Alexop

Yes. There is a culture of over politeness and not standing out, people don't want to bother each other. Which can be nice, but it makes people lonely and emotionally/socially underdeveloped. The "cutting the tallest poppy" and "sticking the head into the sand" can go too far sometimes. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_Jante?wprov=sfla1 Conversations can be boring as hell, as social skills being generally mediocre, also people do not dare to challenge each other into deep talk . Men are affected massively, as men collapse when nothing challenges their immaturity.

@Leo Gura when it's cold, I put put on my fancy down jacket and merino underpants. What can you do when it's too warm?

I am so happy I found a place with perfect weather. Sweden baby, 20-25 C summers; -5-10 C winters. Hot weather makes me depressed, I sweat, I age my skin. Rain is nice, stop hating rain people. Sweden is buit in such way that you can even live in the middle of the city and feel like living in the country side. No noise, no pollution, 100 steps to nearest forest with a lake. I feel so privledged living here, 95% of people will never have this luxury way of living in a city. USA infrastructure is a piece of garbage compared to germanic countries.

Yes, developed men have a strong feminine side. Femininity is the base on which masculinity can be built. Unfortunately I don't see many developed men in the West. My home country Romania has some grounded men, but here in Western Europe, it feels like most of them are stuck at age 15.

Social media by design burries the creators who evolved over society's center of gravity (modern). The algorithms are not designed for promoting high consciousness. You managed to come out in people's feed because of your great marketing skills/timing/ambition(/money?) Social media offers what people want. And people want chimp stuff.

It is rare because truly developed people are rare. It is not like you go to your random bar and you find more developed people than on an Internet forum. I went to some of the most fancy hippie festivals and even there most people cannot step out of the post-modern trap. The other non-hippie festivals and events had even more underdeveloped people. The most impressed I was by post-modern women, they have some kick. Conservative men can have some good points but they lack empathy, refinement and discipline. They don't walk the talk. And 90% of post-modern men are next to worthless. Sweden builds great women and shitty men. It is truly amazing how it works, create a safe feminine environment and women become better, men become worse. People just follow trends like sheep. It is like installing a software on a brain. The most popular softwares in the West are modern consumerism and post-modern hippie idealism. This is a truly rare place, a place pioneering Tier 2. Beyond post modern nonsense

Well it seems that some people like this way of communication. It is the reason people are here that is important. If they are here to help others and learn stuff, great. If they are here because they don't have any better survival mechanisms and copings, that becomes a problem. Leo's answer bought me, now I understand why he is here and he has good reasons.

I think this one is the best if we talk general personal development. I personally am part of a paywalled discord server also, focused on politics/economy. I like the voice chat feature of discord but not much the text channels. This forum format is better for writing.

Thanks 🙏 interesting position. For sure there are people who know stuff here.

@Salvijus ❤️

@Salvijus See this is one of the problems with blending self improvement with Community. Community is a survival mechanism and self improvement is deconstructing all survival mechanisms. Contemplate this instead of trolling around.

By dancing with women I relax and vent the stress accumulated during work. I try to keep community and personal development separated, if I have them together, problems arise. I dont talk abut fucking God with them. Actually I kind of avoid those "God" people because they talk the most shit. Some exceptions though but low chance to meet them irl.

No, I am just curious about the enormous time he puts into this. He is doing a great job. I am not here. 600 posts in 8 years. Personally I don't get much help because most of the work as I said, is done in solitude.

@Bashar his content covers so much stuff that you would need decades of contemplation until you get all the points. This work is about sitting and thinking by yourself until you fucking get it. Yea, sometimes you will have questions and this forum os good for that. Although the AI chatbots are getting so good that i rarely need some anonymous people from the internet for help.

He has leverage and intelligence to grow his business in way more effective ways than this.