'Burning through karma' problem

[koops]

I just rewatched the 'Burning through Karma video'.

How hard it is!
Sometimes it feels that is never going to end. Going back to previous vices, habits and attatchemts.

For example, now Im in a long term relationships, in my 30s, and I have this urge for the past month or so to date other women (younger). But its not just sex, its more like a short type honeymoon phase romance. I feel bad about it ofc. No shame though.

 

How do you handle this guys?

One of the tips in the video is to exhaust cravings. Well, I did it. I had sex and connection with multiple women to the point I felt bored about it, even some times I felt dirty and regret and emptiness after sex.

I feel it goes like this: wether you do it (exhaust the craving), or not, you are going to keep having it, if you do it, maybe less than before, but you will. I feel there is no scape, but to deal with them.
But at the same time, if you tasted great sex and great romance, and if you felt competent why would you stop? Thats the tough part for me.

With food, porn its easier. You dont really get anything of value, but sex and romance... damn

 

 

[Ishanga]

The key is always raising of Your Awareness or Consciousness level, the side benefit to that is Bliss, once You have Bliss as a natural experience then all the other pleasures don't compare, that doesn't mean that while Blissed out you don't still have Your fav ice cream cone or eat Your fav meal, watch you fav tv show, etc... It just means those things are no longer an attachment for You, as Your Bliss is in your control and pleasure is always there for You..

Karma or Conditioning/Tendencies/Past will rule You if the past is dominate in you, we can dissolve Karma via Living Now absolutely, that doesn't mean ignoring past or future, we just use it when we need it and don't live in those places that's all.. Acceptance too dissolves Karma, if Your totally in Acceptance of What Is, then nothing will rule You..

[Terell Kirby]

2 hours ago, koops said:

For example, now Im in a long term relationships, in my 30s, and I have this urge for the past month or so to date other women (younger).

how long is long term?

Of course there’s trade offs, stability and comfort of existing LTR vs new challenge in dating younger (exciting but not easy starting over)

Edited 2 hours ago by Terell Kirby

[Hojo]

Its way easier to burn through karma when you are ignorant of spirituality and non religious. You have to be unconscious. So get drunk and go be an asshole.

Edited 1 hour ago by Hojo