EvilAngel

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    Hi everyone.

    I have this problem when I start a relationship - I feel happy when I'm with the girl, but then I get really depressed whenever I'm not with them. It's like being in a relationship brings my deepest feelings to the forefront of my awareness. When I'm not in a relationship, I don't have this problem because there aren't the highs and lows. I don't feel much at all when I'm not in a relationship, which I find easier to deal with (so for that reason I tend to avoid relationships).

    My ex contacted me on Valentines, and I'm thinking about getting back with her, but I don't know if its the best idea. I broke off the relationship a few months ago because I felt we didn't have enough in common, but I also feel like I didn't give her a real chance (as we were only together a couple weeks). I was at school with her 15 years ago, and she asked me out back then, but I said no. Then we met last year and had a nice time for a couple of weeks. 

    The main thing I'm saying is that for me, love=pain, which is why I've not been with someone for more than a few months in my whole life. Is this something I have to just work through, and things will get better with time? Do I need to give my partner more time before I call things off? That's what I'm thinking, but I'd appreciate you good people's insights and advice...

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    4 hours ago, TheAvatarState said:

    @EvilAngel I did, so I get you, but I do not anymore. This completely evaporates when you raise your consciousness. More specifically, try to seriously understand WHY they are like that, then understand that they didn't choose to be that way. Spiral Dynamics REALLY helped me to have compassion for others. 

    Also, try flipping this problem on its head! Start seeing how dealing with unconscious people is a blessing. A test for you to reflect on how far you've come. Step in their shoes and see how your higher vibration can raise theirs. Getting angry at them actually lowers the vibrational energy and leads to a string of negative thoughts and actions for both you and the receiver of that energy. Whether you're conscious of this or not, that's what happens.  

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqr98O8QT3M

    This is not something that can happen overnight. It'll probably take months to truly get to a place where you stop anger and judgment.

    Because this was a recent thing for me, I occasionally feel anger rising up inside, but I can evaporate it as quickly as it had come.  

    Thankyou, I watched the video, that was helpful. Like you, I feel the anger rise up, but do not actually "get" angry. I was more referring to the emotional reaction rather than an outward display of anger.

     

    17 minutes ago, Truth Addict said:

    @EvilAngel

    The Devil (ego) gets angry.

    Angels feel sympathy.

    And God is watching.

    Love it.

    And thanks to everyone for the replies....I guess I just have to raise my consciousness even further rather than be affected by things I can't change.

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    @winterknight I just read your article on "Power of Now" 

    You make some good points, for example, when Tolle says this:

    Once you know how the basic dysfunction operates, there is no need to explore all its countless manifestations, no need to make it into a complex personal problem.

    and you say this:

    "People don't "make it into a complex personal problems." Most people actually have such problems which they currently try their best to ignore and shove under the rug. They would benefit by addressing them through exploration and expression in art and/or therapy. Brushing them aside in the name of so-called spirituality is stupidity."

    I completely agree with. Talking through past trauma is essential for healing, and too many people "spiritually bypass" this in favour of completely dissociating from their feelings. I have had problems talking to my family because they adhere so much to Tolle's teachings. For example, when I try to work things through which happened in the past and that still affect me, someone might say something like, "it's not worth going back to that" or "you're living in the past", or "what matters is now". Really makes me angry.

    Having said that, I still think it's a useful book.

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    These are the affirmations I listen to every day for 30 minutes (it takes 1min 30 sec to listen to them all, repeated 20 times, adding up to 30 minutes)

    I was wondering how useful you think these are, and whether you think they'll make much of a difference to my life? I listen to them one after the other in a repeated loop. I recorded myself on my phone. (maybe it's not the best idea to listen to different affirmations one after the other? Idk) I've been listening to them every day for 48 days, but not had any major results (perhaps some more subtle results though).

    I wake up happy and excited every single day.

    Each day of my life is filled with joy and love.

    I am enthusiastic about every second of my life.

    Everything I do is fun, healthy and exciting.

    I am a beacon of love and compassion.

    Everyone sees how much joy and love I have for life.

    I crave new, healthy experiences.

    All of my relationships are positive and filled with love and compassion.

    I see others as good people who are trying their best.

    I find opportunities to be kind and caring everywhere I look.

    I easily accomplish all of my goals.

    I only desire things that are healthy for me.

    I instantly manifest my desires.

    My life is full of magic and serendipity,

    My thoughts and feelings are nourishing.

    I am present in every moment.

    I see beauty in everything.

    People treat me with kindness and respect.

    I am surrounded by peaceful people.

    My environment is calm and supportive.