HELP! I really want to get a girlfriend !

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

11 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Ofc no you could have AIDS just as you could be cheated on.

The difference is that you identify with one situation for some reason and you don't with the other.

The projection of emotions is not a matter of probabilities.

Yeah, I identify with the one that can actually happen to me or is happening to me. Still not a good comparison. Also, who cares. Don't do onto the others what you don't want them to do to you is still a valid rule regardless of all this pointless analysing. It's yet another example of degeneracy and that's it for me, ofc if you wish to behave in degenerate ways you should have the right of freedom to do so to a certain extent. But I'm not joining

[Eskilon]

15 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

You're selfish all the time; you don't care about how your phone was made, the conditions under which the meat you eat was raised, your family, the insects you squash because they bother you, etc.

You suddenly become altruistic when it comes to these things because you recognize yourself for some reasons; it's your karma.

Yes, we are selfish creatures. But that doesnt mean anything goes, that's why we have rules, moral standards, and so on.

15 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I've already explained why I advised OP to do this.
Also, no one mentioned cheating on someone; a girl can politely leave her boyfriend before getting together with you.

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Also, just because the girls in your class have boyfriends doesn't mean you can't flirt with them; you might be better for her than he is.

yeah bro, you are not providing ground for the cheating to happen, sure lol. 

She will politely leave her boyfriend after the guy knows that she has a boyfriend and still flirts with her regardless. She totally left her boyfriend by herself lmao

Edited 3 hours ago by Eskilon

[Bando]

22 hours ago, Tudo said:

I live in Brazil, I'm average looking, 29 years old, a little skinny (70 kg), 186 cm tall, and I work out a little at home (I do pull-ups). I'm shy, so cold approach would be pretty tough if I choose that route. I'm a white latino.

Over 6 feet tall, white passing, med student & lives in brazil and your having trouble finding a girl? Further more your having don't have a social circle? That is very odd. Ive travled to Brazil before and the social culture there is insane, both the men and women are very open to conversation.

Try to ease your way into dating by doing online game, based on your description of yourself you should do fine. Choose the 3 biggest apps in your country and get 4-6 high quality photos of yourself and see what you can get.

Also try to ask the students in your university what they do after class and if you can join, having a social circle of both men and women can really open up opportunities for you, especially in a place where there is such a strong social culture.

Don't get too caught up in courses or theory people with the low social skill, introverted, analytical archetype need to cautions with consuming theory, they usually end up spending more time crafting elaborate frameworks for dating than actually going out to talk to women. 

 

[Spiral]

21 hours ago, Tudo said:

I have no friends and don't interact with women outside med school.

I’d focus on friends first. Doesn’t need to be deep and amazing friendships but something. 
 

The lone wolf is weak, a man with a tribe is strong.

[Tudo]

1 hour ago, Bando said:

Over 6 feet tall, white passing, med student & lives in brazil and your having trouble finding a girl? Further more your having don't have a social circle? That is very odd. Ive travled to Brazil before and the social culture there is insane, both the men and women are very open to conversation.

 

I have multiple women interested in me, the problem is they are not attractive to me. The ones I really want, usually young, white with german descent, for example, are tough to get. And I almost don't have any social circle. This will sound very low development, but being honest: I want my kids to be white looking and tall, so I won't settle to any girl. Maybe I will be  better off traveling to Russia, I think I could be considered pretty handsome over there but idk I'm just waiting to get my degree and have some money.

Edited 2 hours ago by Tudo

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Bando said:

white passing,

This is not an added bonus when trying to get dates. 

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Tudo said:

I have multiple women interested in me, the problem is they are not attractive to me. The ones I really want, usually young, white with german descent, for example, are tough to get. And I almost don't have any social circle. This will sound very low development, but being honest: I want my kids to be white looking and tall, so I won't settle to any girl. Maybe I will be  better off traveling to Russia, I think I could be considered pretty handsome over there but idk I'm just waiting to get my degree and have some money.

You should change the title of the thread to 'help, I can't get the type of female I want'. So misleading and a waste of people's time and energy. You're not looking for a girlfriend you seek someone to carry on your off-spring with your preferred looks and status.