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Can you tell us the name of the book that explains the history of Communism and the history of Nazism as well as the author of the respective books?

@integral @BlueOak @Michael569 @DianaFr @Hojo Thank you for your guys responses

Ok. For example, if a someone has a spouse, is it that person obligation to spend money on his/her spouse?

Hi, I wanted to ask a question from you guys is that on which relationships is spending money normal and on which relationships is spending money not normal? For example, my dad spent somewhere between $100000 to $200000 over the span of his lifetime on his brother's family including his brother's children while he neglected me along with my siblings. In my opinion, in retrospect, he should not have spent a single penny on the family of his brothers because that is not his family and should have spent money on my mother along with my siblings because we are his family. Another example is that I have spent $4000 to $5000 on my friend over the past year because my friend gaslighted me into thinking that spending money on friends is normal like that but it isn't and now in retrospect, I realize that I did a foolish mistake. So, my question from you guys is that in your opinion on which relationships is it normal to spend money and on which relationships is it not normal to spend money? Thank you for your responses

@Aaron p For Your Information, China is not a human rights country. Police, security forces, cops, non emergency police line, coordinators and these kind of people only work to ensure the safety of Chinese citizens. I am not a Chinese citizen.Their was a case in my university where a Chinese student book got lost and it was returned plus the thief who was an international student got arrested. On contrary, their was also a case where an international student motorbike got lost and the student complained to the university but nobody did anything. However, now I am out of the situation but thanks for your post.

@jimwell @LordFall Thank you for your responses. I left that university and that place where I was facing this narcissist abuse.That place was a very backward village area of China. China is a relatively developed country but the city where I was staying was very backward city and very poor city. That is why I guess people behaviors towards me was like this. So now I am starting to transfer to some top ranking university in Canada.

What dating apps do you use? Can you please give me a list of dating apps that you use? Currently, I shifted to Toronto, Canada and now I am first trying to get enrolled in any university. After I get enrolled in any university, I plan to build my dating skills.

Those gang members gave me a threat that if they do not move in my apartment then they will beat me up with 10 to 15 people. As far as my security is concerned by seeking help of paid black man, police staff or the building staff, in my city, people do not lend a helping hand to foreigners. I once complained to my teacher at the university but the teacher did not do anything. This is good and useful advice. Thank you for your reply and advice.

Hi everyone, I wanted to share an incident with you guys on the forum because thinking about this is really weakening my mental health so that you guys can help me to reflect and analyze the situation. Also, it will help with my personal introspection and your responses will help me to reflect/introspect/analyze deeply about my personality too. The big picture scenario of what was happening with me: I was living with two people in one apartment so we were total three. The two people I was living with were biological brothers of each other and I was not their biological brother. I paid for all the kitchen utensils of the apartment, I was paying all the bills of the apartment including water, electricity and natural gas. Also, I paid for the heating system. I was also paying money to them for the service they were offering me which was their companionship. The cost of one friend friendship was 350 Chinese yuan per month which he says he charges it because of his service for helping me with university coursework like tests, exams and assignments. The cost of another friend was 900 Chinese yuan per month which he says he charges me because of cooking for me and fighting for me with the bullies at my university. They were also living with me in the apartment for free without paying me rent and using all the apartment facilities like kitchen utensils or water paid by me. You might wonder that why did I let them live in my apartment for free. For your information, I let them live in my apartment for free because many gangs from my university wanted to attack me and these two brothers claimed that they were protecting me from those gang members. If I had not let them live in my apartment for free then I would not have been protected by them from those gang members who wanted to beat me up. I even paid the complete 100% bill for these two people 1 to 2 times per month for approximately six months at the most expensive restaurant of the city which is an Italian restaurant. These two people also had control over my bank balance and my budget spending. Like they can take how much money they want which was sent to me by my parents from my bank account whenever they want or check my bank balance whenever they want. They even controlled how much money I am allowed to spend and how much money I am not allowed to spend. My specific action for which I need your guys help to reflect, introspect, analyze or comment for me: I bought a chocolate with my own money and I went to my room secretly in my apartment then ate it. I put the wrapper of the chocolate in my bag. My roommate went through my bag which was also paid with my money without my permission and he saw the garbage wrappers of the chocolate in my bag. He then cursed me, my family and my whole family tree in my apartment where he was living for free. He told me that he did so many good things for me like he gave me so much advice on life, he saved me from the beatings of so many people in the university which is true, cooked good food for me, advice me on the right set of clothes to wear, how to judge people personalities, he helped me so much that I can never repay him back and all the other things psychopathic personality type people like to brag about. He even then threatened me by saying that he will break my head with a water bottle or he will slap me on my face for hiding and eating chocolate. Then, according to them, to compensate for my this mistake, I gave them a barbecue party at a restaurant where I paid the complete 100% bill and I fed them cake from a very expensive bakery for free. My thoughts and comments: I think these two people controlled me more than how parents control their children. I don't think, parents even control their children the way how these two people controlled and manipulated me. Why are those two people dictating the way how I spend my money? You guys might be wondering how did I manage to put up with all this toxic shit, I managed to put up with all this toxic shit because these two people gave me a threat that if I do not give in to their demands then they will gather ten to fifteen people to beat me up. What I want from you: Can you please help me introspect and reflect whose mistake was this all? Also, can you analyze the situation to give me new insights of what I should do in future to make sure that I don't end up with anyone toxically controlling me like how these two people controlled me.? Any response of what you guys think of this whole situation that happened with me or your comments about it would be very beneficial to me. I had to share this with you guys because when sharing anything on the forum and getting advices from you guys decreases my stress and stops my mental health from weakening further. If I have been vague or unclear about anything then you can feel free to ask me in this thread and I will be happy to clarify things for you. Thank you for reading the post and thank you for your responses. Have a good time

