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[integral]

I was contemplating what it would be like to be a onlyfans girl and i cant imagine that every day of my life has to be focused on sex. Its sounds exhausting to only think about sexuality all day as a business and to be always in that frame. 

[integral]

Breaking legs to get taller. For the blog trend of looksmaxxing.

5,5 to 6 foot.

[Davino]

20 hours ago, aurum said:

But how are you thinking about love in this case?

If you mean "strong feelings", then that's a false binary.

Love can be relatively stable over the years. And yes, even entropy might happen.

That does not necessarily mean your marriage is unhappy or unsuccessful.

Love is hard to define by nature, you know when you see it and when it keeps maturing over time, the initial love is not the same as a decade in love, but if done correctly it's like a tree maturing through each season. In the human sense it can be experienced like connection and ever better alignment. It's like a hug that just keeps getting better, you learn to know each other tempos, like two transatlantics aligning and intermingling in and out of each other in the correct ratios at every moment.

 

This includes but is not limited, to feeling, union, connection, understanding, care, the 5 love language, filling the tank of love so that never dries out and the engine runs smoothly, knowing and accepting the other person's short comings, saying and being sorry, forgiving, emotional mastery, coordinating logistics, living together, making future plans together, a vision for the future, etc.

 

It's like playing football for example, you may play casually but if you really like it everyday you learn and become a bit better. When you join with someone with the same mentality, each one is developing holistically it's own self and the greater Holon of the couple and the Holon of the family.

 

Moreover, it depends on the standards you set for your relationship, I have very high standards, which can cause friction into everyday life but then you look back and say wow, this is really growing us, every few months we say to ourselves, I thought it was impossible to love you more but we again did it and we'll continue to do it till our death or till we see it's for our greater good to finish the relationship.

[Miguel1]

@gengar Thank you for writing all that to me, and to us.

When I was younger, I actually did not appreciate my strengths at all. Simply because they all came naturally, and were taken completely for granted.

Some years ago, I was also doing dating and socializing coaching (because I had the results others wanted, right?), but I quickly realized that my natural personality + looks were a huge unfair advantage (thanks to Leo for breaking me out of the whole non-dual brainwashing, where they like to pretend that individual personalities, strengths and weaknesses do not exist), making me not able to relate to the average guy struggling with dating almost at all. It felt deeply unintegrous to keep selling dating as easy, when I knew it is was not easy for the guys seeking help, even tho it was easy for me. And I had no patience, nor relatability and experience for their struggles, as I did not go through the same challenges. So I quit.

My natural strengths around dating and socializing (+ being the #1 hip hop dancer here getting me a ton of validation, artistic status, and attraction) has surely made me blind, and corrupted. I am seeing things more clearly at this time of my life, but for the bigger part of my life, I was completely delusional on how skewed and biased dating is (since it is just survival after all). Of course it is easy for me to behave all confident and charming, and to be myself -- when everywhere I go, I have people looking at me and smiling. Random people complimenting how gorgeous I look. People giving me special treatments. And as a result, I started behaving more entitled, which only lead to better results with girls, and then the upward spiral is complete. I cant even begin to imagine how life would be like if I was born ugly. At my peak of chasing sex, I was a complete brat.

Even right now, I notice my mind wanting to tell you: "it's just sex, it's just girls. They all get boring and annoying after sometime. There's much more to life". But of course I can say that, because I have lived through all that in abundance.

I must say though, you have a very artistic way of expressing yourself. I see some form of the 'deep pain' in your writing, that I made a thread about the other day.

Perhaps, see if you can focus more on your natural strengths, and on spiritual matters, as Leo said. And as you said yourself, find yourself a niche and master that. Life can probably be fairly enjoyable that way. And through that angle, you can possibly get a much better chance at dating and love too.

But again, I try not to be biased, since I have exhausted the material stuff so much that of course they don't bother me much anymore.

On a final note, I must say though: I have worked my ass off in life, gone through extreme levels of pain in every chapter of my life. Went through 4 brutally heartbreaking break-ups, have had pretty much all my dreams shattered (and I am a very dreamy person, a visionary if you may). And I am not even going to go into the all the suffering from deep spiritual and self-developmental work.

As for you having nobody to talk to, please never forget that this place exists for that purpose. We gather here of like-minded people, so we don't feel so alone in this otherwise extremely lonely journey.

And I will take into my heart and contemplate my freedom of these karmic loops. I am grateful for you to remind me to do so.

Thank you.

Edited 17 hours ago by Miguel1

[Leo Gura]

5 hours ago, Cubbage said:

The recent "power of consciousness" post has encapsulated the ultimate insight I've ever had in my life, contemplatively and via psychedelics. It is so radically obvious what I AM doing to create THIS.

The blog is on fire at the minute, really juicy food for thought and has been inspiring me to go deeper within myself and explore psychedelics more after taking a few years off of them to focus on other areas of my life. I look forward to embarking further in my understanding of consciousness and aligning this with my life purpose.

