Something Funny

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  1. Posted

    11 minutes ago, flowboy said:

    Not a self-help book, a book describing the anatomy of trauma in the brain and tons of documented case studies and cited scientists. I can recommend you to read up on the science of trauma healing because you're the one talking out of your ass.

    Look, I am sorry if I offended you, I didn't mean to. You are a nice person and I didn't mean to criticize you, just an example.

    And come on, it is a shitty example. Feet under the table, seriously? How many people are going to be able to come up with such a clear, simple connection? And how do you know that this memory is all there is and there is nothing more contributing to the fetish.

    And also, why would you even use a foot fetish as an example when the op is talking about findom? Findom can literally ruin your life.

    What's wrong with foot fetish? How is it hurting anyone?

    Who decided that liking feet is even a fetish? Like, feet are just another part of human body. They are not objectively uglier than breasts or ass or whatever, that's just cultural conditioning. Why is liking an ass considered okay and liking feet isn't?

    If anything, rejecting a certain part of human body and thinking that it is ugly, or disgusting is more pathological than liking it, no?

  2. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

    @Something Funny Yeah, absolutely. And this type of girls sometimes exhibir explicit psychopathic behaviour. They perfectly know most of his clients have mental health issues and even sometimes use it as a shame trigger to relapse with them. Is one of the most dangerous cruel people I´ve seen out there. 

    Unfortunately all the sex stuff is still taboo in our society and porn industry, as well as all of the digital stuff in general is too poorly regulated. The legislation simply sucks. So that's why such abuse is possible in my opinion.

  3. Posted

    @Javfly33

    If you pretend to be a therapist, but don't actually have a license you can get into legal trouble.

    If a therapist manipulates his mentally vulnerable patient and makes the patient give all of his belongings away to him, he can get into legal trouble.

    If a nursing home abuses their elderly residents, they can get into legal trouble.

    A porn addict, addicted to something like findom is arguably in a similarly vulnerable mental state. So I don't think it should be okay for them to be scammed out of their money.

  4. Posted

    2 hours ago, flowboy said:

    And I didn’t pull them out of my ass, I pulled them from books about trauma and healing.

    Yeah, that's what I meant. It sounded like something a self-help book would say. They tend to provide simplistic, overly exaggerated examples to sell you their five steps to successful success. Things are way more subtle in real reality in my opinion.

     

    14 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

    @flowboy is complicated. On one hand they have their part of trauma and psychopathic tendencies to be taking advantage of someone on a vulnerable situation or mental health crisis. On the other hand, I do believe ultimately the responsibility is of the individual, at the end of the day no one puts a gun to my head to contact one of this girls to get humilated.

    So in summary I would say the responsibility is mine to change my attitude and behaviour, but it helps to explain the fact that this type of fetishes exist because there are also perpetrators on the other hand that are ready to take advantage of the situation.

    Is similar to other things as the drug world. No drug dealer puts a gun to the head of the drug user to go use fentanyl, but at the same time it must be recognized that for that situation to happen it needs also someone with very low morals to be selling fentanyl.

    You have a power to change individually, sure. But what I am saying is that we, as a society, should hold such people responsible. And we do, to some degree. For example selling drugs is illegal. And so is selling alcohol or cigarettes to kids below 18 years old.

    I have another example/question. Why is it not okay for an alcohol producer to claim that it's not their fault that some 12 year old kid wants to drink vodka with his friends and that they should have the right to sell it to them? What about a 17 year old? Why do we, as a society, protect children from harm in this way instead of just saying: "oh, whatever, it's the kids fault that he is dumb and wants to do drugs".

    But then, somehow, magically, once the kid crosses 18 years, it's okay? He is on his own now? One day we protect him, and on the next day he can go and drink himself to death for all we care. Did something about a kid change in this one day? No, nothing actually changed, he didn't magically become more mature and responsible. Becoming 18 years old doesn't work like a level up in a video game. The only thing that changed is our subjective view of him.

    Actually, it's the same with porn as it all supposed to be 18+. What if your underage kid went and gave 1000 bucks to some onlyfans girl, would you have said: "well it's not her fault that he likes findom or whatever"? No, you would have probably sued the shit out of her and out of the streaming platform.

    But somehow once the kid get over 18 it suddenly becomes okay for him to be scammed and abused. And it becomes his own fault.

  5. Posted

    @Javfly33 I don't agree with Flowboy saying: "it's not their fault that you like that". I think that they are basically preying on people's traumas and mental disorders, which is really low in my opinion.

    It's like saying that it is okay for big corporations to abuse human psychology and use whatever marketing and sales techniques they want. And say that it's not mcDonalds fault that people are addicted to junk food. Or that it's not facebooks / twitters / tik toks / instagrams fault that you are addicted to social media. 

