Why Women Prefer Betas

[Emerald]

Have fun with your loneliness epidemic, I guess.

I hope you all find a more fulfilling and less transactional way to relate to other people.

[Emerald]

19 minutes ago, aurum said:

Everyone living creature is maximizing its reproductive success within whatever constraints it has.

Leo is correct about this.

What about women who are past menopause?

[Leo Gura]

If you are happy with the Walmart crowd, I got the perfect solution to solve your loneliness problems: go game your local Walmart. You will never be lonely again.

Emerald just solved all of our dating problems, boys.

Edited June 10 by Leo Gura

[yetineti]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Irrelevant. Go socialize.

You’re a master distorter. 

You brought up your feelings— not me.

You do not have clarity on this topic and that bothers you.

Emerald is an edge case— sure. 

But she’s also right.

 

 

[Leo Gura]

Just now, yetineti said:

You brought up your feelings— not me.

I brought up their irrelevance.

You distorter.

[samijiben]

This is all very simple, folks. 

If you want pussy, go get it. Might be hard. But that's irrelevant. 

And the philosophies and perspectives that purport to explain any of this nonsense are all part of the game. 

That's all low-level Zhenanigans. There is a profound reason that Leo made subforums. This subforum is a joke, folks. Whole thing. It's only leading to......

THE SPIRITUALITY/ENLIGHTENMENT subforum! Lol, seriously..

 

For that is what you truly want... not some bitch, some hoe, some divine Woman who is DEVELOPED AND SPIRITUAL AND HOT! GREAT!

you still won't be happy, prick. God's Love is all you want. And a girlfriend won't give you that. Cuz she don't got it. My duddeeee!

[Jacob Morres]

@Emerald how come in dating apps, the men you describe only see tumbleweed 

Edited June 10 by Jacob Morres

[Emerald]

8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

If you are happy with the Walmart crowd, I got the perfect solution to solve your loneliness problems: go game your local Walmart. You will never be lonely again.

Emerald just solved all of our dating problems, boys.

The ways you guys try to solve your dating problems just make you lonelier and more disconnected.

If you could really internalize what I'm telling you, then you would actually feel better and be able to connect with a romantic partner... rather than just engaging in this weird hierarchical transactional game.

Propaganda is one hell of a drug.

[Emerald]

4 minutes ago, Jacob Morres said:

@Emerald how come in dating apps, the men you describe only see tumbleweed 

Because dating apps aren't where real social interactions happen.

That's just shopping for dates the way you would anything else.

[aurum]

10 minutes ago, Emerald said:

What about women who are past menopause?

Their actual "reproducing" days might be over, but they are still going to take care of their kids and maximize their survival in other ways.

[yetineti]

@Leo Gura

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I brought up their irrelevance.

You distorter.

Nobody mentioned your feelings but you.

[Emerald]

1 minute ago, aurum said:

Their actual "reproducing" days might be over, but they are still going to take care of their kids and maximize their survival in other ways.

Yes! And community is truly the ultimate reproduction and survival game for the human being in general... as all other reproductive and survival needs are met through community.

So, what happens when men are learning how to "reproduce" through narratives that make them more socially repellent and work at cross-purposes to their ability to socially connect within a human community?

Social degeneration... of course.

[Emerald]

27 minutes ago, yetineti said:

You’re a master distorter. 

You brought up your feelings— not me.

You do not have clarity on this topic and that bothers you.

Emerald is an edge case— sure. 

But she’s also right.

Thank you.

But I'm not an edge case in these ways, at all. And I don't like it when people assume that my wisdom makes me somehow not human-like.

I'm a very ordinary human when it comes to my relationship with other humans. There is nothing special or different about me in any kind of meaningful way, when it comes to my relationship with humanity.

And I find many average men quite intriguing and beautiful. But only when they're not trying.

I suppose, the only things extraordinary about me in this regard is that I value ordinariness and have a hobby for wisdom-seeking.

And you can only become wise when you stop trying to be some super-human and recognize that there's nothing so special about you.

Memento Mori.

[samijiben]

Lol, I just had epiphany as to why Leo's position on this matter is the way it is

Indeed, Walmart women are not gonna cut it. Us men seek the FINEST PIECE OF ASS OF THEM ALL

That is, God

[Jacob Morres]

26 minutes ago, Emerald said:

Because dating apps aren't where real social interactions happen.

That's just shopping for dates the way you would anything else.

at the very least this does poke a hole in the "preferences" argument? certain guys get extraordinary results on dating apps 

[Emerald]

4 minutes ago, samijiben said:

Lol, I just had epiphany as to why Leo's position on this matter is the way it is

Indeed, Walmart women are not gonna cut it. Us men seek the FINEST PIECE OF ASS OF THEM ALL

That is, God

Yes, there are lots of men only want the top 10% of women and just want to have a bunch of sex.

Then they bitterly settle for beta gals that they don't really care about when they fail.

Sounds familiar, no?

Edit: I just got the God part of the joke. But what I said still stands.

Edited June 10 by Emerald

[aurum]

1 minute ago, Emerald said:

So, what happens when men are learning how to "reproduce" through narratives that make them more socially repellent and work at cross-purposes to their ability to socially connect within a human community?

Social degeneration... of course.

Sure, and you can call that out if you see it. I do it quite a bit. Guys bring all sorts of beliefs to the forum I don't agree with.

But I don't think it's social degeneration to point out that everyone is maximizing their survival value. Or that a small percentage of men tend to have the most success with dating. Dating is competitive, and winners rise to the top.

I find this highly illuminating.

I think your real concern is that this will feed into male misogyny / victim complex / hyper-competitiveness. That is a risk. So there is a responsibility to explain these things to minimize that.  

[Emerald]

4 minutes ago, Jacob Morres said:

at the very least this does poke a hole in the "preferences" argument? certain guys get extraordinary results on dating apps 

It doesn't poke a hole in that argument at all.

To have a human connection, you have to get to know that person in person.

On a dating app, it's purely visual and informational. So, people have to choose based off of that in terms of who they're going to give it a try with.

And men are very visual... but women are not. So, it's not the way that women actually develop feelings.

In real life, there can be actual chemistry and human-to-human connection. And only then do women really see the beauty of a particular man.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

47 minutes ago, Emerald said:

The ways you guys try to solve your dating problems just make you lonelier and more disconnected.

And the way you're giving advice is not very practical at all. At least Leo is mainly focusing on the practical part, while you keep debating the principles endlessly. And if you were just honest you'd admit that there are not many real solutions to these problems anyway, if any. Instead of just wanting to be right all the time

Edited June 10 by NewKidOnTheBlock

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Fucking. Fucking never changes.

It's always been about maximizing value. Deny it all you want but survival runs you through and through.

Always with the smut, he loves the dirt

You are way too reductionary with this, when there are nuances and higher values that come into play with higher consciousness states. 

Love can override fucking. Love will make you into Eunuch mode, if the calling is strong enough.

I perceive you as constantly communicating:  'I will dump any woman for anything better that comes along'