Healthy alternatives to porn?

[ravlondon]

I don't have a girl right now and consider porn to be toxic. 

Using images is a gateway back into porn lol, any substitutes?

[Gesundheit]

• Sex toy?
• I once saw a video showing how to make a vagina using gloves and sponge.
• Lol

[LastThursday]

The only healthy substitute is a real person (although mileage may vary). I realise the pandemic makes this harder though. But perhaps just plain old masturbation and your imagination is good enough? Maybe if you have fetishes you should improve on those some more? Obviously, only as long as the fetish isn't just watching porn all day.

[RendHeaven]

real person or use your imagination 

[Espaim]

try these and find where you can stay comfortable

porn->images->toy->imagination->nothing->nofap

[zeroISinfinity]

Sex. 

[blankisomeone]

Conscious masturbation

Go deep within yourself and explore your sexuality WITHOUT the use of external stimuli

Edit: focusing on mental imagery of porn videos you’ve watched would count as external stimuli. Better to focus your attention on the actual body sensations.

I think that would be the best alternative after actual sex.

Edited March 8, 2021 by blankisomeone

[ravlondon]

@blankisomeone I'll try this out 

[flowboy]

On 08/03/2021 at 3:34 AM, blankisomeone said:

Conscious masturbation

Go deep within yourself and explore your sexuality WITHOUT the use of external stimuli

Edit: focusing on mental imagery of porn videos you’ve watched would count as external stimuli. Better to focus your attention on the actual body sensations.

I think that would be the best alternative after actual sex.

Seconded!

Do this and take your time. Put on music. Use oil or lube. But don't fantasize.

You'll find that it will satisfy you even if you don't ejaculate. (Which has the added benefit of not lowering your testosterone levels)

It's called tantric masturbation.

[Parththakkar12]

On 8/3/2021 at 8:04 AM, blankisomeone said:

I think that would be the best alternative after actual sex.

Correction - actual conscious sex, not unconscious sex! I prefer conscious masturbation to unconscious sex any day.

[blankisomeone]

On 09/03/2021 at 10:07 AM, Parththakkar12 said:

Correction - actual conscious sex, not unconscious sex! I prefer conscious masturbation to unconscious sex any day.

Good observation

Edited March 11, 2021 by blankisomeone