Leo Gura

The Psychology Of Conformity -- New Video!

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I asked Claude AI why is it the case that humans take the adherence to social norms so seriously. I thought the response was quite good, pairs great with Leo's video on conformity.

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Response from Claude:

Humans take social norms seriously for several deeply intertwined evolutionary, psychological, and social reasons:

Survival and cooperation: For most of human history, being excluded from your group meant death. Our ancestors needed to hunt together, share resources, and defend against threats. People who violated norms risked ostracism, which was essentially a death sentence. This created intense evolutionary pressure to care about social rules and to feel anxious about breaking them.

The shame and guilt systems: We evolved powerful emotional responses—shame (fear of others' judgment) and guilt (internal moral discomfort)—that activate when we violate or consider violating norms. These feelings are so uncomfortable that they effectively police our behavior from the inside, often without conscious thought.

Reputation as currency: In social groups, your reputation determines who will cooperate with you, who will trust you, and who will help you in times of need. Even in modern society with formal institutions, reputation still matters enormously. People monitor norm violations as signals of trustworthiness.

Coordination and predictability: Social norms create shared expectations that allow complex coordination. When everyone follows traffic norms, navigation works. When everyone respects property norms, trade becomes possible. Violations introduce chaos and uncertainty that threaten collective benefits.

Identity and belonging: Following group norms signals membership and loyalty. Humans have a deep need to belong, and conforming to norms is how we demonstrate that we're "one of us" rather than "one of them." Violating norms can feel like betraying your identity.

The intensity makes sense when you consider that for hundreds of thousands of years, your life literally depended on remaining in good standing with your group. Those anxieties are still with us, even when the stakes are now much lower.

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19 minutes ago, EternalForest said:

Best costume yet

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Zen stick, or pimp cane? 😇


Deal with the issue now, on your terms, in your control. Or the issue will deal with you, in ways you won't appreciate, and cannot control.

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13 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Not yet a man.

Not yet a woman.

 

But ALWAYS a Woo Man

xD

Reminds me of wee woo

 

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Good example of a conformist mind.

Big no no to question having belief and faith in something for these minds

Edited by Terell Kirby

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Great leadership entails being non-conformist


God-Realize, this is First Business. Know that unless I live properly, this is not possible.

There is this body, I should know the requirements of my body. This is first duty.  We have obligations towards others, loved ones, family, society, etc. Without material wealth we cannot do these things, for that a professional duty.

There is Mind; mind is tricky. Its higher nature should be nurtured, then Mind becomes Wise, Virtuous and AWAKE. When all Duties are continuously fulfilled, then life becomes steady. In this steady life GOD is available; via 5-MeO-DMT, because The Sun shines through All: Living in Self-Love, Realizing I am Infinity & I am God

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I only saw the first 45 minutes, but so far its great! Thank you, Leo! Also the costume is crazy!:D

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Paradoxically, Halloween parties and costumes are conformity. 

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In the video he said something about buddhism being dogmatic, i wonder what are the Budist dogmas? 

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