Posted July 18, 2020 10 minutes ago, Galyna said: @Preety_India you are super lovely and sweet. Hugs. ???? Hugs hun INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 6 minutes ago, Preety_India said: So it's a myth to assume that a woman is in an abusive relationship because she must be a horrible person herself I never said that I said the reverse. Negative and arrogant women tend to always get abusive relationships. I never said that girls in abusive relationships are all arrogant. I was just talking about the arrogant/bitchy type. Of course nice girls get bad/abusive relationships when they are inexperienced. It's very common. I was just saying that the bitchy type can't get an actualized and positive man. ?? Inquire in the now. Feeling is the truest knowing ?️ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 10 minutes ago, billiesimon said: I was just saying that the bitchy type can't get an actualized and positive man. ?? Absolutely agree ?? INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 12 minutes ago, Arcangelo said: She smokes pot. Where is that "I hate hippies" dude when you need him? Oh that's right - he got banned Intrinsic joy = being x meaning ² Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 Attraction is not a choice. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 A guy wants a sexy body.. A girl wants a sexy personality.. "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 hour ago, Someone here said: A guy wants a sexy body.. A girl wants a sexy personality.. Everyone wants sexy everything. You wouldn't reject someone who is hot both physically and mentally, and if you're a guy then know that mental hotness exists even if most guys aren't aware of it. For example, a girl with a low self-esteem is a huge turn-off for me. If there were no other girls on earth, I would rather be celibate for the rest of my life than to date her. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 26 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: For example, a girl with a low self-esteem is a huge turn-off for me. If there were no other girls on earth, I would rather be celibate for the rest of my life than to date her. I mean if she is a blonde no problem with me lol... "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 8 minutes ago, Someone here said: I mean if she is a blonde no problem with me lol... You're talking about sex but relationships are not merely about sex. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 Looks only go so far.. You'd get bored after a while if the person didn't have a personality that you desired. There are a lot of metrics that both gender need to fulfill to secure the relationship. People who usually only want the look are looking for company but not relationship. A person hunting for a relationship will look for a lot of factors beyond looks. Of course looks are a part of those factors. I might like a guy who looks incredibly handsome but I won't have a relationship if he didn't have a personality that vibes with me. So I will be happier with a guy who looks good as well as has a personality and attitude that gets along with me INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Gesundheit said: You're talking about sex but relationships are not merely about sex. No I'm not talking just about sex although that's a huge part of what the male mind is focused on in relationships (let's be honest). But regardless.. I'm being honest.. I don't care that much about her personality traits if she fits the criteria of physical attractiveness according to my male mind. To me .. If a girl is beautiful and blonde.. That's it boom done let's marry lol Edited July 18, 2020 by Someone here "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Someone here said: To me of a girl is beautiful and blonde.. That's it boom done let's marry lol If she does not have a good personality, you will regret it afterwards. Superficial relationships will only be superficial. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 Just now, Gesundheit said: If she does not have a good personality, you will regret it afterwards. Superficial relationships will only be superficial. Ofcourse who would reject the best of both worlds? If a person is both physically attractive and got a good personality.. That would be the perfect partner.. Everyone agrees on that I guess. The difference comes regarding what's the priority according to YOU? And since people are different their priorities are different.. My priority in a partner is their looks and THEN comes their personality. BTW blondes are usually classy and polite. They meet the criteria of physical attractiveness and the good feminine personality traits as well. "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 21 minutes ago, Preety_India said: Looks Looks only go so far.. To you.. Relativity "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 On 15/07/2020 at 10:08 PM, iceprincess said: describe your PERFECT woman Just the tip of the iceberg but here goes: She has control over her monkey-mind. She only talks when necessary with the least amount of words possible. Supportive and understanding. Mildly naughty, can easily change the mood just by being herself. Clean, fresh breath, etc... Vulnerable with me and strong without me. Intelligent, although not dogmatic or complex. She has to be able to communicate clearly. Women who talk a lot to express little turn me off big time. Highly conscious. Perhaps the most important and sexiest thing here. Women who are closed-minded turn me off. She understands her shadow, and preferably mine. Things like openness, communication, beauty, being a good caregiver, having a direction in life, honesty, loyalty, etc... are across the board, of course. And no, she's not a unicorn. She existed but life took her from me, for now. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) @Someone here well. I don't think. I think a lot of people want both looks and personality so of course I'm not alone. So a lot of people are actually like me. Look at this thread itself. Most people responding how they want both looks and personality. Look at the comment before my comment. Edited July 18, 2020 by Preety_India INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 1 minute ago, Preety_India said: @Someone here well. I don't think. I think a lot of people want both looks and personality so of course I'm not alone. So a lot of people are actually like me. Look at this thread itself. Most people responding how they want both looks and personality. Yes I agree and that's also what I want. But the difference is what's the priority for you? It seems like your priority in a guy is his personality and then comes his looks.. But ofcourse you'd like him to have them both. My priority in a girl is her blonde (I mean her looks lol) and then comes her personality.. But ofcourse I'd like her to have them both. You get how this works? "When you get very serious about truth you accept your life situation exactly as it is. So much so that you aren't childishly sitting around wishing it were otherwise.If you were confined to a wheelchair you would just accept it as how reality is. Just as you now just accept that you are not a bird who can fly." -Leo Gura. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 12 minutes ago, Someone here said: BTW blondes are usually classy and polite. They meet the criteria of physical attractiveness and the good feminine personality traits as well. Lol WTF?! 14 minutes ago, Someone here said: Ofcourse who would reject the best of both worlds? If a person is both physically attractive and got a good personality.. That would be the perfect partner.. Everyone agrees on that I guess. The difference comes regarding what's the priority according to YOU? And since people are different their priorities are different.. My priority in a partner is their looks and THEN comes their personality. Then perhaps you should take into account the supply and demand principle. Priorities are relative to the market. If you have a lot to offer, your value goes up and you will more likely have the chance to pick as you like. Most guys aren't in that position. Women pick personality over looks because they know what will work in the long run. If you have marriage on your list, then you should consider personality as a priority. “If you have no confidence in yourself, you are twice defeated in the race of life. But with confidence you have won, even before you start.” -- Marcus Garvey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted July 18, 2020 (edited) My perfect woman must be at least virgin, next factor is color of her skin, shape of her body, symmetry of face, and how often she takes a bath Edited July 18, 2020 by Amit add Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
