There Is No Friend-zone on Semen Retention

[Olaf]

@Schizophonia its just spiritual narcissism where you think you are above stuff, YOU ARE NEVER ABOVE ANYTHING, we are all human monkeys that need to shit, have sex, eat and just be a human being, look at Bentinho, his suppression led to him becoming a cult sex leader, all because of stupid spiritual narcissism and shame and fear around sex in the spiritual community. Was more talking to the kids talk guy lol

[Rafael Thundercat]

4 hours ago, Monster Energy said:

Great. Now ask yourself why is that?

Is it because you believe she is the source of your well-being? You’ve given her the role of the source, but she’s only a trigger for a feeling of wholeness that you actually want.

You don’t really want her form. You want the state she seems to bring you into. That state is already within you, but the illusion is so strong that you can’t see it.

 

Whatever, the state of pleasure can be felt with no need to sex with a woman or even with masturbation. But that dont make the experience of sex less or more than something. 

[Emerald]

I've noticed that, when guys are into no-fap, there tends to be a lot of sexual shame that motivates them to want to quit masturbation.

So, I wanted to just affirm that there's nothing shameful or bad about self-pleasuring or about sexual pleasure in general.

Also, I sincerely doubt that women are magically attracted to guys doing no-fap. 

[Inliytened1]

2 hours ago, Emerald said:

I've noticed that, when guys are into no-fap, there tends to be a lot of sexual shame that motivates them to want to quit masturbation.

So, I wanted to just affirm that there's nothing shameful or bad about self-pleasuring or about sexual pleasure in general.

Also, I sincerely doubt that women are magically attracted to guys doing no-fap. 

I have no idea how you are still here.

 

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Emerald]

32 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I have no idea how you are still here.

How do you mean?

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Emerald said:

How do you mean?

Putting up with all of our nonsense.  But that's a woman's resilience.   You guys are more resilient then a man will ever be.

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Emerald]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

Putting up with all of our nonsense. 

I mostly come on here because I feel drawn to spar and debate things. 

So, if there weren't nonsense to spar with, I probably wouldn't feel as drawn to post on here.

Basically, I come her for an...

 

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Emerald said:

I mostly come on here because I feel drawn to spar and debate things. 

So, if there weren't nonsense to spar with, I probably wouldn't feel as drawn to post on here.

Basically, I come her for an...

 

There is a lot of deep shit to be had here but you ain't ever been in the right section. 

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Emerald]

10 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

There is a lot of deep shit to be bad here but you ain't ever been in the right section. 

If I were interested in depth, I wouldn't come to this forum to find it... as real depth requires a lot more emotional vulnerability than this setting allows for.

This forum is interesting to me precisely because it's a bunch of nerdy guys getting in random intellectual dick-measuring contests with one another to try to compete to be the most conscious person on the planet.

So, it gives space for my more combative, competitive side that wants to get into a bunch of intellectual dick-measuring contests.

Most of the contexts that I exist in, I'm very careful with people's feelings and I just hold space for others' perspectives, as I ask questions to facilitate their growth.

But on here, I don't hold space. I just talk about my views and get into arguments.

It's like intellectual bumper cars.

Edited 3 hours ago by Emerald

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, Emerald said:

If I were interested in depth, I wouldn't come to this forum to find it... as real depth requires a lot more emotional vulnerability than this setting allows for.

This forum is interesting to me precisely because it's a bunch of nerdy guys getting in random intellectual dick-measuring contests with one another to try to compete to be the most conscious person on the planet.

So, it gives space for my more combative, competitive side that wants to get into a bunch of intellectual dick-measuring contests.

Most of the contexts that I exist in, I'm very careful with people's feelings and I just hold space for others' perspectives, as I ask questions to facilitate their growth.

But on here, I don't hold space. I just talk about my views and get into arguments.

It's like intellectual bumper cars.

Well. I'm glad you can be free.  But it is all here.  Not sure how you found it. And frankly I don't care. But you did.  Awakening is here.

Edited 3 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Olaf]

@Emerald I agree with this. Nobody should feel ashamed to masturbate, in fact enjoy it, like enjoying your food. If you are addicted to porn or something, then that is a different story

[Schizophonia]

It is always the same problem; promoting an orthodoxy instead of doing things consciously, non-compulsively.

All the more so because paradoxically addictions often stem largely unconsciously from the fear of having to "give up" the thing in question. So the more you engage in forbiddenness the more compulsive you become.