What Would You Do In This Situation?

[Grant6]

I am in a bit of a dilemma and am trying to seriously consider how to proceed. I recently met someone online from a dating app who lives in another country. We have been talking nearly every day for the past few months, and we haven't put any labels on our relationship but we decided to take each other seriously and not see other people. In the past 3 months that I have gotten to know her she has a top tier personality: she's funny and makes me laugh, values learning (philosophy, psychology, etc.), she's nerdy and has a lot of interests that overlap with mine, and her emotional intelligence and communication is exceptional. I would even consider introducing her to actualized.org content in the future which I haven't felt able to do with anyone in my life. That alone means a lot to me. Our values are pretty aligned overall, her open mindedness being a big one for me. Looks wise, I thought she was cute when we first matched, however this is where the dilemma emerges, the more we have video chatted and seen each other more, the more I realize I might not be as physically attracted to her as I once was. And I know that sounds shallow especially given how great of a person she is, but for me I want to be attracted to all of my potential partner and that includes physical attractiveness. So now I feel torn. It feels a bit off to give up on something special just because she is not as physically attractive as I would like. At the same time, I don't want a lack of physical attractiveness to create problems within the relationship later down the road. So I feel like I am at a bit of a crossroads, whether I should continue things with her or move on. 

[theleelajoker]

Meet her. See how it goes from there.

Stop thinking and take some action.

Have fun.

[LastThursday]

Never mind the looks. What does she feel like?

[Hojo]

If you fall in love with a woman she will become attractive physically to you. Depends on how far from acttractive it is to you. If a man fall in love with a woman she will go from 5 to 8.

[Salvijus]

Rip