Miguel1

Of course if you are trying to convince someone of something, then you are in their frame, not yours. That’s the whole point. When attracting girls, don’t convince them of truth. And definitely take the frame of you are the shit (attractive frame), and that you don’t need them - even if it is BS.

I can certainly dance to that, but mostly for fun on my own. What I am looking for is leaving a raw, honest, authentic, and deep emotional impact. That's the brand I want to create. This beat doesn't really have those elements. It's more for chilling.

Truth = destruction of fantasies, self-deceptions, lies, BS. OP started a conversation about whether there is reconciliation between frame control and Truth. I answered to that.

Hi, and welcome to the forum. So to preface, I have a lot of dating experience. We are talking 10k+ approaches, 10 years of on and off gaming, multiple long-term gfs etc. And the short answer to your question is: do not aim for Truth in dating. That's the surest way to lose all your girls. I was like you and I had to learn it the hard way, again and again because I was stubborn. Perhaps you need to learn it the hard way too. Of course there is always an exception to the rule, but in this case, the exception is virtually non-existent. Take me for example, I am 30 years old (actually 31, I turned today!), the girls I find attractive are around my age and younger. How many of girls in this age group is highly develop and conscious? And how many of those are also physically attractive enough? Girls unlike us, are emotional beings. Even the most conscious women are not necessarily doing hard-truth type of spirituality. They are more people orientated, like girls in general are. Teal Swan teaches trauma and relationships for example. So to summarize: destroying fantasies of girls with truth is a damn terrible idea. Doing the opposite is what gets you the results in dating. Thing of dating more like money making. Exhaust that desire, burn through the karma, and then let it go. Transcend higher.

Go ahead. I am very specific with my music tho so no promises but I am very curious to see what people here would want me to dance to!

@AerisVahnEphelia Let’s see again how you feel when you are starving to death.

Good to hear.

Interesting. How did this manifest / play out?

Been super busy with life and survival but I'm gonna start creating again. Don't forget the caption (writing)! https://www.instagram.com/p/DQ14otTgqrf/

I have suicidal thoughts sometimes, who doesn't. I have them during really tough and low times, during times I’m badly stuck and feel hopeless. And pretty much every time the way I've dealt with it has been by just getting crystal clear about my values, what I want, what is a life worth living for, and is it reachable? Is there anything beautiful I can live for? I can fight for? If there is, then simply just by aligning myself to the path towards that already pulls me out of it. Getting out of my ego, and focusing on things that actually matter is the key. I am realizing now, but finding beauty in life is really what keeps me going. Without beauty, life is utterly meaningless and grey.

Most people here haven't even mastered their survival, including me. Forget about enlightenment.

To build a beautiful human life based on higher purpose, top values, and deep alignment. To be able to provide massive value to humanity with my beauty and work - to truly, truly master my craft (this one gives me tremendous joy and happiness). On top of this, having a decent social life, a relatively conscious and mature romantic relationship, a beautiful house (and a second smaller one for deep focused work), and financial stability and freedom. Health and fitness are definitely top priority too, and a non-negotiable. Luckily I have learned to love playing football (soccer) and dancing from childhood, and going to the gym ever since teen. And I absolutely love healthy food too. Finally, probably pursue deep Awakening and Consciousness. This will be left to be seen once I am in a place in life, where I can actually do serious, focused pure spiritual work. I shall see then, that how far I want to push it. Maybe all the way, maybe not much more than what I have reached so far. Thanks for the question and allowing me to do this reflection.

Seems like you have strong natural ambition in your personality temperament. Don't let spiritual brainwashing repress it. Use it to develop yourself through the spiral stages, and finally, create amazing stuff for yourself and the world.

For a lot of average, normal people, probably gets worse. They start simply just vegetating, turning into zombies. At least from outside observation. For us serious self-developers and pure spiritualists, life tend to get better as we mature, get to know ourselves deeper, develop more courage and wisdom to go after what we truly want from life - considering the fact that health doesn't deteriorate too badly. But at the same time, damn the hard core spiritual work does create the most depressing black pill existential crises. I deal with that by diving deep into creating art. Intuition says that with proper integration, the black pills turn into tremendous power for cutting-edge and amazing breakthroughs in any fields that I touch, but mostly art, as that is my main focus.

Of course. Take care of your basics and burn through your karma.