat some organic foods, take a break from the modern world, dancing by the drums, sing with the shamans, touch the earth, cleanse and bathe in the rivers, soon after return to themselves again, and all these modern conditions and "disorders" start to dissolve.

I am telling you 90 - 99% of people, especially city dwellers are sick and they don't even realize it. The human soul was never designed for such an environment. When i go into more natural environments where people still are in touch with mother nature and themselves, 90% of these issues do not exist, because they are still in touch with their natural selves. Men are men and women are women.

Sure you can still do it in the city, but its a lot of work, a lot of meditation, a lot of yoga, a lot of breath work, a lot of everything... that you need to be so strong to not be affected by the toxicity of the modern world. Even these devices and electronics are subtly damaging to our consciousness, over time it starts to wear you down and replace thy soul.

Remember who you are and remember where you came from. Mother awaits you, and when you touch her again, the father speaks.

Edited 3 hours ago by Ramasta9

[Eskilon]

There's too many ways of releasing sexual energy nowdays that doesn't require a woman. Porn, toys, even AI lmao for some. Woman is not the only way a man can get sexual pleasure, so this can be a factor for sure(not saying these alternatives are better).

When you have options to throw away your seed, the motivation for seeking a woman greatly diminishes if not vanish completely for some time. 

I would even go as far as to say men mostly seek women because of horniness. If you take away men's horniness he would not care much about women( eunuch men of the past report this). And today theres many ways of releasing that horniness in men other than a woman. 

Most men identity belongs to his dick, you take away the dick, you take away his drive. That`s why a gorilla when attacking a men goes straight to his genitalia; he knows men's worth is down there lmao 

Not equating women only to sex, but many many men are animals lmao, this much is true.

 

Edited 3 hours ago by Eskilon

[CARDOZZO]

1 hour ago, Ramasta9 said:

Unfortunately there is a huge disorder in modern society and most people are very scared to even call it that or admit it. I am not one of those people. I've been seeing it pretty much all my life. Its very clear to me, our environments are full of toxins, we eat garbage, we put poison in our bodies, air and water supply, and basically most city-dwellers are not even human anymore, rather mutations and half-dead zombies, as harsh as this sounds, its the very truth that people need to wake up too.

I see this every time because the moment anyone of these people (lets just call it the kardashian syndrome) venture out into nature, do some fasting, do some healing, eat some organic foods, take a break from the modern world, dancing by the drums, sing with the shamans, touch the earth, cleanse and bathe in the rivers, soon after return to themselves again, and all these modern conditions and "disorders" start to dissolve.

I am telling you 90 - 99% of people, especially city dwellers are sick and they don't even realize it. The human soul was never designed for such an environment. When i go into more natural environments where people still are in touch with mother nature and themselves, 90% of these issues do not exist, because they are still in touch with their natural selves. Men are men and women are women.

Sure you can still do it in the city, but its a lot of work, a lot of meditation, a lot of yoga, a lot of breath work, a lot of everything... that you need to be so strong to not be affected by the toxicity of the modern world. Even these devices and electronics are subtly damaging to our consciousness, over time it starts to wear you down and replace thy soul.

Remember who you are and remember where you came from. Mother awaits you, and when you touch her again, the father speaks.

Have you read Walden by Thoreau?

Your POV aligns with him. Great stuff!  

[No1Here2c]

@CARDOZZO

And Walden is almost 200 years ago. Imagine if Thoreau could write on the things he'd witness in today's day in age.

I mean he didnt even have electricity. And he sure didnt have all that it has evolved into.

Edited 48 minutes ago by No1Here2c

[Ramasta9]

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

Have you read Walden by Thoreau?

Your POV aligns with him. Great stuff!  

No i haven't but yes I am aware great minds have said similar things for eons. Thanks for sharing.

Reminds me of this quote... Ahh i couldn't find the original, it seems the "facts police" don't like the truth  

 

[Ramasta9]

@CARDOZZO Actually i did really enjoy this, just made the connection