Have you taken the BDSM test?

[MsNobody]

I came across this test a year ago and it’s helped me understand myself more. I was quite shocked with my results actually lol I feel like BDSM explores a whole new area of the unknown terrains within my mind. 

https://bdsmtest.org/select-language

BDSM and tantra are two main things that helped me tremendously in unlocking my sexuality and my body.
That’s why I love the work of Osho, he was one of the few spiritual gurus that spoke openly about sex and the wisdom of the body, without blaming or shaming it. 
 

Some quotes from him: 
"That's why orgasm is becoming more and more difficult. Ejaculation is not orgasm, to give birth to children is not orgasmic. Orgasm is the involvement of the total body: mind, body, soul, all together. You vibrate, your whole being vibrates, from the toes to the head. You are no longer in control; existence has taken possession of you and you don't know who you are. It is like a madness, it is like a sleep, it is like meditation, it is like death."

So really it happens that the more sexual a person is, the more inventive he can be. The more sexual a person is, the more intelligent. With less sex energy, less intelligence exists; with more sexual energy, more intelligence, because sex is a deep search to uncover, not only bodies, not only the opposite sex body, but everything that is hidden."

[Salvijus]

It seems I need to work a bit more on being more vanilla. 

Edited Tuesday at 09:38 AM by Salvijus

[Enigma777]

1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

I still have room to improve on my vanilla side. 

Dude scored a 100 on everything😂😂😂

[Salvijus]

1 hour ago, Enigma777 said:

Dude scored a 100 on everything😂😂😂

It's the price one pays for becoming honest. Every archetype exists in everyone if they were to accept it. Paradoxically it also makes you more unconditionally loving and less judgemental. Some would call it shadow work maybe. 

Edited Tuesday at 09:57 AM by Salvijus

[Schizophonia]

 

 

Edited Tuesday at 12:02 PM by Schizophonia

[MsNobody]

@Salvijus my goodness you scored all of them lol 

[MsNobody]

@Schizophonia that’s interesting, usually either dom or sub is high, but you have both 

[Never_give_up]

100% Switch 
96% Submissive 
85% Primal (Prey) 
81% Exhibitionist 
72% Non-monogamist 
67% Ageplayer 
57% Experimentalist 
49% Voyeur 
45% Vanilla 
38% Slave 
35% Dominant 
32% Degradee 
24% Rope bunny 
20% Primal (Hunter) 
15% Brat 
14% Owner 
13% Pet 
3% Degrader 
3% Master/Mistress 
0% Rigger 
0% Brat tamer 
0% Daddy/Mommy 
0% Little 
0% Masochist 
0% Sadist 
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==
https://bdsmtest.org/r/BgE4hz7S

[Schizophonia]

On 11/11/2025 at 3:41 PM, MsNobody said:

@Schizophonia that’s interesting, usually either dom or sub is high, but you have both 

It can also be exciting to be dominated, like being tied up, or simply "enduring" aggressive cunnilingus, aggressive cowgirl, etc.

 

On the other hand I really don't like the idea of hurting/humiliating someone or having someone try to hurt/humiliate me; I find it tedious and pointless.

Edited 13 hours ago by Schizophonia

[something_else]

It always freaks me out when I see high ageplay scores because I know what questions it asks for that category

[Salvijus]

58 minutes ago, MsNobody said:

@Salvijus my goodness you scored all of them lol 

 

[MsNobody]

The more religious background, the higher the scores lol 

[MsNobody]

@Schizophonia I know how it feels cause Im a sub  a lot of men mistake me for a dominatrix, not sure why lol Its rare to find dominant men, specially here in the bay area

[aurum]

You'll never get it out of me 

[UnbornTao]

48 minutes ago, MsNobody said:

The more religious background, the higher the scores lol 

Amen!

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, MsNobody said:

@Schizophonia I know how it feels cause Im a sub  a lot of men mistake me for a dominatrix, not sure why lol Its rare to find dominant men, specially here in the bay area

Because you intimidate them and for some reason they intuitively think you're going to try to dominate them.

Whereas of course it can go the other way, a strong desire to be submissive; a person's energy level and/or physic has nothing to do with his/her sexual behavior.

A person who is generally dominant as you conceive of it can be calm (like me😏 ) and a person with high energy, intimidating or even violent, can be particularly submissive.

Edited Tuesday at 10:25 PM by Schizophonia

[Hojo]

[Salvijus]

10 hours ago, MsNobody said:

The more religious background, the higher the scores lol 

10 hours ago, UnbornTao said:

Amen!

Amen indeed. All energy is innocent. Let no stone be left unturned, let it all be imbued and embraced with the Christ Light and transformed into greater Glroy. La-alahm, Ahl-meen, Amen. 

Edited 22 hours ago by Salvijus

[Emerald]

10 hours ago, aurum said:

You'll never get it out of me 

Oh come on now. Everyone knows you're a brat.  j/k

[MsNobody]

@UnbornTao 🤣

@aurum @Emerald curious to see your results!!