Harlen Kelly

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  2. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    On 10/16/2021 at 10:19 AM, Leo Gura said:

    Using prostitutes will not improve your skills at sex or with attracting girls.

    Prostitution damages girls more than pickup, that's for sure.

    You seriously haven't thought about how damaging prostitution is to the prostitutes. It fucks them up for life.

    What actual scientific, scrutinized, researched data suggests is the following: 

    1 - Sarah Romans, MD, et al., in the Feb. 2011 Australian and New Zealand Journal of Psychiatry article “The Mental and Physical Health of Female Sex Workers: A Comparative Study,” wrote:

    “There were no differences in mental health… or in self-esteem… between the two groups [female prostitutes and females who weren’t prostitutes]…

    Overall, despite any personal problems arising from the particular nature of their work, these women described as adequate relationships with partners, friends and work colleagues. Two papers have suggested that sex workers have high rates of psychological symptoms; however, both used convenience samples and lacked a comparison group making interpretation of the results difficult. Our results challenge prevailing ideas that sex work and psychiatric morbidity are inevitably associated.”

    2 - Ine Vanwesenbeeck, PhD, Manager of Research at Rutgers Nisso Group, Dutch Expert Centre on Sexuality, in the Dec. 2005 Archives of Sexual Behavior article “Burnout Among Female Indoor Sex Workers,” wrote:

    “This study provided evidence that female indoor sex workers in the Netherlands do not exhibit a higher level of work-related emotional exhaustion or a lower level of work-related personal competence than a comparison group of female health care workers (mostly nurses)…

    The fact that findings were partly contrary to expectations and contrary to suggestions from others that sex work is intrinsically traumatizing may be explained by sample differences. Here, indoor sex workers were studied, whereas many other studies focus almost exclusively on street workers.”

    Your stance is not based on scientifically scrutinized data. This is not an argument for using prostitutes by the way, it's an argument for being factual when presenting information. 

  3. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    6 hours ago, Lyubov said:

    I can’t speak for Vegas cause I’ve never been there but no way does the US have nearly the volume of beauty that most of Europe and South America has. 

    There are 330,000,000 people who live in the US, many of whom are very attractive females in different parts of the country. What you are saying does not make any sense. 

    If you go to LA, miami, las vegas, ny, and many other cities, you will encounter a very high volume of attractive women. 

    I've been to countries of Latin America by the way. 

  6. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    10 hours ago, Ry4n said:

    I'm stealing this quote ahaha, although I'd add "overly protecting the weakest members" which is very much a problem these days. It's like reaching for a drowning person who takes you down with them, we should do our best but know some people are simply beyond help. 

    The people beyond help are the people with your ideological positions who are catching COVID and dying to own the libs (not you necessarily but a lot of right wing nut jobs have), I hope you understand your argument.

    Adopting the mentality of not protecting the weak would disproportionately affect the least psychologically developed such as right wing nut jobs who are too underdeveloped for their own good.

  8. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

    This girl literally told me - indirectly - she does reward fuckboys and it just pains my heart that girls reward such guys and punish (nice) guys like me and I don't know how to deal with it!

    The best guys I have personally gamed with who get laid the most are total scumbags, and I mean total scumbags. That doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a scumbag to get consistent and reliable results, mind you. 

    28 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

    It is likely she would go on another date with me but I was kind of sad that the last part of the date was boring. She was bored. I was bored.

    Just make sure you escalate physically and go in for the kiss, if she rejects the kiss laugh if off and try again later, if it goes well and she is reciprocating your advances, pull her to your apartment. 

    One way to not get too attached and invested is by perceiving this as nothing more than practice. If it works, great, if it doesn't, you learn from it.

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    @StarStruck By having sex with many beautiful women. It will become normalized in your mind and you will naturally behave authentically around them. 

    If you still cannot reliably have sex with beautiful women, you can do visualizations, affirmations, etc. But to actually and subconsciously feel like you deserve beautiful women, you will have to sleep with many of them. There is no way around this. 

  11. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    @siasatmadar It depends on the guy that will train you, 1000 bucks is not even that much money. 

    Going to a therapist or life coach is fine if that's the route you want to choose, however, you will not learn how to pick up women by going to a therapist, you will learn how to pick up women by picking up women, just like you learned how to ride a bike by riding the bike. 

