Men are not allowed to be victims in the matriarchy

[AION]

If you are a women and you feel victim you will still do fine, your social life will be ok too. But if you are a man and you feel chronically victimized by life. That is brutal. Especially in nowadays social climate. 

2 days ago I broke up with my gf and this is not the first time it happened so I handled it well, put myself out there instead of wallowing in misery and I met a lot of new people. 

Girls don’t approach but they do position themselves close to you. And normally that doesn’t happen a lot but this night it happened like 5 times which is no coincidence in my opinion. 

I didn’t approach all of them because I was with one and the others were giving my eye contact in the venue so I couldn’t approach them all but if you are heart broken and deal with it as a champ you get rewarded by it by grace. 

To be fair I also took a micro dose lsd while going out but I don’t feel bad about the break up anymore. She didn’t give me a high priority in her life and was using sex as a leverage to let me do stuff and make commitments like settling down with her without knowing her. She also felt better than me and she said I only wanted her for sex which was not true. She wanted me to overpay for her while I met her in a nightclub and I know she has a history but let’s me overpay for sex which caused resentment. Do women think we are stupid? If others can smash on the first date we want that too. 

[LordFall]

Do you want to be a victim? Masculine accountability is a good thing. Do you want the moral support of random people or do you want inner strength and the ability to build unlimited leverage and power? 

Nothing great comes from a victim mindset. Talk to Gemini it'll help you make sense of your breakup and set goals to build a better life. 

You can find some more hippie circles that will tolerate and welcome you crying about your feelings and being vulnerable but in my experience those people actually won't have any solutions for your problem and they lack strength of character and ambition so it's not a valuable crowd to hang around anyway. Be careful with people that validate your vulnerability; it's sort of a faustian bargain.

That's my view at least. 

Edited 8 hours ago by LordFall

[AION]

@LordFall I use Claude. And I have a female therapist who nudges me to wallow in my victim mindset. I guess I need a men’s group. I tried some but there all men with the mindset of the feminine. It is hard to find good men nowadays. Most are on some bullshit. 

Edited 7 hours ago by AION

[QVx]

I think it's important you take some time to understand what emotions you are suppressing, and how those suppressed emotions are shaping your beliefs. 

[LordFall]

4 hours ago, AION said:

@LordFall I use Claude. And I have a female therapist who nudges me to wallow in my victim mindset. I guess I need a men’s group. I tried some but there all men with the mindset of the feminine. It is hard to find good men nowadays. Most are on some bullshit. 

What city do you live in? Try business and corporate events. The business world is all about efficiency and achieving goals in the world. Also fitness groups can be good but I don't really workout so I'm just guessing. 

It's not that understanding your emotions is not important it's that it's only 30% of the battle. A lot of the reasons you're sad because your life sucks not because you have childhood trauma. Feminine circles have performance and competition, it's not their forte. They like emotional support and social cohesion. 

[AION]

@LordFall I’m in west Europe. But business groups is idd good hot spot.