Posted July 21, 2021 Just wondering if anyone's been successful in permanently changing their sexual preferences. I know it's possible one way or another, but have never heard of it being done. Surely, when you expand your awareness wide enough, it should be possible to do something as simple as that? Though, I'm worried it might take a Coral level of power, if not more. I'm currently at gay level 0. How can I turn it up? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 @thisintegrated have you tried hormone therapy for the gender you wanna transit to ? INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Why do you want to be more gay? "Just a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down" -- Marry Poppins Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Just now, Preety_India said: @thisintegrated have you tried hormone therapy for the gender you wanna transit to ? I have zero interest in anything like that. I'm 100% straight. That's the problem. Women just can't debate/reason (sorry if that's offensive). It would be convenient AF if I wasn't attracted to women. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 @thisintegrated oops I made a mistake. I don't think you were talking about gender change. Ok preferences are natural I guess. So maybe watch porn to develop interest in that direction..porn that is relevant to the interest you want Or join a club where you hangout with people with similar interests. Then you get to expand your awareness and state in the direction you prefer.. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 2 minutes ago, Matt23 said: Why do you want to be more gay? I thought this would be obvious. There's not a single advantage to being straight, yet every advantage to being gay. Fuck that "proving you're assertive and brave, yet kind and gentle, but dominant and confident, yet sensitive and emotional" shit. Not worth it. I ain't jumping through anyone's hoops, not for any reason. Oh and.. fuck THIS shit. @Leo Gura Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Maybe just try it out?? "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 4 minutes ago, thisintegrated said: I thought this would be obvious. There's not a single advantage to being straight, yet every advantage to being gay. Fuck that "proving you're assertive and brave, yet kind and gentle, but dominant and confident, yet sensitive and emotional" shit. Not worth it. I ain't jumping through anyone's hoops, not for any reason. Oh and.. fuck THIS shit. @Leo Gura Maybe you can try it for a few months. I wonder what you think about being bisexual ? INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 7 minutes ago, Preety_India said: Why are you so turned off by women ? Why do you offensively put down women's intelligence ? Do women trigger you because they are just trying to talk ? Maybe focus on what's bothering you so much. I'd like to think it's not women-specific, but I can only give them the benefit of the doubt for so long. Women are simply MANY times more likely to make for poor conversation partners. Women don't need to be smart, funny, or have hobbies for men to be interested in them. Men will be attracted to them no matter what. So, naturally, men are statistically far more likely to be fun to talk to. I really wish I was wrong, but this is just the way things are. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Hmmm, I don't agree but with what you say above, but there is nothing wrong with trying out being with a man "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Just now, thisintegrated said: I'd like to think it's not women-specific, but I can only give them the benefit of the doubt for so long. Women are simply MANY times more likely to make for poor conversation partners. Women don't need to be smart, funny, or have hobbies for men to be interested in them. Men will be attracted to them no matter what. So, naturally, men are statistically far more likely to be fun to talk to. I really wish I was wrong, but this is just the way things are. Too narrow perspective on women. Women are fun to be with. I have had interesting conversations with men. Anyway your frustrations with women shouldn't be a valid reason to turn gay. Turning gay should not be about escapism but embracing sexual preferences. It's like if I said I wanna be lesbian because I can't get a man. Would not sound like a choice made in the best frame of mind. More like a choice made out of frustration Often we regret what we decide when we are stressed out. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 (edited) 14 minutes ago, Preety_India said: Maybe you can try it for a few months. Try what? Being gay? As I said, I'm 0% gay. I'm seriously put off by any sort of masculinity. 14 minutes ago, Preety_India said: I wonder what you think about being bisexual ? Technically, I'm a "gynesexual", which is basically straight. Bisexual would mean attraction to both masculinity and femininity. Edited July 21, 2021 by thisintegrated Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 1 minute ago, thisintegrated said: Try what? Being gay? As I said, I'm 0% gay. I'm seriously put off by any sort of masculinity. Technically, I'm a "gynosexual", which is basically straight. Bisexual would mean attraction to both masculinity and femininity. You say that you're straight. How has your sexual experience been with women? Would you describe it as fulfilling? INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 10 minutes ago, Preety_India said: Anyway your frustrations with women shouldn't be a valid reason to turn gay. Turning gay should not be about escapism but embracing sexual preferences. It's like if I said I wanna be lesbian because I can't get a man. Would not sound like a choice made in the best frame of mind. More like a choice made out of frustration Often we regret what we decide when we are stressed out. There's some truth to this, but you shouldn't be a slave to your circumstances. 10 minutes ago, Preety_India said: Too narrow perspective on women. Women are fun to be with. I have had interesting conversations with men. I'm sure you have, but that's just proving my point. Men have better conversations; women are.. well.. at least you can have sex with them.. "fun". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 13 minutes ago, Preety_India said: You say that you're straight. How has your sexual experience been with women? Would you describe it as fulfilling? Kinda. Just not really worth the effort. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 2 minutes ago, thisintegrated said: I'm sure you have, but that's just proving my point. Men have better conversations; women are.. well.. at least you can have sex with them.. "fun". Hmm. I don't think that the only fun you have with women is sexual. Have you had deep blissful intimate moments with women where a woman laughed with you, where you felt happy sharing stuff with her, where you cried with her, where you cooked and went hiking with her. Won't that be fun too? INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Preety_India said: Have you had deep blissful intimate moments with women where a woman laughed with you, where you felt happy sharing stuff with her, where you cried with her, where you cooked and went hiking with her. Won't that be fun too? Nope. Don't expect I will in this lifetime. Probably would be nice, but unlikely to ever happen. Can't do that kinda stuff online. Edited July 21, 2021 by thisintegrated Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Self-Love bro. Get gay for yourself first YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qItTnddn6Ek Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Femboys are what you are looking for if you are heterosexual but want to explore gayness. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 21, 2021 Do you really want to want to be with men, or are you lashing out because of prior experiences with women? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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