I'm enlightened at getting laid. AMA anything

[Inliytened1]

4 hours ago, Joshe said:

The Tao that can be spoken is not the Tao. 😂 Holy shit I'm cracking up over here.

Fuck the Tao. He ain't spoken to me not once when the holy grail is in front of me.  

Edited 32 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Joshe]

28 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

And then unlock "into eunuch mode" 

Please intervene if I ever mention wanting to chop my dick off. lol

[Inliytened1]

 

39 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

I don't know. I just want a girlfriend who loves sex + likes to talk about different things.

You want a hot witch girlfriend. 

@Olaf trade?  My witch is fucking crazy i wouldn't do that to.him.

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 my witch will kill him

[Natasha Tori Maru]

11 minutes ago, Joshe said:

Please intervene if I ever mention wanting to chop my dick off. lol

On it boss, I have an exceptional radar for dick chop 😭

Sometimes I wonder how I get to the point in conversation where phrases like this come up

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 my witch will kill him

 

He's fucked ..I'll toss him mine.  Shes outgoing, very friendly. Triple Ds.  You can fuck her tits and almost be as happy 

 

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Natasha Tori Maru]

I feel like this forum needs a bolt on IRC or MSN Messenger section for users to shit talk. Then I remember I am a moderator and why would I want to do that to myself 

[Joshe]

2 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

On it boss, I have an exceptional radar for dick chop 😭

Sometimes I wonder how I get to the point in conversation where phrases like this come up

lol, thank you! It's feel good to know someone is there, just in case. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Joshe said:

lol, thank you! It's feel good to know someone is there, just in case. 

Stop talking sides with the enemy! 😀

[Olaf]

@Natasha Tori Maru I am sorry for traumatising you. This is what happens if you put guys together on one forum. 

[Joshe]

49 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

😀 now help me out and start giving these guys some advice.

There really isn't much to say aside from learn to be comfortable in your own skin and learn how to play with women. If all men came born with these things, pickup wouldn't exist and it would be seen as a neurotic strategy if it did. 

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, Joshe said:

There really isn't much to say aside from learn to be comfortable in your own skin and learn how to play with women. If all men came born with these things, pickup wouldn't exist and it would be seen as a neurotic strategy if it did. 

No. There is a lot to say.  There's a lot to the game and we are gonna need your advice.  Now..I handed @CARDOZZO my hot witch.  But me and @Olaf only have so many to go around. And they're crazy broads we don't wanna push them on anyone.  So there's a lot to be had here 

 

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Joshe]

19 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Sometimes I wonder how I get to the point in conversation where phrases like this come up

An expression of infinity 😂 Dick chop awareness is possible within infinity. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Joshe

[Joshe]

5 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

No. There is a lot to say.  There's a lot to the game and we are gonna need your advice.  Now..I handed @CARDOZZO my hot witch.  But me and @Olaf only have so many to go around. And they're crazy broads we don't wanna push them on anyone.  So there's a lot to be had here 

Ok, so where do you want to take it? 

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Joshe said:

Ok, so where do you want to take it? 

I think @CARDOZZO PM me I'll give you her number. She loves to ride big cowboys.  But after that you're on your own.

Edited 3 hours ago by Inliytened1

[CARDOZZO]

48 minutes ago, Joshe said:

There really isn't much to say aside from learn to be comfortable in your own skin and learn how to play with women. If all men came born with these things, pickup wouldn't exist and it would be seen as a neurotic strategy if it did. 

Can you link this? Who wrote it?

[Joshe]

23 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Can you link this? Who wrote it?

It was just ChatGPT. If you want the text: 

"Suppose a man is already comfortable with himself, can tolerate rejection, expresses attraction without shame, reads women reasonably well, and naturally knows how to tease/flirt/play. What remaining problem is sufficiently important that he'd want to turn interaction with women into an optimization project?

For most men, probably none. He'd just go interact with women.

The people most likely to continue studying pickup after reaching basic competence would disproportionately be people who enjoy optimization for its own sake: highly competitive people, perfectionists, systematizers, status-driven people, people who want unusually high sexual volume, or people who experience uncertainty as something that needs to be controlled. That's somewhat broader than “high-strung Type A,” because a relaxed but highly analytical systematizer could also become fascinated by it.

And I think there's a deeper distinction worth making:

Learning flirting is ordinary social development. Turning flirting into an explicit system for maximizing outcomes is a particular psychological response to the problem.

Consider other social domains. Most people want friends, but they don't develop friend acquisition systems. They want people to like them, but they don't spend years studying likability optimization. They want enjoyable conversations, but don't maintain spreadsheets of conversational openers.

If somebody did those things obsessively, we'd immediately start wondering what psychological need was driving all that machinery.

Pickup gets somewhat of a pass because heterosexual male dating presents a genuine asymmetry: men are still more often expected to initiate, rejection is common, and romantic/sexual success can be highly motivating. So some explicit learning makes perfect sense.

But once you remove the underlying inhibition and incompetence, continued intensive optimization starts telling you less about what dating objectively requires and more about what the practitioner psychologically requires from dating.

That's actually a sharper version of your original claim:

Quote

If men naturally felt comfortable in their own skin and knew how to play with women, there would still be dating advice. There probably wouldn't be much of a pickup industry.

And the remaining hardcore practitioners would likely be a psychologically selected population—men unusually interested in mastery, optimization, control, competition, validation, sexual variety, or some combination thereof."

Edited 2 hours ago by Joshe

[Miguel1]

What in the world did I wake up to

[Inliytened1]

58 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

What in the world did I wake up to

I don't know either.  All I know is that we are sharing hot witch girlfriends.  I'm not sure if they are on board with the plan yet. That remains to be seen. 

[meta_male]

1 hour ago, Miguel1 said:

What in the world did I wake up to

Brainrot.