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How to approach a woman if you haven't very good IQ?

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3 hours ago, Cireeric said:

but actually higher intelligence  in general - which is not just left-brainy -  definitely helps with humor. 

I don't get you. It's sort of like you are saying the thing and it's opposite ..intelligence equates to humor but also not ?


 "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly."

-Leo Gura. 

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1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

With a harpoon 

How big are the girls you are approaching? 

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scared of AI taking my girl


 "I heard you guys are very safe. Caught up with the featherweights”" - Bon Iver

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“Lemme take you on an el lucid date hehehe”


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Some kinds of intelligence you will develop through interaction rather than developing them on your own then being “prepared” for interaction 

Maybe it is possible to rid all your social neurosis even in solitude, but I’d say it’s much harder than simply exposing yourself to social situations 

Unfortunately when you feel awkward in yourself it’s reflected in your behavior so every time you enter interaction you’re putting yourself at risk of experiencing that awkwardness directly 

Its hard and discouraging but you have to go through those awkward moments to eventually get in touch with that authentic flow in you where you finally feel comfortable (and sometimes if you don’t enter that flow it could be you two just don’t click, it’s possibility)

Its like when you see woman your mind will be active, on one hand it will think of something to say, and it will imagine bad scenarios, and your awkward self image might start to feel amplified, you’ll think of going up to her but you’ll also be hesitant 

You wanna try to follow those impulses that lead you to her. For now it might be hard to shut of that other stuff blocking the flow, but you don’t have to do that directly, by following those interactive impulses it will grow the chance of you getting into that appropriate flow and it will challenge those other thoughts and “take over”

Im a noob socially but im struggling with this too and here are some thoughts 

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52 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Maybe it is possible to rid all your social neurosis even in solitude, but I’d say it’s much harder than simply exposing yourself to social situations 

Idk because I did and continue to do this and it works; and I see plenty of older people who have socialized a lot and are neurotic.

 

Because socialization isn't just about humans but objects in general, it's the "territorialization" as Deleuze would say so in fact socialization happens everywhere and all the time; when you vape your watermelon-flavored e-cigarette you're socializing with it.

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@Schizophonia holy fuck this profile picture. 

The moustache is obscene...


It is far easier to trick someone, than to convince them they have been tricked.

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