TheUniverseIsLove

On The Receiving End of Pick Up ~ Advice

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To the guy who cold approached me at a book store in the psychedelics/ spiritual section today. If you're on here, a shoutout to you. 

As critique: you asked for my phone number really fast and came off as a little insecure. 

I didn't really have time to even see if I was attracted to you, let alone process anything else.

What you said to me was, 

"I'm going to beat myself up if I don't ask for your number" 

As an alternative: Try and talk to me first.  Be confident. Own the space. Ask me about what book I'm looking for. 

Give me a chance to see if there could be attraction. 

If we have a connection. The energy may give us hints. 

Then ask for my digits. 

The answer may still be no, for whatever reason....

But give yourself a fighting chance first!

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At first I thought it was Arcangelo, our original pick up guy :D

Nevermind. 

And yes, shout out to that dude. He needs to learn the subtle art of asking numbers. :)

 

( I like how Arcangelo hurriedly came to defend himself before anyone could point the finger at him :D

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INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

Cleared out ignore list today. 

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11 hours ago, Nahm said:

@TheUniverseIsLove Will do, thanks. Sorry bout that.

Omg, funny stuff???

 

@Arcangelo Maybe you should try bookstores? Since grocery stores aren't really working out. 

 

 


“You don’t have problems; you are the problem.”

– Swami Chinmayananda

Namaste ? ?

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@Nahm

A. Was that actually you? If so, small world. I see you universe. Lol

B. I mean the Individual "you"  Not the all encompassing "you" 

C. Plays. Self-help. Consciousness. Philosophy. Other theatre related books. Things people recommend to me. Books I gift to people. 

 

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1 minute ago, TheUniverseIsLove said:

A. Was that actually you? If so, small world. I see you universe. Lol

He's just playin'.:D


“You don’t have problems; you are the problem.”

– Swami Chinmayananda

Namaste ? ?

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On 27/02/2020 at 5:51 PM, TheUniverseIsLove said:

To the guy who cold approached me at a book store in the psychedelics/ spiritual section today. If you're on here, a shoutout to you. 

Thanks for the advice! Ill try you again next week and see if i get better results!

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This is the funniest thread. Thanks for the laughs 

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INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues

Cleared out ignore list today. 

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20 hours ago, Anna1 said:

Maybe you should try bookstores? Since grocery stores aren't really working out. 

Yes will do.

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