My Path to Transcending Sex as a 32-Year-Old Virgin

[Sugarcoat]

42 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

That was an interesting one. I too would've said it's a completely different person. Would've been interesting to see the confirmation. 

 

Who knows…

42 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

 

I used to think you're a male at one point. At the very beginning, lol. I guess I shouldn't have made fun of other people's lack of discernment, haha. 

I can understand that 

[Sugarcoat]

35 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

It happens to those who shamelessly post all their thoughts I guess. 

Yea

[Schizophonia]

Makes me want to make secondary accounts to congratulate myself.

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

@Princess Arabia If you are not her then why do you give a shit what I say, or anyone else here says, like you just accused me of being this Kid A guy or whoever but I literaly could not give less of a shit. Meanwhile you are out here writing dissertations about how you're not her and caring so much about it, as evidenced by another 15 posts you've just made. LOL

Doesn't matter. You're asking me to respond to the situation how you see fit and how you've responded. I respond how I feel like responding not how you see yourself responding. I'm not you. Nor Preety. I can write a response in the form of a book, or a clap back song or a blog post. Still trying to order me around and tell me what to do and how to do it. I still don't give a shit what you say and I don't give a shit about what you think about the way I respond and I can make 15 more posts and there's not a thing you can do about it but to stay in your man cave and bitch.

[integration journey]

4 hours ago, Kid A said:

What is certain is that Preety India has been deceiving and wasting the time of many people on this forum for years, and with far less suspicious accounts that I would never have thought were her. Even her husband turned out to be just her duplicate account... She could be just about anyone here. This has ruined the forum quite a bit for me and I feel it's my duty to speak up if I suspect someone of being her.

Why is she doing that? Is it a mental issue  

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

41 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Doesn't matter. You're asking me to respond to the situation how you see fit and how you've responded. I respond how I feel like responding not how you see yourself responding. I'm not you. Nor Preety. I can write a response in the form of a book, or a clap back song or a blog post. Still trying to order me around and tell me what to do and how to do it. I still don't give a shit what you say and I don't give a shit about what you think about the way I respond and I can make 15 more posts and there's not a thing you can do about it but to stay in your man cave and bitch.

Ooooh you got me good there I admit, clearly the best course of action for me right now, is to cry my eyes out into a pillow. I have no other choice clearly, since you adressed my criticisms and completely cleansed yourself of any suspicion

[Kid A]

2 hours ago, integration journey said:

Why is she doing that? Is it a mental issue  

God knows. Probably.
 

It may be some of the worst behavior I’ve ever come across. You almost can't help but admire that kind of destructiveness. One person who single-handedly makes it so much harder to trust people here and who thereby also lowers the quality of the forum considerably. Simply incredible.

Edited July 5 by Kid A

[Kid A]

5 hours ago, Salvijus said:

Not being able to tell the difference between her and princess is a crime against intelligence.

I highly recommend that you, as a Trump supporter, steer clear of the topic of «crime against intelligence.»

[Natasha Tori Maru]

9 hours ago, Kid A said:

What is certain is that Preety India has been deceiving and wasting the time of many people on this forum for years, and with far less suspicious accounts that I would never have thought were her. Even her husband turned out to be just her duplicate account... She could be just about anyone here. This has ruined the forum quite a bit for me and I feel it's my duty to speak up if I suspect someone of being her.

Stinks of virtue signaling - if you were serious with your accusation and not looking to simply slander and undermine @Princess Arabia, you would have simply PM'd the mods. Or Leo. But you chose to publicly announce this.

Your intent was to discredit her and damage her reputationally with this statement.

I do not know the full extent of what Preety India did, but I suggest conducting yourself with more respect if you suspect someone as her.

@Princess Arabia There is a lot of projection on this forum toward strong, self-assured women. I have been accused of being Preety India, also. If you don't package what you are saying in a nice little bow covered wrapping, users get bent out of shape. Expecting agreeableness from women. 

I speak up to back you as I think this is a problem.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

@Natasha Tori Maru Bringing up being a strong, independent woman without anyone asking. This gotta be a woman's version of "I'm a vegan"

[Salvijus]

7 hours ago, Kid A said:

I highly recommend that you, as a Trump supporter, steer clear of the topic of «crime against intelligence.»

Sorry for expressing my view in the way that I did. 

[Kid A]

5 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Stinks of virtue signaling - if you were serious with your accusation and not looking to simply slander and undermine @Princess Arabia, you would have simply PM'd the mods. Or Leo. But you chose to publicly announce this.

Your intent was to discredit her and damage her reputationally with this statement.

I do not know the full extent of what Preety India did, but I suggest conducting yourself with more respect if you suspect someone as her.

@Princess Arabia There is a lot of projection on this forum toward strong, self-assured women. I have been accused of being Preety India, also. If you don't package what you are saying in a nice little bow covered wrapping, users get bent out of shape. Expecting agreeableness from women. 

I speak up to back you as I think this is a problem.

I'm actually open to the possibility that this might not have been the best way to do it.

The problem is that Leo has said he has double-checked this, and I have very low trust in him here. He was so certain that Tyler Robinson and Preety India were "definitely not" the same person, even though it was as obvious as it gets.

[Kid A]

15 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Sorry for expressing my view in the way that I did. 

No problem! I probably deserved it. 

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Kid A said:

I'm actually open to the possibility that this might not have been the best way to do it.

The problem is that Leo has said he has double-checked this, and I have very low trust in him here. He was so certain that Tyler Robinson and Preety India were "definitely not" the same person, even though it was as obvious as it gets.

This situation can't get any worse than this. Admin admits to double checking me and you're still PARANOID. That woman did a number on you. Maybe look into that instead of trying to ruin other's reputation. I see you to be the problem here and the common denominator in all of this. 

