My situation with women.

[Majed]

So as i got into pick up i realized that i had the possibility of attracting pretty much any girl i like. I did 2500 approaches, saw the immense potential i could have with girls, however i didn't got laid a single time, not due to being bad with women, or them not liking me but for other issues: mainly struggling with logistical problems due to a lack of money because i still live with my parents and have no source of income. 

Ideally i want to move out of beirut to a city with a better night life, but honestly even in beirut, i could easily get laid if i got the basics down, which require an income. 

Now my main goal, is to create a decent income source so that i could get laid. 

I realized that what was holding me back was not my genetics or my social skills, since i've achieved on two nights to make out with 10 women per night. There is no way in hell you get that without good looks, or good social skills. The only issue to fix is having a decent income. I don't want a girlfriend, or a wife, my goal is to be a player who sleeps with a lot of women. This is what i genuinely desire and feel most authentic to me. 

Edited June 7 by Majed

[aurum]

16 minutes ago, Majed said:

mainly struggling with logistical problems due to a lack of money

Good.

Logistics is criminally neglected by almost all guys doing game. It's so foolish.

Also, if your logistics are terrible, it IS possible to just go to her place. Some girls even prefer that because it's more comfortable for them, versus going to a stranger's apartment. It just won't be as consistent, as you're more at the mercy of fate.

Beware of excuses.

Edited June 7 by aurum

[something_else]

I’m guessing that because you’re in a conservative Muslim city, hooking up is a lot more frowned upon? You’re probably making the right call to move.

Logistics wise, I got laid the most in my life when I lived a 30 second walk from the door to a nightclub. Fun times.

[Majed]

@something_else Beirut is everything but a conservative muslim city. We have parties, alcohol, night clubs, women dressed half naked, gay clubs...

Edited June 7 by Majed

[Kid A]

1 hour ago, Majed said:

@something_else Beirut is everything but a conservative muslim city. We have parties, alcohol, night clubs, women dressed half naked, gay clubs...

And Hezbollah. Such a fascinating country!

[something_else]

3 hours ago, Majed said:

@something_else Beirut is everything but a conservative muslim city. We have parties, alcohol, night clubs, women dressed half naked, gay clubs...

I‘m surprised you’ve made out with 10 women in a night and not got laid with any then. Because in my experience at least 50% of the women I’ve kissed in clubs have ended up sleeping with me

[Princess Arabia]

13 hours ago, Majed said:

I realized that what was holding me back was not my genetics or my social skills, since i've achieved on two nights to make out with 10 women per night.

Sounds like a Walmart bargain. Buy 10 get one free.

 

13 hours ago, Majed said:

I don't want a girlfriend, or a wife, my goal is to be a player who sleeps with a lot of women.

Not worth much, I see. I will continue to show how women are the prize.

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

6 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Not worth much, I see. I will continue to show how women are the prize.

Not all women want the same things. I'd rather deal with women who are easier and lower maintanance

[something_else]

23 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Not worth much, I see. I will continue to show how women are the prize.

This is so judgy

[Lyubov]

Your own flat is very important. Maybe some people don’t give a fuck but I want some privacy. That’s a pretty tough mental barrier to overcome not having your own place and to live with parents. Pulling girls from one place to a better place is crucial. Logistics is very important. Unless you live in Brazil where you can just have sex on the beach. 

[Princess Arabia]

29 minutes ago, something_else said:

This is so judgy

"My goal is to be a player who sleeps with a lot of women". Can't be that without lying, scheming, plotting and all that comes with being a player that wants to sleep with a lot of women. Sleeping with lots of women on it's own is different from setting that as a goal. Nothing wrong with that, but nothing wrong in pointing out how that's worthless either.

[Someone here]

14 hours ago, Majed said:

So as i got into pick up i realized that i had the possibility of attracting pretty much any girl i like. I did 2500 approaches, saw the immense potential i could have with girls, however i didn't got laid a single time, not due to being bad with women, or them not liking me but for other issues: mainly struggling with logistical problems due to a lack of money because i still live with my parents and have no source of income. 

1- I don't believe you actually did 2500 approaches. Are you fucking kidding me ? And if you actually did then I recommend cutting off your dick because you are obsessed with women and sexuality (obviously this is just harsh sarcasm so relax ,mods).

2- obviously you didn't get laid .what did you expect ..? Pulling a girl to your parent's house ? Its like " hey girl you look great ..I like your makeup and hairstyle ..would you like some fun..come join me in my mom's house lol 😂).

14 hours ago, Majed said:

I don't want a girlfriend, or a wife, my goal is to be a player who sleeps with a lot of women. This is what i genuinely desire and feel most authentic to me.

Go for it .just keep in mind it's gonna do nothing to you In the end and not fulfil you . Fucking all the bitches in the world won't do anything for you.

[Princess Arabia]

52 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Not all women want the same things. I'd rather deal with women who are easier and lower maintanance

Nothing wrong with that. Who doesn't want the easier things in life. I myself sometimes have to be at ease when circumstances calls for it.

[Hojo]

@something_elseThe reason she picked it out is because this mindset is threatening to women. Hes being honest which is not easy and she is throwing insults because its threatening to womans survival that men think this is okay. Women set the standards of what a man should be and if we deviate from pure dedication to one woman the whole social structure falls apart.

Every man wants this its how God made man. A woman made a rule that they cant express this openly. When they do they are suddenly trashy and the woman must be wal mart hookers.

Yes even prince charming a 'real man' wants this.

Edited June 7 by Hojo

[Natasha Tori Maru]

I've had enough experience to know most people need to learn lessons through doing. 

I don't think words will deter from this path. It is for Majed to learn the hollowness of pleasure for pleasures sake. 

Haven't we all been through this process before, or are currently going through it, in some way? 

My only wish would be for pleasure to never be taken at the expense of others, you don't want to be up at night renumerating on your actions. 

[PsychedelicEagle]

On 6/7/2025 at 11:22 PM, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I don't think words will deter from this path. It is for Majed to learn the hollowness of pleasure for pleasures sake. 

Haven't we all been through this process before, or are currently going through it, in some way? 

My only wish would be for pleasure to never be taken at the expense of others, you don't want to be up at night renumerating on your actions.

+1

It may be more effective to directly jump into the swamp and see how it's like (with responsibility). Instead of trying to supress these desires.

Edited June 9 by PsychedelicEagle