What I learned from approaching 50 women in 3 nights

[Lyubov]

2 hours ago, TheGod said:

I just can't connect with this type of women. Men who were raised there probably don't even see it as a problem, they think it's normal and women are like this everywhere. 

There is also a smaller amount of conventionally beautiful women in Canada and USA. So those girls know they hold almost all the cards. I'm not saying that's a bad thing in the grand scheme of things, western girls maybe feel less pressure to perform or looksmax like their European counterparts. Maybe there is also a sense of freedom and agency found in that for western women which they want.  It does conflict with the needs of most men though, stating this from a pure non-bias perspective, I am not saying the world should be different and I don't care either. Fewer hot girls means they are rarer which means it drives up the demand for them which means they hold more leverage in relationships and can be much pickier. You get to play around at the poker table when you hold all the chips. In Europe things are much more balanced and maybe even skew in the man's favor as well, so you can literally be a fkn drunk and have a super model girlfriend in the shitty Russian provincial city you live in. Stating this neutrally, not judging it as good or bad. So as a man you would naturally want to get your needs met more easily and in better ways, so naturally Europe makes sense to go to if women is your priority. South America too.

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South American women tend to fuck around even when in relationships. That's the biggest obstacle but still there are a lot of them who don't do it and have good integrity. Passport bros on the other hand destroyed cities like Medellín in Colombia. That's why every Colombian I know hates or doesn't like gringos lol

Yeah I think SA women are much more likely to be promiscuous. I noticed there were a ton of really hot young prostitutes in Brazil in their early 20s. They were like just normal sorta girls that hang around the beach and clubs but they were down to just fuck if you gave them some cash. They almost sorta blur'd the lines and it had a much cleaner connotation to it, they were like just normal party girls hanging around but they also made it clear they were fine if you payed for it. There was less of a dirty connotation to sex there and I think it means less there sometimes. I never felt liek I was on the same page as the girls I met in Brazil or like I could trust them as much, idk I'd describe it as I didn't see we had a mutual understanding. But besides sterotypes which are partially true there are also a lot of loyal and less promiscuous women there as well I'm sure. I never really cracked the Latina code. I slept with a few women in Brazil, oh my god 3 of the 4 were so fucking hot, one of them legit had a masterpiece ass I still think about sometimes  omfg her ass was perfect and she was so fkn hot. but I never quite connected with them, something felt really hollow with them, transactional like I was an atm, maybe even beyond that, I didn't perceive that any of them had a true twinkle in their eye for me, maybe I'm mid in SA? only one of them I sorta felt something more for but she had issues... and an ex she was still living with. Had a ton of make outs and teases that went nowhere, women will kiss like 5+ different guys when they go to the club  You will literally take a girl out you met on Tinder and she will then kiss another guy at the bar you took her to on the date 

So Idk Latinas aren't for me but I can def see why certain guys go for them. I'd have loved to get into some trouble in Colombia before it got overran but my time has passed. I legit missed out. Colombian women are easily tied with Easter Europeans in terms of beauty and sex appeal. 

Edited Sunday at 12:42 PM by Lyubov

[Carl-Richard]

16 hours ago, LordFall said:

I don't think it's realistic for introverted men to find an aligned parter in a club environment. You can use it to practice game but the odds of finding a girlfriend that you relate with deeply are less than a needle in a haystack.

Going duck hunting when you want to pet a swan.

[ZenSwift]

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I spoke (Russian) in one of my YT videos. Don't remember which.

Grasping The Illusory Nature Of Thought

Timestamp  (12:56-13:08) 

 

I have a pretty decent ability to remember what was said in what lecture. This is only of course because of how much time I've spent studying Leo's work. 

[LordFall]

32 minutes ago, ZenSwift said:

Grasping The Illusory Nature Of Thought

Timestamp  (12:56-13:08) 

 

I have a pretty decent ability to remember what was said in what lecture. This is only of course because of how much time I've spent studying Leo's work. 

It was him the whole time! The one sent to destroy the western catholic empire and create new super army of a enlightened beings that will bring back the Tsardom and restore the Empire to it's former glory. They got us good. привет!

Edited Sunday at 06:53 PM by LordFall

[Ulax]

20 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

@LordFall You don't need Russia, you can date similar girls in Ukraine or Poland.

Poland sounds fun.

