“How does a broke college Zoomer date in a society where all women are hypergamous?”

[Theprofessional]

It’s simple: you don’t.

Often I read “How are us young guys supposed to meet women these days?” “How come the apps don’t work?” etc. and all these people are missing the point.

 

Until the moment you make a decent amount of money - roughly $270k per year - your pick of women is going to be next to nothing, and in any relationship you will be treated poorly anyway because she won’t respect you.

 

American women in general are horribly immature and treat their partners badly - ESPECIALLY this generation of social media brainwashed, ultra-entitled Zoomer women who strictly date only men who can provide “an influencer lifestyle” - but if you are the sole reason she gets to eat and has a roof over her head, the backtalking and belittling will (mostly) be kept to a minimum.

 

You have to have financial power over her, or she will walk all over you.

 

So, if you’re a Zoomer college guy like me, how are you supposed to date?

 

You don’t. At all. Doesn’t matter what you look like - I’m 6’ and muscular, I go to the gym a lot, people tell me I’m generally attractive. No women will notice you or want to date you until you have a nice car and a nice house or condo in the big city, it’s as simple as that. It has nothing to do with looks, and this is how it’s been for all human history. Women want the guys who have the resources.

 

Dating in Gen Z, unless you’re from a rich family, is a distraction. Until the moment those big checks start depositing in your 30’s, trust me, don’t even bother.

[Zenterus]

Speak for yourself. I've been a below average earner for all of my life and I've dated a lot of gorgeous women in my life, a lot of them making way more than I did, and who treated me like a king.

And no, I'm not particularly good looking either. I'm decent but nothing to write home about.

Stop making excuses as to why you suck with women and accept that you just suck. Swallow that bitter pill and go out, talk to women, get rejected, learn from your failures and improve little by little over the span of years until you reach a point of being in so much abundance with women that it makrs you depressed. 

 

That's what I did.

[Theprofessional]

@Zenterus I’ve done that, I’ve had relationships with attractive women. This is what I’ve discovered. Haven’t dated in 6 years, gotta focus on my degree and earning more money. I don’t care if it takes 6 more years or 10 more. I’ll just date a 25 year old when I’m 35. All men can do this

[Salvijus]

12 minutes ago, Zenterus said:

Speak for yourself. I've been a below average earner for all of my life and I've dated a lot of gorgeous women in my life, a lot of them making way more than I did, and who treated me like a 

Maybe you're from an older generation. Times are different now. I probably would agree with the professor here. 

[Majed]

@Theprofessional I found this to be true, lmao, maybe not 270k per year, but like yeah you need money to do pick up effectively. Like you need money for a car, a house or uber and the hotel room... Plus entrances to clubs consistently... Plus you need the money to move to a better city/country... All of that takes lots of money. Plus money for dates... If you're parents can't help you with all of that and you're young, well what are the chances you'll get laid ? None. I've tried it. I've done 2500 approaches without getting laid. To do pick up you gotta be rich, in a nutshell. Leo just doesn't appreciate how bad most people in the world have it, to the point where they can't afford to do pick up, just on a money level. 

All of leo's content doesn't work for most people because they don't have enough money or time (because they have to work for the money) to put it in practice. Therefore realistically, instead of teaching us how to deconstruct rationality, he needs to teach us how to make more money to be able to then work on spirituality effectively, or on our dating life, etc... 

@Leo Gura What do you think? 

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[Theprofessional]

@Majed I’m not even talking about pick up or any of that, I’m talking about pursuing a genuine relationship and building that over time. Something our parents all did really easily - probably too easily.

Whenever I meet a girl anywhere now, her first question is what my job is. Every time. And when I tell her I’m in college, she asks my major. And when I tell her my major is literature, she tunes out completely and stops talking to me.

Like, fair enough, I’m on a challenging path. But I do have a solid career plan that is going to make me a lot of money after college. But they don’t even stick around long enough in the conversation to get that far, ever. Pretty much every time.

They basically treat all of us like our worth as a person is directly only what is in our bank accounts, right now, today.

[aurum]

@Theprofessional you are making excuses.

[Majed]

@Theprofessional I bet you didn't do much pick up to say that. If you approach thousands of women a lot of your limiting beliefs will be shattered. Women do not get attracted to your money because attraction isn't logical, it's emotional. And attracting a wife or a girlfriend is the same process as attracting a one night stand, because attraction is the same thing. 

[Schizophonia]

You invent horrible scenarios because your ego likes to embody lack; a bit more like a woman or a homosexual.

That's called obsessive neurosis.

Edited 1 hour ago by Schizophonia

[Jowblob]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

You invent horrible scenarios because your ego likes to embody lack; a bit more like a woman or a homosexual.

That's called obsessive neurosis.

Dude your posts have been cracking me up recently, its so hilarious. Specially the post with you wearing a bowtie suit to take out the vegan hen

[something_else]

$270k? Why that specific number  I’m sorry but you have to be either chronically online or a bit thick to believe that if you’re not making more than precisely $270k then no women will ever look at you.

And yea, of course there are women out there who only care about money. The goal is to fucking avoid those women, lol. It sounds like you’re not doing a good job with that based on the opinions you’ve formed.

[Schizophonia]

28 minutes ago, Jowblob said:

Dude your posts have been cracking me up recently, its so hilarious. Specially the post with you wearing a bowtie suit to take out the vegan hen

Thank you, i jestermaxx

Edited 42 minutes ago by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

14 minutes ago, something_else said:

$270k? Why that specific number  I’m sorry but you have to be either chronically online or a bit thick to believe that if you’re not making more than precisely $270k then no women will ever look at you.

And yea, of course there are women out there who only care about money. The goal is to fucking avoid those women, lol. It sounds like you’re not doing a good job with that based on the opinions you’ve formed.

I thought I'd be able to take girls for a spin in my speedster once I'm hired at Carrefour for minimum wage, but visibly I'll have to wait a little longer to deflower me the pee-pee.

Too bad

 

"Vroom vroom 🚗"

Plays at driving (move the steering wheel in all directions) my crappy Dacia that I bought for 800 euros (because I don't have a license).*

Edited 44 minutes ago by Schizophonia

[Theprofessional]

@Majed I don’t have any limiting beliefs about women. This is exactly what I have lived and observed all my life. Most women literally only care about a monetary amount, and how much of that they can get from you. 

[Theprofessional]

@something_else $270k is the new six figures due to inflation, specifically in HCOL cities like Seattle and New York.