Don't Allow Idiots to Ruin Your Life

[SQAAD]

One of the biggest things that has held me back from actualizing the best version of myself is other people.

A lot of people around us are in a very poor state of Mind.

. When you become more conscious, many people will feel uncomfortable and threatened by you. They will judge you, criticize you, or try to bring you down. This is just a survival reaction. 'Attack and destroy' whatever is threatening in order to maintain my silly fantasies about how the world really works.

These people don’t really want to hear the truth. They just want to hold on to their beliefs, their habits, and their comfort zones — even if it’s all based on lies or illusions. They’re not ready to see things differently. They will not support you on your path.

If you've been watching someone like Leo Gura for a while and doing deep inner work — thinking for yourself, meditating, reflecting on life — then you're already far ahead of most people when it comes to spiritual and psychological awareness.

Ground yourself in your truth. Stay connected to what feels real and meaningful to you. Don't let unconscious people pull you back down. Stay focused on your growth.

One insight that has helped me enormously to ignore and avoid all idiots is the following realization "these people are more miserable than myself. Why do i even care? They do not have the results that i care for"

Who is an idiot? If you are not aware that you are not the thinker of your thoughts  you are by definition an idiot, executing the conditioning you received from your society. 

The results of this conditioning is low consciousness, greed, war, extreme inequality, people like Andrew Tate, Trump , Putin, etc.

Not waking up is dangerous.

 

Edited Wednesday at 08:08 AM by SQAAD

[Aaron p]

Yeah I've come to the conclusion that I need to be very selective of who I hang around with. Something about my presence just brings forth people's true selves. 

Most of the time this means that you get to witness each person's demons. Occasionally however I get to see that there are some very very good people. But yeah count me out if you're hanging around degenerates with major Shadows... I will pull that shit right out of them and they will spray it all over me. I can't even control it

[Schizophonia]

Projection/mirror effect.

I don't see people like that in my world.

You win when you stop investing in language, not by borrowing it to pretend to fight and try to destroy those you claim to be the initiators of duality.
You will never win; that's the illusion of duality, the simulation of duality; it's like trying to beat a treadmill.

This topic and other similar topics that I see, which also make me want to intervene, say about me that I like at the moment to accuse "others" of creating problems for me (which I am in fact the initiator of).

The mirror effect is immediate; you accuse others of being jerks by behaving like an aggressive jerk, even your pp has a strange aggressive streak.

I accuse you of being hypocritical in blaming "others" and I am in fact certainly the same to a certain degree.

Everything is going as planned.

Edited Wednesday at 11:15 AM by Schizophonia

[gettoefl]

Definitely gatekeep who gets your presence. More importantly for me, limit the hours that ANYONE gets my presence. One hour the norm, 4 hours the tops. Don't go with the flow. Have a plan and don't deviate. In general give people latitude and grace to do what the hell they want. I am just as much an idiot and a train-wreck as much as the next. Just don't let others contaminate your life. Being with others is a sacrifice but also a sacrament. Truth is I need everyone to wake myself up. If one person is excluded I am keeping myself in hell. Everyone is cool and doing what they can and what they must.

[Ulax]

Fr these people can weigh you down imo

[Oppositionless]

My biggest problem is thinking idiots are actually happier than me. I know someone who's a total pickup artist and rotten to the core. Still part of me is jealous of him because he's better at game than me. But I have something infinitely more valuable than game, it's hard to see that sometimes though. Even if I spend my entire life doing game I don't think it's possible for me to be as good as game as this person who I and all my friends despise for being a terrible low consciousness person.

[Schizophonia]

9 minutes ago, Oppositionless said:

My biggest problem is thinking idiots are actually happier than me. I know someone who's a total pickup artist and rotten to the core. Still part of me is jealous of him because he's better at game than me. But I have something infinitely more valuable than game, it's hard to see that sometimes though. Even if I spend my entire life doing game I don't think it's possible for me to be as good as game as this person who I and all my friends despise for being a terrible low consciousness person.

Well, if he's really "low-consciousness", he'll get low-consciousness girls.
If you want smart girls, don't pick up girls; girls with brains don't get laid like that.
Even men; my friends and I have zero problem attracting girls at all, and we don't go around fucking just anyone; we don't have the time or the desire to cause problems.

 

[Oppositionless]

13 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Well, if he's really "low-consciousness", he'll get low-consciousness girls.
If you want smart girls, don't pick up girls; girls with brains don't get laid like that.
Even men; my friends and I have zero problem attracting girls at all, and we don't go around fucking just anyone; we don't have the time or the desire to cause problems.

 

He is largely spiral dynamics stage red , caused his last girlfriend to relapse on coke.

Interesting, I guess what you are attracts what you are. 

Edited Wednesday at 06:49 PM by Oppositionless

[Yimpa]

@SQAAD Great insights, thank you for sharing.

[Hojo]

It happens so much on a daily basis. I see it happening almost every conversation irl. Peoole are judging me every second of the day it feels like a common way people communicate. The only way to not fall for it is to just think everyone's opinions and voices don't matter. If you dont you will constantly be trying to defend yourself all day.

If you listen to them you will also constantly feel the need to reach out because everyone is judging you so you must be the bad guy that needs to reach out. Its sick. 

 

Edited Wednesday at 08:58 PM by Hojo

[Terell Kirby]

12 hours ago, SQAAD said:

One of the biggest things that has held me back from actualizing the best version of myself is other people.

Those others don’t really exist though

[Aaron p]

I love beating them with intelligence. Intelligence is such a weapon.

[Applegarden8]

Your vibe attracts your tribe sooner or later.

[ExploringReality]

@Aaron p

I do too, but I would rather drive my fist into their skull, then look at them with forgiveness and mercy as to not shut their lights out. Kinda brutal but Im like a wild animal that wears slacks, reminding myself to not pounce on people when they test my patience sideways haha

[ExploringReality]

@Terell Kirby

Relatively speaking they do. Don't gaslight people through conflating the Absolute with the relative.

[ExploringReality]

@Hojo

Coming from someone who constantly judges, so ridiculous to see t in others but can't see it within themselves, what a pity 

[Hojo]

@ExploringReality I am doing it on purpose in your case.