Struggling to go out and socialize

[fopylo]

So I have those short blitzes of managing to go and socialize, but then followed by a long time of just avoiding going out, too long.

This is mostly tailored to my travelers out here, as traveling around and staying in hostels and making friends is the lifestyle. Plenty of opportunity to meet new friends and women.

My struggle is that I just don't have this motivation to go out and meet random people. I'm here in Thailand and there are many parties and bars, but it just feels weird going alone, and forget that aspect, I just mostly don't have the energy and motivation for it. Very high stimulus. Maybe here and there. But it frustrates me a little to think on my new year's resolution about setting to do 20 approaches a week, and this first month of January... I'm still on 0. Well, 0 in the technical aspect of cold approaching, because I did talk with like 3 people in my hostel in total for all this time being (one of them was a girl).

[CARDOZZO]

Tinder.

The app can make you see how desirable you are to Thai girls. This will boost your ego and motivation.

[Oppositionless]

Spend a year pursuing a deeply embodied awakening with psychedelics and hardcore spiritual practice then go to a yoga class, or even better, ecstatic dance if it's available .

Edited 2 hours ago by Oppositionless

[aurum]

5 hours ago, fopylo said:

My struggle is that I just don't have this motivation to go out and meet random people. I'm here in Thailand and there are many parties and bars, but it just feels weird going alone, and forget that aspect, I just mostly don't have the energy and motivation for it.

Do you have male friends to go out with?

Trying to go solo is a recipe for failure, especially when you're just getting started. Solo is brutally hard. It's more appropriate once you've already have a lot of momentum.