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It's certainly possible to do well without it, but you will loose a lot of opportunities due to not having a good Instagram unfortunately.

Nope. Becoming more attractive only increased my results substantially.

Congrats mate. What are you going to do now that you've got your financial life handled? How will you spend the rest of your life?

You cannot overcome your need for human relationships, this is a fundamental human need. If neglect this you will face immense mental and physical health consequences. Why do you believe you need to be socially isolated for spiritual work?

It's because women find him physically attractive, no real mystery here. No mind games have to be played. If you feel like a woman is playing games then they just aren't particularly interested in you. An average looking guy may have to compensate with being witty or funny in order to get a girl's attention, but not this guy. Whether a girl wants to have sex with you for the first time isn't about you doing something to emotionally open them, it's primarily about carnal attraction. Why would you do that? Your belief demonstrably doesn't align with reality. There's a lot of pick up coaches out there spreading this myth in order to sell you some overpriced, low quality course or coaching.

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The average or below average guy is not attractive enough to be desired by the women they want. Unfortunately this not the case. A guy who's at a 3/10 in looks is sexually repulsive to most women. It possibly comes down to supply and demand. There's more men out there seeking casual sex than women (probably due to higher testosterone levels), thus women are able to hook up with more attractive guys for casual sex. For relationships the supply and demand is more even, thus an average girl will not be able to get commitment from a much more attractive guy since he has more desirable options.

The guy's got 10 years worth of savings, he's doing a whole lot better than most workers. What is the meaning of hard work? Genuinely curious what your views are. How have you worked hard throughout your life? How old are you? That works for some jobs, but many professional jobs require thorough learning of the topic. University learning is not a new phenomenon, people have been studies at universities for thousands of years. You're evidently trying hard to give off this persona of being the tough, older, more manly guy, but it's quite evident that you lack wisdom about life. Why do you idealise torturing and sacrificing yourself to work?

Nope. Forming a relationship with the right girl is among some of the most worthwhile things you could do in life. Not true, you've evidently been wallowing in too much toxic online content. There's good women out there and there's also shit women too. You want to cultivate relationships with the good people. This is terrible advice. It seems that you are trying to sabotage others. Yeah, pua advice on the internet it mostly trash. The easiest way to get laid a lot is to be good looking, which mostly comes down to genetics. There is nothing impressive about this that makes you a "real" man, it's mere luck.

Nice, congrats

Most cultures outside the Muslim world too. How common are large scale societies which practice non-monogamy? Christianity has played a substantial role in up holding these ideals, but the question is why were these values adopted by Christianity? When the men at the top of the hierarchy horde the majority of the women this leads to those at the bottom becoming disgruntled and disillusioned with society and often turning to violent revolts. It is also less fulfilling for the women too since most desire monogamous committed relationships rather than being part of a harem. Non-monogamous systems can be found in tribes of a few hundred people, however I was talking about role monogamy plays in larger, post-agricultural societies. What works in small tribes will often not scale well on to larger states of 100s of thousands of people or more. Having said that, monogamy is also quite common place among tribes too. It is better for extended family get involved in child rearing too. How does that mean the stability of the child's parent's relationship is not of vital importance? They are still the most influential factor in the child's development. Large-scale societies function very differently to close-knit tribal societies, how would this system of getting the whole tribe involved in the raising of a child work in a city state of ten thousand people, most of whom are unrelated? There's issues with culturally monogamous systems, I don't think anyone would argue that there isn't. But it is one of the few systems which has worked in preventing societal instability. When a system is seen quite universally across cultures and has been implemented for hundreds or thousands of years, there's certainly a very good reason for it. It is easy to overlook the benefits which we receive from stage blue structures since we have never had to suffer from the consequences which it prevents.

It doesn't just come from Christian ideas, there's an abundance of non-christian cultures which shun promiscuity and value purity significantly more than the West. Monogamy is important for societal stability and is more optimal for the raising of children. The vast majority of people naturally desire monogamous relationships and most people would be happiest in one compared to the alternatives. Thus, it's easy to see why the majority of post-agricultural societies have upheld these values. That's a legitimate concern. One of the most reliable predictors of an individual's future behaviour is their past behaviours.

I've found it to be important to spend your 20s focusing on building all of the important areas of life. You are able to work on more than one thing. So far in the decade since I've left high school I've managed to get my career on track, get my dating life sorted, cultivate fulfilling friendships, pursued spirituality, and had many unique life experiences. It requires you to get clear about what you really want out of life and then place you time/energy/focus on building that vision (and not wasting much time on the things which don't matter, like TV or doomscrolling). Dating really ought to be one of their top priorities, as relationships are one of the most important aspects of life.

Why is that?