    That being said, there will always be those who prey on weak people. Like thieves who steal from old people or kids, or employers abusing their position of power. This is nothing new. And I don't think it's any different in this case.

    Basocally, all you can do personally is to become strong enough.

  6. Posted

    On 9/25/2023 at 4:55 PM, flowboy said:

    Example: the guy who had a foot fetish all his life.

    In primal therapy, being transported to being a small child, sitting under the table, hiding from the adults.

    His mom wouldn't give him the attention, love or hugs that he desperately needed.

    All he could see of her was her feet from under the table.

    The spell was broken after that.

    Sounds like an asspull

  13. Posted

    56 minutes ago, Tobia said:

    They supported every escalation possible and now that Ukraine is being hopelessly destroyed

    Where did you get this information from, lol?

    56 minutes ago, Tobia said:

    They wouldn't do that if public opinion was not shifting away from unconditional support for Ukraine.

    There was never unconditional support for Ukraine. From day one there were conflicts regarding refugees, conflicts between politicians on both sides, conflicts among common people, people politicians supporting Russia, etc.

    This is nothing new and is natural in every situation like this in the world. 

    Find me an example of a political decision in any country that was met with 100% unconditional support by everyone.

    On top of that, in my opinion, they do that to get the support of farmers. A very vocal group who even before the official grain ban were going out and blocking trucks with Ukrainian grain.

    You clearly have your own story that you have already decided on, so you want to see everything from the perspective that validates it. No matter whether it is actually true.

  14. Posted · Edited by Something Funny

    12 minutes ago, Tobia said:

    It is not just about grain. Ukraine is, predictably, losing the war. 

    And yes, it is about the grain. This conflict has been boiling for a few years now and has finally blown up, given the final push by how poorly and stupidly Ukraine handles its diplomacy and PIS wanting to use the scandal to get extra votes.

     

  15. Posted

    4 minutes ago, Tobia said:

    after the counter offensive failed, the mood in Poland changed and public opinion is shifting.

    Poland has been flooded by Ukrainian refugees and many poles have had enough of the lies 

    Yeah, I am sure that you, living in Italy, know more about the moods in Poland than me, a Ukrainian living in Poland right now.

    Please educate me more on the public opinion here.

  16. Posted · Edited by Something Funny

    @Tobia @StarStruck 

    1. This is a response to the grain conflict and the retarded things Ukriainian officials said, not the war in general.

    2. Another part of it is PIS just being desperate for votes in October elections.

    But who needs the context, right? It's better to just link a random twitter post and call the thread "Poles stick it up to Ukraine".

    Another stage yellow political analysis ;)

  20. Posted

    1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

    and something (not) funny ... lol the names

    It's funny to me though.

    You being so insecure that you always feel the need to prove yourself. Either by self-proclaiming yourself as stage yellow or by letting everyone know that you went to the gym, lol.

    Imagine feeling the need to say that, just to feel better about yourself. Honestly, it's hilarious.

    51 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

      I don’t want to portray myself as anything.

    No, of course you don't, haha

  23. Posted

    1 minute ago, StarStruck said:

    Most people who practice martial art don't do it to bash each other's head in

    Yeah, that's why you create posts like these. For the development of the character and not to boost your fragile ego.

    2 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

    The argument "and? Everybody is better at anything else" is the argument of somebody who has no mastery in life. With that kind of mindset you will die as a coach potato.

    I have no idea how you came to that conclusion from what I have said... 

    Allow me to make it simpler for the greates stage yellow thinker on the forum:

    It's pointless to compare people from different disciplines against each other because they focus on different things. Yes, a professional fighter is better at fighting than a body builder. But a body builder is better at building  muscles than a professional fighter.

    What I said is actually pro mastery, not against it. Because my argument promotes focusing on what you are good at instead of worrying that you might not be good at this, and this, and that.

    7 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

    Bro, do you even lift or did you ever get in a fight in your life? Lmao

    Hahaha. So you disagree with what I've said???

    Do you think that this 57 kg fighter will beat a 100+ kg fighter who is at the same skill level?

    Do you think that an untrained 50kg guy will beat an untrained 100kg guy?

    Stop using silly copes and actually answer my question.

  25. Posted · Edited by Something Funny

    And?

    A guy who earns money as a professional fighter is good at... fighting?

    This is so dumb.

    Bodybuiders also have no chance against marathon runners when it comes to marathon running. And against sprinters when it comes to sprinting. And against rock climbers when it comes to climbing. And against chest players when it comes to playing chess. 

    So?