egoeimai

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    @Hulia I love SpongeBob. I searched the book but didn't find it. Usually my style is to read books based on research meaning that I don't enjoy reading stories of other people. Nothing wrong with them, I just kinda like more the boring books. Lol

    @xxxx thank you so very much! I think my problem is called childhood emotional neglect. I also created a thread on this even though nobody's gonna post there! ? I think I'll find my way out of this someday! I don't know when! I guess loving myself enough so that I can feel secure. The info you've given is so much appreciated and I will save them and do something with those! Apart from emotional stuff, brain chemicals and stuff play a big role as for how we feel. Ps. I'm exercising lightly everyday I go for walks lol but maybe that's not enough u guess. I also am very good with my diet plan lately, I've been eating salads, cereal bars,oatmeal and healthy nuts, kefir lol and fruits if I'm in the mood. 

    @supremeyingyang thank u very much. I'll try my best. Support is everything to me! 

     

  13. Posted

    31 minutes ago, Byun Sean said:

    Your not being creepy or leechy when you ask out a girl if you do it in a polite way that shows you care for her feelings.

     

    The girl has needs too. She wants the right guy to approach her. All girls really want is a guy who is strong on the inside that cares for her feelings.

     

    The reason why women will view some men as 'creeps' is because they show the woman in subtle or not so subtle ways that they don't care about

    her feelings and only care about using them for fulfilling their own sexual or emotional needs.

     

    For example, women aren't attracted to so called "nice guys" because those "nice guys" are only nice because they expect 

    sex in return of their niceness. Women smell this from a mile away and are repelled because this is a sign of weakness. 

     

    A man who is emotionally mature and conscious enough will have a sense of care that surpasses his own needs and captures the feelings

    and needs of the girl which girls can also sense. Thus this kind of guy won't care if he gets rejected or what happens to his feelings

    because he is putting himself out there for the girl and that is enough for him.

    This is the kind of guy women are looking for.

    Authentic. Selfless. Emotionally available. Confident. Spiritually mature. 

     

    I've never done cold approaches but I imagine they would be hard for the specific reason that the girl is observing everything about you 

    and judging whether you will fulfill that certain criteria so much based on that first impression you give her. 

     

     

    That's gold. 

  20. Posted

    3 minutes ago, The Don said:

    She was interested in me for a period of time but I didn't make the move 

    I'm sorry to say, but theres always that give and take in dating. If you give you shall receive. But it's OK, you know. 

    3 minutes ago, The Don said:

    I'm much stronger than I thought.

    Yes you are super brave, don't get discouraged! People who reject u have already rejected themselves first! Keep being open and sharing your emotions. Being brave is rare! ❤️