My diet is: - Omlette and bread in the morning for breakfast - In Lunch I eat heavy food like chicken curry, pizza, rice, soup, beef, pasta or noodles. - Between lunch and dinner, I sometime grap a snack like biscuits or doughnuts. - In dinner, I eat sweet dishes like cake, pastry, cookies or chocolate with a cup of tea.

Thank you for all your responses

Hi, I am 20 years old and approximately 60 to 70 percent of my hair on my head is already turning white as if I am aging into an old person. I am scared that I am aging so quickly despite the reality that I am so young, only 20 years old. So, I wanted to ask that can you guys share any possible causes for my hair turning white at only 20 years old? Also, can you guys tell me what is the solution to this problem like what can I do to fix it and if I can make my hair black again by any natural practice beside the practice of hair coloring? Thank you for your responses

Hi everyone, In this post, I want to share with you guys an event that happened with me in the past and I want you guys to tell me your thoughts about it. By your thoughts, I mean, I want you guys to tell me, was my friend correct? What should I have done different looking back? Was I the wrong one? Is this normal? In the month of July, last year, I along with my friend had a fight with a gang consisting of about 4 to 6 people. I and my friend were only two people. So it was 2 vs 6. FYI, below are the details of how the story unfolded: It was 2 a.m. midnight and I with my friend, accidentally, broke into an apartment for the purpose to inspect property damage. We found a girl sleeping and we did not know about the girl presence in the apartment in the first place. However, the girl called her brother and her brother called 4 to 6 people to fight with my friend along with me. My friend was in the Frontline fighting and I was back so my friend got slapped 2 to 3 times and punch 2 to 3 times by them. However, they did not beat or hit me. For this, my friend charged my 400 Chinese yuan. Then again, in the month of September, last year, I was slapped by a friend of that girl's brother. We went to the university administration to solve it. Then again my friend came with me to the administration. Then he charged me 100 Chinese yuan because he took my side with me in the administration. So are these charges of money which he laid upon me was normal? What should I have done in retrospect? Thank you for your guys responses!

Hi, I am a third year medical student at the People's Republic of China. 🇨🇳 My family however lives in Canada 🇨🇦. Currently, I am in Canada living with my family. Recently, I am not able to adjust living in China because of various challenges like language barrier, not good financial situation, not good friends, people forcing me to smoke/drink alcohol and their are even some gangs in my Chinese university who want to beat me up. I have two friends in China but they also want me to spend 100 to 200 USD on them per month otherwise they say that they will not protect me from those bad gangs and they will tell to those bad gangs to beat me up inside the university Campus. However, I have already invested 30000 USD in my education in China so far. If I leave my education in China then 30000 USD went waste. So, I want your guys opinion on whether, I should continue studying on China or leave China to study in Canada and live with my family in Canada 🇨🇦. Thanks for your responses

In Chine, the system works as give and receive. If someone does any work for me then they expect to recieve something in return