Society hates UGLY people

[Monster Energy]

Society Hates Ugly People more than EVIL people. 

[enchanted]

Sad but true. To get a glimpse of how good it is to be attractive, make one of your profile pictures online a model and see how much more attention you get. 

The answer to this is to judge others less on looks. 

 

[Leo Gura]

Not so much hates, but just ignores.

[Monster Energy]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Not so much hates, but just ignores.

What consciousness world are you in? Talk to a girl under 30 and see what happens.

 

[LordFall]

Society hates people that don't offer value. Being good looking is just one of the many ways to be valuable to other humans. 

That's where the trope of the fat girls giving the best blow jobs or ugly dudes being really funny come from. You can afford to be ugly but you can't afford to not offer value. 

Edited 8 hours ago by LordFall

[Leo Gura]

44 minutes ago, Monster Energy said:

What consciousness world are you in? Talk to a girl under 30 and see what happens.

She won't hate you, just ignore you.

[AION]

God and society hates people with victim mindset. You might have a face that only a mother could love but if you feel victimized and thus entitled you are 10x uglier. 

[Miguel1]

It’s wild to imagine lots of people being outright ignored.

When I’m not lazy and look like homeless, people look at me a second too long, give me random bambi eye looks, randomly compliment me. I’ve taken all these for granted at this point.

I wonder how much this helped my self-esteem growing up and more importantly, how many traumas and insecurities I avoided.

[LordFall]

10 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

It’s wild to imagine lots of people being outright ignored.

When I’m not lazy and look like homeless, people look at me a second too long, give me random bambi eye looks, randomly compliment me. I’ve taken all these for granted at this point.

I wonder how much this helped my self-esteem growing up and more importantly, how many traumas and insecurities I avoided.

I don't think ugly people are ever outright ignored. I think they feel the two-class system and the lack of privilege they get compared to their better-looking peers and it creates resentment in them that feeds the victim complex that leads to a psychological cocktail that makes it hard to be a positive, fun and valuable person to be around. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall

[Miguel1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

I don't think ugly people are ever outright ignored. I think they feel the two-class system and the lack of privilege they get compared to their better-looking peers and it creates resentment in them that feeds the victim complex that leads to a psychological cocktail that makes it hard to be a positive, fun and valuable person to be around. 

That is definitely an element to it.

But just simply being good looking, you don’t even need to have positive energy and people will bump your state by validating you and giving you attention indirectly and directly.

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

I wonder how much this helped my self-esteem growing up and more importantly, how many traumas and insecurities I avoided.

A lot.

[Basman]

Comparison is the rhief of joy 🤗❤️

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Poorly thought out thread title.

"Hate" - I disagree.

Neglect, ignore, discard. Yes.

You deal with a whole host of other issues through life being attractive. It carries a lot of privilege. When the attractive person loses their looks, it is the first death. Second death when the heart stops. Many men & women who have recognised this loss and feel the invisibility creep in as their looks fade suffer, and bitterness can result. It can be a real headfuck and cause sadness, envy and jealousy - especially when those people have invested a lot of their attachmen, sense of self in their appearance and approval from the attention of others. In a similar way, having children can also bring this reality forward for woman in time to be faced earlier in life. 

The tradeoff is the axis between:

Experiencing a high degree of appearance based reinforcement which can lead to a larger identity disturbance when looks fade

and 

Experiencing lower appearance based reinforcement with less disruption from aging - but then potentially more deprivation & insecurity earlier in life

A big trap for good looking people is overvaluing it, never investing in other integral traits, behaviours and qualities, and having zero substance as a result.