I Am Transgender

[Salvijus]

41 minutes ago, AION said:

I like to play with female characters because I like looking at it

That's a good point. There is an element of that too.

[Salvijus]

People should understand, it's not what you look like that defines you, it's what you do that defines you. You can look like a god, but if you act like a fool, you will be a fool and not a god.

[Clarence]

1 hour ago, Salvijus said:

When I play video games I often select female characters to play with. Or all kinds of weird non human characters. Does it really matter? It's just a costume in the end. 

Yes, it doesn't really matter when it's just the costume of a video game character. But when you're entire life is at stake, it gets much more serious.

Edited April 16 by Clarence

[Salvijus]

Just now, Clarence said:

Yes, it doesn't really matter when it's just the costume of a video game character. But when you're entire life is at stake, it gets much more serious.

Not really. Seriousness is an illusion. 

[Clarence]

Just now, Salvijus said:

Not really. Seriousness is an illusion. 

Your entire life is an illusion, but it's still very real.

[Salvijus]

Just now, Clarence said:

Your entire life is an illusion, but it's still very real.

Only if you believe in the illusion. 

[Clarence]

@ExploringReality @integration journey @Natasha Tori Maru @Applegarden8 Thank you!

[Carl-Richard]

58 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Only if you believe in the illusion. 

Stop eating food right now. Oh, so you're attached to the illusion of being a human? 

If I put on the wrong color t-shirt, I become mentally unwell.

[Salvijus]

39 minutes ago, Carl-Richard said:

Stop eating food right now. Oh, so you're attached to the illusion of being a human? 

If I put on the wrong color t-shirt, I become mentally unwell.

You have a point there. I too am very particular about what I wear. You can wear whatever you like. But it's not what you look like that defines you, it's the role you play that defines you. And God created certain roles for different people to fulfill. If you were given a support champion with support skills and antributes. Then you shouldn't play ad carry role. People will just report you for trolling. That is not how the game of life is meant to be played. Woman avatar has different stats than man avatar, their astrological alignment, their energies and their psyche behave differently to fulfill a different role for a reason.

Edited April 16 by Salvijus

[Clarence]

@Adrian colby Thank you for sharing. I've read other posts from you, too. Your contribution is very valuable. I'm also working toward fully integrating the masculine and the feminine, and especially understanding why I was born female but felt the pressing need to be male.

I think there are deep reasons beneath both, but it is a long process to uncover them as they play out in dimensions of myself I have no easy access to.

It requires sincere dedication to get to that kind of information, as well as meeting with the right people. But working to gain that understanding is highly beneficial to me, as I have a deep need for answers.

[The Crocodile]

27 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

You have a point there. I too am very particular about what I wear. You can wear whatever you like. But it's not what you look like that defines you, it's the role you play that defines you. And God created certain roles for different people to fulfill. If you were given a support champion with support skills and antributes. Then you shouldn't play ad carry role. People will just report you for trolling. That is not how the game of life is meant to be played. Woman avatar has different stats than man avatar, their astrological alignment, their energies and their psyche behave differently to fulfill a different role for a reason.

This is authoritarian.

[Salvijus]

16 minutes ago, The Crocodile said:

This is authoritarian.

Truth is the ultimate authority. 

Edited April 16 by Salvijus

[Aaron p]

Nice. Oh I can feel the blue in me twitching lol. Your situation seems incredibly genuine and authentic, very powerful. Nice. Very brave

[Nemra]

21 minutes ago, The Crocodile said:

This is authoritarian.

@The Crocodile, maybe epistemic dishonesty?

 

[Nemra]

@Clarence, I'm happy for you.

[The Crocodile]

42 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

Truth is the ultimate authority. 

The Truth is that you honestly have no idea what you're talking about.

[Salvijus]

10 minutes ago, The Crocodile said:

The Truth is that you honestly have no idea what you're talking about.

When you come up with an argument to back that up let me know. 

[The Crocodile]

14 minutes ago, Salvijus said:

When you come up with an argument to back that up let me know. 

You have a pre-rational understanding of reality and are saying stupid things.

[Salvijus]

4 minutes ago, The Crocodile said:

You have a pre-rational understanding of reality and are saying stupid things.

I'm still waiting for the argument. 

[Carl-Richard]

8 hours ago, Salvijus said:

You have a point there. I too am very particular about what I wear. You can wear whatever you like. But it's not what you look like that defines you, it's the role you play that defines you. And God created certain roles for different people to fulfill. If you were given a support champion with support skills and antributes. Then you shouldn't play ad carry role. People will just report you for trolling. That is not how the game of life is meant to be played. Woman avatar has different stats than man avatar, their astrological alignment, their energies and their psyche behave differently to fulfill a different role for a reason.

There are many things that can make one feel unwell. Especially when reality is split into two largely mutually exclusive scenarios, which sex often is. Acceptance for feeling unwell plays a role, but so does making oneself feel well. If your kid falls off the bike, you don't accept them laying there hurting, you pick them up and make them try again. Riding a bike vs falling down can be a tricky business and treating falling only as "the role God gave you" can be a bit, shall we say, dogmatic and inflexible.

Edited April 16 by Carl-Richard