You need to practice talking more about yourself and what interests you. Push your personality out onto others. Share yourself. This takes courage and practice. Probably you feel deep down that you will be rejected or that people are not interested in what you have to say. This boils down to a low self-esteem issue.

No, they just skirt the issue and teach to a very mainstream audience -- whoever will listen and pay. Besides, what do you expect them to do about it? They can't recommend psychedelics because 1) they have no serious experience with them, and 2) most of their followers can't access them, and 3) they would get into trouble.
The more mainstream the teacher, the more mainstream and mild his techniques need to be.
Do you really expect Sadhguru to stand up in front of 10,000 people and tell them point blank: 99% of you will not awaken? Why would he do this? Of what benefit is this to his followers or his organization?
Also, when you are highly spiritually gifted from birth you have no idea what life is like for people who are not spiritually gifted. It is like living in a different reality. So easily many teachers can be dismissive of the struggles of newbies and normies.
You have to ask yourself, what is it you want and how badly do you want it? Do you really care to know what reality is? How important is it to you that you discover the answers in this lifetime?
See, Sadhguru's agenda is not that. He will not resolve this for you. He is busy building his organization. If you die without reaching the ultimate answers, it won't bother him one bit. But if it would bother you, then you need some sort of reliable plan for how you're going to get those answers.

This is exactly what late-stage capitalism looks like. The total debasement of society for success, fame, sex, and money.
A late stage Orange society getting ready to shed its skin and move into Green. Before a rebirth a collapse is necessary. This is what rock-bottom Orange looks like.
There's still a question of how bad this rock-bottom will get. Will it be a quick recovery or a deep, painful decent into hell? No one knows yet.

What more is there to say? If you look up the textbook defintions of those terms they tell you basically what it is.
Karma is basically the sum total of everything you imagine you and reality are -- your entire memory bank, including genetics, or whatever other thing you made up to explain why you are how you are.
Memory, genetics, history, life story... it's all basically the same thing. These are anchors for the ego's reality.

Sure, but this is basically spirituality by Russian roulette. Do you really want to play such a game?
How many people die each year from playing such games? You don't hear about them. There are some 50,000+ suicides per year in the US alone. How many of them could have been avoided with some strategic use of psychedelics? A lot.

Capable is one thing, actually seeing it is another.
99% of people are capable.
Just the fact that you're watching my videos means that you are more capable than most.
Now... what you gonna do about it? Shit has more substance to it than capability.

@assx95 Don't adopt truths which you did not realize as beliefs.
You have no idea if things are imaginary or not. You are just parroting some words you heard someone else say. These words are not true for you.
For you, if we cut off your finger, you are gonna think it's a real problem. So that's what is true for you.

It can still be difficult for them. Plenty of spiritually gifted people have harrowing journeys to awakening (like the many classic shaman stories). So don't get the idea that being spiritually gifted makes this process a walk in the park. You can be spiritually gifted and still have a lot of shadow material to work through.
But the biggest thing is, most people will never even attempt to awaken or know about awakening otherwise, unless they are lucky enough to stumble upon it.
A big secret to successful awakening is have the right motivation, curiosity, and desire for it. That in itself is a very rare thing which already requires a certain degree of spiritual attunement. If you motivation is strong, the rest is just a matter of time. If you motivation is weak, almost nothing can help you. So getting your motivation straight is crucial. Which is where psychedelics can be especially helpful. People would be a lot more motivated to awaken if they had a direct experience of God or Infinite Consciousness. It's very hard to build motivation off hearsay and fairytales. It's crucial to experience God for yourself so you know that it is more real than a brick wall. It's very hard to be motivated to pursue a thing for years which you doubt is real.

Not so hard really. If you ask most masters about their childhoods and how they got into spirituality, many of them will tell the same story of having spontaneous (psychedelic-like) mystical experiences, kundalini activations, astral projection, lucid dreaming, etc. when they were in their teens. Not to mention that basically all of them were deeply interested in metaphysical and spiritual questions from their youth. It is not at all an accident that they got involved in spiritual work.
I notice this in myself. I was born a philosopher. I would estimate I have double the baseline level of consciousness of the average human and my sensitivity to psychedelics is at least double or triple that of a typical human. But even so, I never had spontaneous mystical experiences as many masters do. So I am nowhere near the top of the bell-curve of spiritual giftedness. But it is no accident that I ended up in this line of work.

So start working on building the skillset you'd need to do that job. Whatever that entails. It might start with reading certain books, or taking certain classes, or finding mentors, or just cleaning up your own life.
If you have no vision and no motivation to build your skillset, then you're stuck until such time you do.
What does it look like to be light worker? What kind of skillset is required? Think about the in lots of detail and then create a plan for how to move in that direction. It's not rocket science. But it will require some serous vision and dedication.

What is the point of building a deep relationship if you two are already agreed that it will end within months?
Don't kid yourself. What will realistically happen is that as soon as she or you hook up with your next partner, you will forget all about her and there will be no friendship left at all, since the function that this person served in your life will be gone.
Don't forget that relationships are functional, transactional exchanges. If the function is lost, the relationship will fall away. The relationship must serve both of you in some significant way. Once you hook up with someone else, this old relationship will actually become a potential threat to the new thing you got going.
I would not waste too much time trying to maintain this thing if you are already clear it will not last. You are young and in university you will encounter a thousand other girls into whom you can invest your energy. Likewise on her end. She will almost certainly forget about you once she hooks up with her next guy.