But Ukraine might be tricky when a missile amogs you mid-set 

[Ulax]

On 22/08/2026 at 1:30 PM, TheGod said:

My goal is to approach a 1000 women and my ultimate goal is not that good  I don't want to have a lot of sex because my priority is something else: I want to be able to pull a girl to my place and make out with her and at the last minute I want to be able to be so disciplined that I can tell her, "Let's take it slowly." I want to win them over the game they are playing. Yeah I know it's some ego thing but it is what it is. 

 

 

You'll love Todd's game then

[LordFall]

2 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Poland sounds fun.

But Ukraine might be tricky when a missile amogs you mid-set 

Our love might not survive another day, let's do it tonight. 

We must unite against the evil empire. Find all your female friends, only the power of the harem can defeat the Spetsnaz. 

War and romance is a story as old as time. 

[Ulax]

Just now, LordFall said:

Our love might not survive another day, let's do it tonight. 

We must unite against the evil empire. Find all your female friends, only the power of the harem can defeat the Spetsnaz. 

War and romance is a story as old as time. 

Hahahaha imagine

[LordFall]

20 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

😂 😂Im weak.

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It's also the classic christian preacher and teleevangelists, materialism is bad, be careful not to be corrupted by money. Please send me your donations so I can get a private jet to and I will take the brave role of shouldering materialism on your behalf. 

"Flying commercial is like getting into a tube full of demons" - Classic Kenneth

 

[TheGod]

1 hour ago, ZenSwift said:

Grasping The Illusory Nature Of Thought

Timestamp  (12:56-13:08) 

 

I have a pretty decent ability to remember what was said in what lecture. This is only of course because of how much time I've spent studying Leo's work. 

hahahahahahahhahaha he´s such an american when he speaks russian lol 😂 

[LambdaDelta]

Hey, 

I'm in Madrid too, if you're down it'd be fun to meet up sometime around next weekend — PM me

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

😂

It's also the classic christian preacher and teleevangelists, materialism is bad, be careful not to be corrupted by money. Please send me your donations so I can get a private jet to and I will take the brave role of shouldering materialism on your behalf. 

"Flying commercial is like getting into a tube full of demons" - Classic Kenneth

 

They wanna be alone in heaven...

[Zen LaCroix]

Wow its amazing that you were able to take so much action.

Whst was going through your head before you approached? How did you deal with the resistance if you felt any? 

[TheGod]

8 hours ago, Zen LaCroix said:

Whst was going through your head before you approached? How did you deal with the resistance if you felt any? 

I started to approach women like 4 years ago but I barely approached them because of fear. I used to go to night clubs for months to approach women but couldn't do it because of fear. I saw guys approaching women and making out with them, the same women I wanted to approach but couldn't and I felt very bitter about it. I got to the point of almost killing myself becuase if you hang in this shit for so long you feel awfull. 

I still have resistance now, but it's not as big as it used to be and I learned that my problem was idealizing women and overestimating them. Once you got to approach them and talk to them you will see who they really are. Most of them are here to have fun, raise kids, talk shit and eat food. They are not here to make u happy as I stupidly believed or share with you their metaphysical experience or undertanding of God consciousness  . Speaking of spirituality, I went to 3 different "spiritual" comunities led by women. Two of them were some sort of cults and the other one was new-age horseshit about energies and telepathy with cats. 

Anyways, what helps a lot is having  good and dedicated wing-man. Find yourself one and go for it bro! 

[TheGod]

22 hours ago, Lyubov said:

There is also a smaller amount of conventionally beautiful women in Canada and USA. So those girls know they hold almost all the cards.

This is sooo true. As someone who was raised in beauty I can't grasp how men in Canada can say that there are a lot of hot women there. There are for sure some hot girls but since they live in a very materialistic country they will pursue men in power and with a lot of money. But that's okay, I don't judge them because it's their survival. That's why I moved to a less materialistic country where my financial status won't be as important as in Canada.

 

22 hours ago, Lyubov said:

In Europe things are much more balanced and maybe even skew in the man's favor as well, so you can literally be a fkn drunk and have a super model girlfriend in the shitty Russian provincial city you live in.

