How did you ditch porn?

[Ether]

@Shroomdoctor But I want to use NoFap as a means to last longer and get my DICK HARDDDDDD.

Hahaha, I dont have a big addiction to porn.

[Shroomdoctor]

18 minutes ago, Ether said:

 last longer

 

 

19 minutes ago, Ether said:

get my DICK HARDDDDDD.

those are opposites. 

But really, don't fret so much over it. Find the right girl and its all gonna work out.

[Shroomdoctor]

@Pebble Self Love was the deciding factor for me. Don't wanna pleasure myself to girls working on something they mostly don't enjoy. 

[Ether]

42 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

@Pebble Self Love was the deciding factor for me. Don't wanna pleasure myself to girls working on something they mostly don't enjoy. 

Dont worry about it 

It was their choice either ways, even if you dont watch, millions will.

[Ibn Sina]

It is  neither necessary nor natural to completely ditch porn. Just keep it under control, no more than 10 mins a day (I guess)

Edited May 29, 2018 by Ibn Sina

[M4NTiC0R3X]

Haha tons of dirty posts here, my two cents..

The first thing I did was build meaningful and respectful relationships with myself/others. There’s a hell of a lot more to sex than simply getting off (though that’s good too!!) 

Which takes me to the second thing I did, use my brain! Get all sensual. Turn that moment into exactly what I wanted it to be. I get it... porn does the thinking for you. Seriously though and I’m not trying to be mean when I say it: get in touch with what you really want. It’s a hard topic LOL! See what I did there? Not everybody is into the same things.

Honest advice: find what you’re looking for and do your best to make it happen.

Either that or spend the rest of your life skipping to the good bits and finishing in less than 5 min. Which is perfectly okay as well, just not for me. 

[mostly harmless]

Sex is just an instinct that people have. You can watch animals having sex in the Discovery channel. It's comical. Humans having sex is just like that. 

Watching porn or generally the interest in seeing images of attractive people comes from the interest in mating opportunities with the most attractive partner possible. Obviously, seeing an attractive image of a super model or an actress in a movie, or a porn performer, is not a real mating opportunity. It's a brain hack of an animal instinct that we have. 

Humans look all the same. There are 2 models. Differences are actually not that big. Bodies are vehicles and they are all weird. The human body is just as weird as a platypus or a horse or any other kind of animal. If you have seen one man and one woman naked, you have seen them all. The same goes for porn. It's more or less acrobatic performance. Boring.

Porn is not evil. Everything that is declared bad about sex goes back to men wanting to control women. Men want sex. Women control who gets sex. Men invented morals around women being sexual is bad and implemented it into religion to give it authority. I wouldn't want to do porn or want a girlfriend who did porn but some people have a free attitude towards sex. Why shouldn't they do porn? I don't see anything wrong with that. Women being forced into prostitution is sad but that is something different than a self-confident woman who choses to do porn. Nothing wrong with that.

 

Did I sufficiently spoil porn for you, yet?

[veqsms]

I have been meditating for more than 2 years now ( almost every day) so that I am experiencing a rise in awareness, which i think has improve the ability to control cravings ( or te be aware of them). I still do watch porn but it's not very pleasing nowadays. There are times where I search in pornhub videos here and there but it is more like watching actors having sex for money or watch pixels who form naked women.

I suggest watch leo's. Video awareness alone can be curative and implement that with porn " just be aware how you harm yourself doing it, do not resist jus note how your body moves in autopilot mode" try to implement that for 6 months to one year hoping it will be successful. Thank you

[Alex14]

@egoeimai won’t psychedelics help with addiction?

[egoeimai]

59 minutes ago, Alex14 said:

@egoeimai won’t psychedelics help with addiction?

Well, I'm not sure,more because I haven't tried em. Also because I know what cures addiction is presence/awareness of the moment. Whatever takes your mind away from the moment aint gonna help. But as I said idk 

[Solace]

I had the blessing of never watching in my life I feel so grateful for that! Don't focus on porn, focus on love, joy, excitement, travel, thinking about having everything you could want right now. Leave no room for those thoughts, leave only room to express joy, gratitude, peace, in your own unique way. That's what matters, second to what you even physically do by a long shot!

Edited June 15, 2018 by Solace