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Kid A said:

I'm actually open to the possibility that this might not have been the best way to do it.

The problem I see here is not that there might be a Preety or Tyler lurking on the forum anonymously, is that you cannot come out and straightforwardly say you were wrong in your approach in any way shape or form and keep hinting on the side that I might be her and there's still some unsurety, so I'm going to not come right out and take full responsibility for my actions. Some blame has to be on her for my paranoia and mistrust. Open to the possibility? It's right out not the way to go about it. You're the one that needs to be investigated here for harassment and lack of discernment on handling such delicate matters. I'm still speaking up about this to point out how one can just so blatantly be so arrogant in how they handle a matter and still stick to their side even when backed in a corner. The level of public 'abuse' that us women have to deal with by some entitled guys who have no respect for other's rights and feels it's ok to publicly slander someone on some fucking paranoid hunch is absurd.

I mean itls quite obvious i'm not her at this point if you get out of your ass and look into how much the response is overwhelmingly showing so but you want to half assedly wiggly your way out of admitting fully how wrong you were in your approach. And please no one except for admin or mods please tell me to shut up and get over this and stop responding because it's just another fucking tactic to silence women and to shut us up and that's why this man thinks he can just do and say whatever here as it doesn't matter to him because I'm the dominant one here and it's about a bunch of women who are subordinates and doesn't matter. I rule over this matter and can even override admins ways and policies and until I'm confronted with 100% proof I will continue to stick to my suspicions.

If you're wrong you apologize. What kind of an apology is that. Still can't admit how you're the problem here and show how you're sorry for the chaos you started but youre leaving a part open in case you're right. I'm sorry but not if i'm right. I'll apologize ahead of time for something that maybe can't be 100% full proof so I'm not really apologizing for anything at all, just putting a red bow and prettying up my asshole mistake.

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Edited July 5 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

8 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I have been accused of being Preety India, also. If you don't package what you are saying in a nice little bow covered wrapping, users get bent out of shape. Expecting agreeableness from women. 

I speak up to back you as I think this is a problem.

How many of us are going to be her. It's like some of these men can't handle women speaking on a forum and expressing themselves publicly; so they try to slander and silence us the best way they know how. This isn't the first time I've been either and the person that accused me before of being her, I don't even see on here anymore been months now. They come and they go and don't care who they step on in the process. There needs to be a policy of not even mentioning that name anymore and anybody accusing anybody publicly of being preety automatically gets points. Something needs to be done. It's not a nice thing to be accused of impersonation. They keep doing it because they can. Then they leave and move on to the next place to victimize some other woman and that's how they get their revenge. 

[Sincerity]

Guys, please quit spinning this shit, Leo and the Mod team know for a fact Princess is not Preety. Leo looked into her (and many others) extensively in advanced administrative ways, not even available to Mods. We’re almost certain she isn’t present on this forum right now with any duplicate account.

Look how you’ve massacred the thread with this drama. Please, no more of this. Respect OP’s thread.

Edited July 5 by Sincerity

[Sucuk Ekmek]

On 04.07.2025 at 8:50 PM, Sugarcoat said:

@Sucuk Ekmek Are you named after that one particular sausage or what is your name about? 😂😂😂 Got me thinking of sausage every time I see your name

You are right, it's this particular sausage and the bread too. Because you can't enjoy a good sausage without some crisp bread. 

 

Edited July 5 by Sucuk Ekmek

[eTorro]

Guys, the topic is about sex and spirituality. Enough with the fights—they're pointless, leading you nowhere.

Last week I told a guy from work that I'm still a virgin at 32. He believed me. And he told a woman co-worker that I never touched a girl in my entire life.

She didn't believe him, and she told him that "I'm only saying this to mask that I was sleeping with many women."

It's fascinating that guys easily believe me while women don't. Why is that?

[Schizophonia]

42 minutes ago, eTorro said:

Guys, the topic is about sex and spirituality. Enough with the fights—they're pointless, leading you nowhere.

Last week I told a guy from work that I'm still a virgin at 32. He believed me. And he told a woman co-worker that I never touched a girl in my entire life.

She didn't believe him, and she told him that "I'm only saying this to mask that I was sleeping with many women."

It's fascinating that guys easily believe me while women don't. Why is that?

It could very well have been the opposite.

If your Oedipus complex is poorly regulated, your psyche is structured around the (unconscious, repressed) idea that you are the plaything of a dominant maternal figure, which generates a (stronger than average) inclination toward anal sadistic regression.
Anal sadistic regression is conflictual, and therefore generates exhausting defense mechanisms.
Returning to homeostasis requires a lowering of defense mechanisms, and therefore a masochistic inclination; you seek proof of your inability to subjectivize yourself in the face of the maternal figure and its substitutes to convince yourself to abandon the defense mechanisms against anality.

You'd like me to tell you that women don't want to believe you because they have an advantage in relationships or something like that.
Because that would trigger a learned helplessness in you strong enough to allow you to indulge in your anality; Which translates into destructiveness and things like that.

Perhaps this thread itself is even a secret, unconscious attempt to seek out the father as a separator from the all-consuming maternal figure.
Like you expose your delusion of proudly cutting yourself off from your sexuality with the tacit desire for someone to awaken in you your delusion for finally turn being phallic, that is, of owning up to your sexuality.

Spirituality is one of the largest breeding grounds for people suffering from compulsion neurosis.
The common thread is a typical alternation, a split, between a pole dominated by defense mechanisms (stoic, rigid, supposedly super-mature) and the pole dominated by anality (irresponsible, cynical, disdainful, etc.).

Edited July 7 by Schizophonia