Hahahah you reminded me of this one american guy I met when I was 18. Back then, I lived in Ukraine in Kherson and I signed up for this international languge learning club "Window on America". I remember everytime I would go there, all of the girls would look at this fat guy named Tom in the way if he was some sort of God. Just because he was american but he didn't do anything special in he's life, he just moved from the States to Ukraine and I understand why  For sure he fucked most of those girls with zero effort, he didn't even know the language 

22 hours ago, Lyubov said:

slept with a few women in Brazil, oh my god 3 of the 4 were so fucking hot, one of them legit had a masterpiece ass I still think about sometimes  omfg her ass was perfect and she was so fkn hot. but I never quite connected with them, something felt really hollow with them, transactional like I was an atm, maybe even beyond that, I didn't perceive that any of them had a true twinkle in their eye for me, maybe I'm mid in SA? only one of them I sorta felt something more for but she had issues... and an ex she was still living with. Had a ton of make outs and teases that went nowhere, women will kiss like 5+ different guys when they go to the club  You will literally take a girl out you met on Tinder and she will then kiss another guy at the bar you took her to on the date 

So Idk Latinas aren't for me but I can def see why certain guys go for them. I'd have loved to get into some trouble in Colombia before it got overran but my time has passed. I legit missed out. Colombian women are easily tied with Easter Europeans in terms of beauty and sex appeal. 

My ex was brazilian, she looked like a model and the most important part she had a very simple, shy and feminine personality. Brazilian women are hot as fuck, sexy and love sports (most of them). The problem though they are not treated well by men there so they need some healthy feminism for sure. A friend of mine fucked a random girl in Brazil without a condom and almost lost his dick hahahaah he got some serious things lol

 

[MarkKol]

Well, Canada & the US are majority white, and all white people originate from Europe, so technically there can't be any differences in looks.

The only difference is that we are the originals, and they are knockoff Europeans who ran away from daddy 

All y'all mfs speaking Spanish, Portuguese, and English, y'all are speaking our shit.

[Lyubov]

5 hours ago, TheGod said:

My ex was brazilian, she looked like a model and the most important part she had a very simple, shy and feminine personality. Brazilian women are hot as fuck, sexy and love sports (most of them). The problem though they are not treated well by men there so they need some healthy feminism for sure. A friend of mine fucked a random girl in Brazil without a condom and almost lost his dick hahahaah he got some serious things lol

Yeah Brazil is real good. I just didn't click with the girls when there. I think maybe it is my general mentality and preferences, I'm very conversation heavy and neurodivergent and I seem to understand Russian women better, their cadence, what they value, their vibe, etc. I can see a twinkle in their eye when they see me, my look fits in Europe. I know they love gringos in Brazil but I think the foreigner card there doesn't go as far for some guys even if you are white as hell, being a sorta wealthy white guy with no swag can signal that you are an easy target for robbery, or there are just different aspects of the foreigner card you play up in Brazil vs Russia. For example just being a traveling normie white guy with a university education in Russia will look sophisticated in and of itself. In Brazil they seem to really like when you conform to their social cues and signals. Like their dancing, having a muscular body type for the beach, tan skin, no body hair, lots of tattoos, look like you play sports/surf, etc. They really like a go with the flow vibe in brail and being able to match their pace and way of flirting, they like pretty boys wit ha certain look. They kiss super quick in Brazil and I got the sense the women there want you to be able to move quick and have a type of swag to you. You don't need as much swag in Russia (it is def appreciated and helps with certain girls) but a strong masculine frame who has a plan and sophistication go further. I'd say the vibe of SA vs Eastern Europe is very different in style. It just didn't click for me in SA where I think a more conventionally athletic, extroverted, dancing sorta guy who fits in with the latin charm and essence of the romance languages. I was able to pull in brazil but it felt uncomfortable for me and I just didn't enjoy it or find it as easy as a lot of other guys and stories I read about Brazil where they make it sound like the easiest place to get laid. I knew guys there who pulled too but they were in a slower pace where they had a long term girlfriend or wife who seemed real chill. There are some real players there who I'm sure pound a ton of hot girls right off the beach but I would describe them as some of the most extroverted guys ever with a great athletic look. Most of the most beautiful women as well, at least in Rio de Janeiro, are working girls. I'm talking like half the babes on tinder where they have decent pics and look hot as f, they basically will offer to sell you sex. The girls who weren't selling it and real hot were much harder to crack due to language barrier. Brazil is also a mixed race society so depending on if the girl is black, white, mixed also changes things a bit too. White Brazilians are probably the closest and most similar type that a white guy fro ma western country would find the easiest to date long term, but even they can be kinda different too. 

Edited 8 hours ago by Lyubov