Cheers mate and I'm looking forward to eventually having you on Vivec one day, it is a collaboration destined to happen.

@Leo Gura

Cheers!

[Miguel1]

5 hours ago, Cubbage said:

The recent "power of consciousness" post has encapsulated the ultimate insight I've ever had in my life, contemplatively and via psychedelics. It is so radically obvious what I AM doing to create THIS.

The blog is on fire at the minute, really juicy food for thought and has been inspiring me to go deeper within myself and explore psychedelics more after taking a few years off of them to focus on other areas of my life. I look forward to embarking further in my understanding of consciousness and aligning this with my life purpose.

Cheers mate and I'm looking forward to eventually having you on Vivec one day, it is a collaboration destined to happen.

@Leo Gura

That's what I am talking about!! And people are giving me shit for tearing up from all that Ethereal Wisdom. My Godness, how blind can you be!

Leo is truly ascending to a level he has never been at before, and doing so in such a graceful, majestic way. A role model and a true display of conscious leadership.

[Yeah Yeah]

Hey Leo, I wanted to share some thoughts and questions—no rush at all, if you feel like replying over time I’d really appreciate it. Here’s one I’ve been thinking about:

I’m curious about parallel realities and “quantum jumping.” Is it possible to go to sleep one night and wake up in a completely different timeline—something like a heaven-on-earth version of life—and then fully live that as if it had always been my life, forgetting the previous one entirely?

You’ve said that in this moment I’m imagining my past—my childhood, being born, all of it. So it makes me wonder: how long have I been imagining this particular life? Have there been many “pasts” I’ve imagined, or am I constantly shifting between preferred timelines without realizing it—each one feeling like it was always the case?

For example, could it be that I went to sleep last night as a different version of myself, and now I’m in a new timeline with a new set of memories that feel continuous?

And if consciousness is truly limitless, shouldn’t it be possible to live in a kind of “god mode” reality—like a cinematic, heaven-on-earth experience where manifestation is direct and reality feels almost magical? Or is experience more structured than that—where consciousness moves through suffering, challenge, or blessing depending on what’s required for its own evolution?

Curious how you would frame this.

[Leo Gura]

7 minutes ago, Yeah Yeah said:

I’m curious about parallel realities and “quantum jumping.” Is it possible to go to sleep one night and wake up in a completely different timeline—something like a heaven-on-earth version of life—and then fully live that as if it had always been my life, forgetting the previous one entirely?

That is called death.

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You’ve said that in this moment I’m imagining my past—my childhood, being born, all of it. So it makes me wonder: how long have I been imagining this particular life? Have there been many “pasts” I’ve imagined, or am I constantly shifting between preferred timelines without realizing it—each one feeling like it was always the case?

This goes so deep that you are imagining time, past, and "how long".

If God doesn't imagine it, there exists nothing. Not even time or a past.

When you ask: What was I in a past life? God has to invent something, otherwise there is nothing.

Could God imagine that you were Cleopatra in a past life? Sure. Is it really true? True becomes whatever God imagine deeply enough to convince itself.

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For example, could it be that I went to sleep last night as a different version of myself, and now I’m in a new timeline with a new set of memories that feel continuous?

God could dream up such a scenario if it wanted to. But maybe it doesn't want to.

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And if consciousness is truly limitless, shouldn’t it be possible to live in a kind of “god mode” reality—like a cinematic, heaven-on-earth experience where manifestation is direct and reality feels almost magical?

Yes, possible. But that wouldn't be anything like human life. That would more like a dream.

Edited 15 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Sincerity]

@Leo Gura You’re on fire with these essay-like blog posts these last days! Thanks for them  

[Rafael Thundercat]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Yes, possible. But that wouldn't be anything like human life. That would more like a dream.

And what difference exist in a dream and human life? I will sleep in one hour and I will have some weird experiences in the dreamland  maybe even a lucid dream, and I keep awakening in this present reality where all the setting is exactly the same for 44 years, diferent body, different location, different experiences but a continuous coherent experience. Nothing like the wacky nigthdreams. Why God need to imagine wacky nigthdreams at all, was not easier to life in a continuous uncuted imagined storyline? People dont even question the strangeness of nigthdreams. Nigthdreams was always a mystery for me. 

 

[gettoefl]

11 hours ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

And what difference exist in a dream and human life? I will sleep in one hour and I will have some weird experiences in the dreamland  maybe even a lucid dream, and I keep awakening in this present reality where all the setting is exactly the same for 44 years, diferent body, different location, different experiences but a continuous coherent experience. Nothing like the wacky nigthdreams. Why God need to imagine wacky nigthdreams at all, was not easier to life in a continuous uncuted imagined storyline? People dont even question the strangeness of nigthdreams. Nigthdreams was always a mystery for me. 

 

Ego dreams are not a patch on God dreams though cool nonetheless. They are how powerful I am as a body-mind compared to me in the fullness of God. A few heart-beats of rampaging power then poof.