Don't tell me that this insane approach actually works on girls

[Majed]

@Schizophonia She's very feminine, what do you mean?

[Majed]

@Leo Gura Personally maybe it is because i go straight for the number after a few seconds of talking to her.

Edited Tuesday at 09:44 PM by Majed

[Leo Gura]

Just now, Majed said:

@Leo Gura Personally maybe it is because i go straight for the number after a few seconds of talking to her.

Why would you do that?

That's so weird. Like you are a marketing robot.

[Majed]

@Leo Gura She doesn't just say no, they say no thank you, or i am taken, or something along those lines. It's never just a no bomb lmao

[Majed]

@Leo Gura I mean my interactions are fast: -Hey i found you beautiful and wanted to come over and compliment you.

                                                                             -Thank you!

                                                                            -What's your name ? 

                                                                             -My name is andrea.

                                                                             -Nice to meet you andrea, my name is majed.

                                                                             -Nice to meet you.

                                                                             -Should we keep contact ? we can hang out later on.

                                                                             -No, thank you, i'm taken.

                                                                             -No problem, have a nice day. 

Edited Tuesday at 09:50 PM by Majed

[Nemra]

@Schizophonia

[Nemra]

50 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

My brother was assaulted by a woman in Scandinavia in a bar 

Giants doing giant things. 

[Leo Gura]

46 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura I mean my interactions are fast: -Hey i found you beautiful and wanted to come over and compliment you.

                                                                             -Thank you!

                                                                            -What's your name ? 

                                                                             -My name is andrea.

                                                                             -Nice to meet you andrea, my name is majed.

                                                                             -Nice to meet you.

                                                                             -Should we keep contact ? we can hang out later on.

                                                                             -No, thank you, i'm taken.

                                                                             -No problem, have a nice day. 

That's why you're not getting results.

Your method is terrible. Like throwing shit at the wall and hoping some piece sticks.

You have to build an emotional connection with the girl to give her a reason to want to hang out or even respond to your calls.

You are missing the whole art of game. You don't know how to flirt and how to establish a human connection. This is why girls don't sleep with you.

Edited Tuesday at 10:36 PM by Leo Gura

[Majed]

@Leo Gura I guess it is because i'm not gaming as much as i used to before, i used to talk longer with girls, these days i'm more focused on building my career which will allow me to go to a better city, as well as get the right logistics, and then i'll be able to sleep with girls. 

[Majed]

@Leo Gura Btw my psychiatrist told me that given the medications i take i can't continue my education, my brain wouldn't be able to handle both the mental exhaustion due to education and the medications. What do you think i should do to build a career ? He told me to focus on the family business i got with my dad and grandparents, we have a coffee business, i can survive with that, even thrive, i can probably travel and open the same coffee shop with the brand we got elsewhere in a city where game works. What do you think? 

However he told me that he is also gonna reduce my medication with time, so i may be able to pursue my education after i reduce the medications. 

Should i pursue education or should i focus on the coffee shop business, i am confused a bit. 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Majed said:

 I mean my interactions are fast: -Hey i found you beautiful and wanted to come over and compliment you.

Corny. That's for a husband to keep telling his wife or an already established date. "Telling her she's beautiful, I mean". No need to tell a stranger you're trying to hit on/date/sleep with you find them beautiful. Ugly females might care, but a beautiful woman or even an average female doesn't really care about these lines. That doesn't hit an emotion. It's generic, cliche and puts you beneath her right off the bat. 

Telling a random female she's beautiful just for telling her she's beautiful and keep it moving is a different story. Nothing awkward about that. It's the one's you're trying to pick up where it makes a difference. What if I wasn't beautiful, what if we get married and I lose my looks, what if another beautiful woman comes along.....these are subconscious responses going on in her head without her even saying a word. The compliment is nice, but it's not a way for a female to see you differently or someone she really wants to get to know. Exceptions are there, of course, I'm speaking generally and from my pov.

[Leo Gura]

16 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

what if we get married and I lose my looks, what if another beautiful woman comes along.....these are subconscious responses going on in her head

That's why you open with the counter-intuitive: "Hey! You're ugly but I love you anyway."

Assuages all her fears.

Edited Tuesday at 11:18 PM by Leo Gura

[Princess Arabia]

23 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That's why you open with the counter-intuitive: "Hey! You're ugly but I love you anyway."

Assuages all her fears.

As long as she's not really ugly. 😜

[Nemra]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Not in my sex life.

In the media, sure.

So, you confirm that they are the next best thing to gold. 

[aurum]

@Raze there's way too much in your last response for me to address and untangle everything. So I'm just going to make general comments.

Have you approached women? Because most of your objections could be answered if you did instead of engaging with incel ragebait.

You would see that the vast majority of women have no problem at all with you approaching them if it's done in socially calibrated way. You would see that "rejection", to extent it even happens, is not a big deal. You would see that game is mostly just about going out, having a fun time, vibing with people and following up with women that seem interested.

You need no invitation to approach at all as long as you're EMPATHETIC to her situation and know when you've crossed a line.

And if you really have a problem with cold approach, there are other ways to meet women. Cold approach is hardcore, but you can do something more indirect like building a social circle. This tends to a safer option.

Final point: you have a misunderstanding of what women are testing / filtering for. Women are NOT just testing to see if you're some player. They are testing for your investment, engagement in the relationship and leadership. Most women want long-term relationships, and you can sure they are looking to see if you are a good fit for that.

Edited Wednesday at 12:43 AM by aurum

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura Does abundance mindset improve one's chances of connecting with someone ? Is it true that no matter how much I am rejected there will be someone who will be receptive to me ? Also, I have found that while many girls rejected me some girls were receptive to me .

[Leo Gura]

14 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@Leo Gura Does abundance mindset improve one's chances of connecting with someone ?

Yes.

14 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

Also, I have found that while many girls rejected me some girls were receptive to me .

That means they are open to sleeping with you if you handle the interaction skillfully.

[AION]

What guys don’t get is you don’t need to do anything to deserve sex and affection. Attraction is pre verbal and just being a man is enough. 

But the thing is you need to build this masculine presence and need to be somewhat fit and stylish.  All that mental gymnastics about what women want doesn’t work; these limiting beliefs are why you don’t get any. What women want is a mystery and you should be in peace with that. 

The book of not knowing taught me how to get out of my head and just ~ be. It is so simple and so difficult. Just being is the ultimate pussy magnet. And I know it sounds insane and it really works. 

Edited Wednesday at 06:42 AM by AION

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, AION said:

What women want is a mystery

It's not a mystery at all. But you shouldn't be running around trying to micro-target their wants.

Just be playful and flirt. It's not about trying to be someone special to suit her.

You basically see a girl you like and then you play with her from approach to your bed. And you never waste a single second thinking about whether you're good enough for her or any such logical crap.

If she's not into it you just pick another girl and try again.

Edited Wednesday at 06:46 AM by Leo Gura

[Raze]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It's not a mystery at all. But you shouldn't be running around trying to micro-target their wants.

Just be playful and flirt. It's not about trying to be someone special to suit her.

You basically see a girl you like and then you play with her from approach to your bed. And you never waste a single second thinking about whether you're good enough for her or any such logical crap.

The highest level of game is shifting your approach toward the women based on predicting what she likes and getting her to chase you.