    Very logical, right? Exactly.

  16. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    @Ry4n Answer this. 

    Are Canada, Germany, South korea, Japan, Singapore, France, Norway etc.. totalitarian regimes for having implemented similar mandates and did they become totalitarian regimes after the implementation of said mandates? 

    1 hour ago, Ry4n said:

    Thanks for recommending that to me, sounds very accurate in describing my lived experience.

    Such a straightforward, simple definition and somehow you can't comprehend it, unbelievable. 

  17. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    4 hours ago, Ry4n said:

     

     

    Lol, this is what you call totalitarianism? this is why it's not worth having a serious discussion with people with your misinformed/silly ideological positions. At least understand at a basic level what totalitarianism means, it only takes like 5 minutes to read the basic definitions, furthermore, that information is readily available. 

    Are Canada, Germany, South korea, Japan, Singapore, France, Norway etc.. totalitarian regimes for having implemented similar mandates and did they become totalitarian regimes after the implementation of said mandates? 

    Can you not see the silliness of your ideological position?

  19. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    @somegirl He is either not interested at all, or just like you, there might be other chicks that are trying to be with him which is why he is not paying much attention to you. 

    46 minutes ago, somegirl said:

    I assume it doesn't take much for a guy to decide if he likes a girl or not

    It takes seconds, he might simply not be interested. 

     

  20. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    8 hours ago, Ry4n said:

    Doesn't really matter, in principle letting the unvaccinated face the consequences and minding one's medical business is a healthier societal culture than medical apartheids

    Of course it doesn't matter to you, conspiratorial minds don't particularly care about factual evidence or systemic/scientific analysis. 

    Most advanced nations such as japan, south korea, germany and canada imposed similar mandates during a certain period of time and they did not become totalitarian regimes or whatever else your conspiratorial mind is concocting. 

    You might not be an anti-vaxxer, but you are not thinking rationally/analytically, you don't even care about observable facts regarding the pandemic. 

    8 hours ago, Ry4n said:

    The politicisation of a vaccine overall makes many people naturally suspicious, this hasn't really happened before

    This is another conspiracy theory, this has not been the first vaccine mandate, nor will it be the last.

    8 hours ago, Ry4n said:

    Who knows perhaps one day alcohol will be illegal as this increases the detrimental effects of covid? Maybe that sounds silly to you

    It's conspiratorial thinking and that exemplifies the lack of sophistication in your analysis. 

  22. Posted · Edited by Harlen Kelly

    @Johnny Galt I'll try to address each conspiracy/piece of misinformation one by one, I doubt that will change your mind. 

    1 - No international institution that's specialized in the treatment of COVID has asserted you can flatten the curve in 2 weeks because the flattening of a curve depends on demographic density of each country, tracking capabilities for people who are infected, etc. 

    2 - what's their track record? Leading physicians that have dedicated 10+ years to the field of medicine, maybe ( just maybe ) they might have more credible knowledge regarding the pandemic and the virus than the average brain-rotten, anti-vax youtuber/social media personality.

    3 - 98% of deaths are among the unvaccinated. 

    4 - Only 1% of medical staff were opposed to the vaccine mandate, in other words, 99% of the medical staff remained after the mandate. 

    5 - The vax has been extensively tested and has proven to be highly effective and safe, maybe not according to your favorite anti-intellectual, anti-vax social media personality, but certainly according to leading physicians across different countries. 

    Spreading misinformation in regards to COVID is not allowed as per the forum guidelines. Spread dull-wittedness somewhere else. 

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    4 minutes ago, Johnny Galt said:

    @Harlen Kelly (edit) Are you suggesting that we disregard anecdotal evidence? 

    What one should do is teach rigorous analytical and scientific thinking in school because the consequences of not doing so is having a not so intellectually adept society. 

    Anecdotal evidence is worthless, meaningless and vacuous information, science is much more complex and systemic than that. 

    2 minutes ago, Johnny Galt said:

    @Harlen Kelly So are you one of those who claim to be pro-science and yet you respond like a child? 

    As I said previously, you would not seriously debate a flat earther, some ideological positions simply deserve to be discarded and laughed at.