In other words: exactly what we have now.
You are free to start a commune in any 1st world country.
But it will fail. As all communes become as corrupt as the people running them.
The corruption is not out there, it is inside you. So no matter how much you fight evil on the outside, you will never conquer it because your inside creates it.

Lust for other women is common for men. It's just how we tend to be wired. But this idea that you should deliberately sleep around is stupid if you are already in a happy relationship.
I would say, if you like this girl, commit to being with her. And if it doesn't work out and you become single, then you can sleep around at that time.
There are times to sleep around, but when you're in a loving relationship already isn't one of those times.
Be mindful that you sleeping around would cause her lots of suffering and it would certianly destroy your relationship. She will never forgive you for sleeping around. Nor should she, because you're acting like an ass, throwing away a good thing by thinking with your dick.

Learning that delicate balance requires lots and lots of failure. So just go find more girls to flirt with.

Tease her and flirt with her. Be playful in your conversations. Share some stories about yourself with her so she gets a feel for who you are.
THEN you can ask for her number. Don't mention the word "date". You can tell her, "Let's grab a coffee sometime" as you get her number.

Lol
#1 rule with girls: never explicitly tell them about sex. If she's gonna fuck you, she needs to be able to maintain the appearance of being a lady. When you tell her explicitly about sex, you make her feel like a cheap whore, and she will never sleep with you after that.
You must play subtle and coy.
Instead of "You down to fuck?" make it, "Let's get a coffee." Make things sound as innocent as possible. Rather than telling her, "Let's go have sex" tell her, "Let's go watch cartoons".
There is no problem if you wanna fuck. Just don't go telling girls about it. Dating is a game. You gotta flirt and tease your way into her pants.
It's very counter-intuitive. One of the best things you can do is act like you are totally disinterested in sex. You can even tell her, "We are definitely not having sex tonight." Then have sex with her 10 minutes later.
Get good at playing these mind games.

Yes, I have worldly obligations. Mostly with my biz (Actualized.org) and you guys. Also a bit of family obligations, but not much.
I am not a social person because I find it too shallow and I like my freedom.
I don't need to talk much about these topics with people/family because I get it out via my videos. The videos are my outlet.
To me social balance looks like living in a cabin in the woods with maybe a girlfriend. And interacting with students via teachings or writing. I don't care for having a social life in the conventional sense.
Don't try to emulate this unless it feels natural to you. People have different social preferences. Mystics tend to have an abnormally high tolerance for solitude.
Figure out what you want. What I want is irrelevant to you.

@assx95 Dude, if a girl does not respond to your text within 24hrs, she is gone. She doesn't even know you exist. Move on.
A girl who is attracted to you will respond to texts within minutes or hours at most.
You cannot attract girls via text. If she's not responsive it's because you failed to build attraction in person and nothing can be done to overcome that.
You must reach hook-point in person in order to get responsive texts. Try harder to reach hook-point. It's very noticable when you do. Usually happens within 5-10 mins. You will feel her get enthusiastic about you. She will look in your eyes and be very interested in what you have to say. She will be eager to follow your lead.
Do not spend any time thinking about girls who haven't hooked. It will only bring you misery.

You simply need a lot more experience socializing with women.
You're not gonna get good with women by sitting at home thinking about it. Go socialize. You will learn from your mistakes in the field.

Definitely leave "software developer" out of your profile. You ain't gonna attract girls with that.
Obviously do not lie about it if she asks you point blank what you do, but your profile needs to be human, charming, emotional -- not full of anti-social nerd speak.
Basically, girls don't give a damn what you do for a living as long as you're able to hold down a job and pay your bills. She will get attracted to your personality, not your career.
Your profile needs to show (not tell) that you have social savvy and are into human things which don't include computers, video games, TV, and internet.

I've never had a girlfriend or intimacy with a girl and I'm pursuing pickup hardcore at the moment... that being said....
I've read this in the SixPillarsOfSelfEsteem book where Nathaniel talks about how because we don't love ourselves we are shocked when someone loves us and we start to think that there is something wrong with their judgement and dismiss them as not worthy enough.
I'm conscious of that however I legit think if a girl is playing into me and sending me pictures and face-timing me after a day or two of meeting her I start to think she is really insecure, unexperienced and lonely which turns me OFF. 
Story:
I visited the city of my soon to be university, and I met this girl during the time I was there. She just wanted to get involved with me, telling me "don't leave stay with me" and whenever I talked about my future she would always come in and say, I want to do that with you. To me, she was just an insecure person and I couldn't imagine myself having sex with her.
I will never have sex with an insecure girl, it turns me off and makes me feel used, as some sort of crutch to get her out of her loneliness. 

It's important to distinguish desire of the soul vs desire of the ego.
LoA works best when one is clear about this distinction and pursuing the cravings of the soul. Your soul only craves one thing: Love and reunion.

@LfcCharlie4 Most of you guys need lots of basic self-help. So neglect at your peril.
Learn to crawl before you try to fly.

Perhaps the biggest problem is that socialism is turned into ideology with people parroting it without any independent contemplation of how economics and government works.

This is not the way.
Do not look for definitions or theories. Do not create anything. Observe your judgments directly. Observe patiently. This is the way.
What a thing is can only be observed. What you think about what it is, is certainly not what it is.