Where Have You Had Sex?

[Inliytened1]

Just now, yetineti said:

@Inliytened1

Yes, he has the power you think you have. 

yeah well he didn't fuck Cathy on the hood of his camaro either.  He has liimited ability in this area.

I surpass him by a mile

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[yetineti]

@Leo Gura

5 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

yeah well he didn't fuck Cathy on the hood of his camaro either.  He has liimited ability in this area.

I surpass him by a mile

He is not going to stop. He's literally been making jokes about you and toying with the idea that he has some sort of immunity from you and the forum.

This is is not just cruel towards women. It's completely dishonest engagement even after formal acknowledgement.

If this is the type of engagement you want on your forum from a mod, then I guess so be it.

Edited 1 hour ago by yetineti

[Leo Gura]

9 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

We'll pause but you are the one doing the pickup game not us.

I am critical of any pickup that is corrupt or misogynistic. You should know that by now.

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, yetineti said:

@Leo Gura

He is not going to stop. He's literally been making jokes about you and toying with the idea that he has some sort of immunity from you and the forum.

This is is not just cruel towards women. It's completely dishonest engagement even after formal acknowledgement.

If this is the type of engagement you want on your forum from a mod, then I guess so be it.

I love you guys.  You create this dating section but then you bitch about it when we use it.  Fuck, I'll just go back to the spiritual seciton.  I didn't get abused there.

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

I am critical of any pickup that is corrupt or misogynistic. You should know that by now.

I don't see it being corrupt we're just doing pickup.  Right?  I apologized for the misstatements.

[LordFall]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

I love you guys.  You create this dating section but then you bitch about it when we use it.  Fuck, I'll just go back to the spiritual seciton.  I didn't get abused there.

It's not what you're trying to say it's how you're saying it. We can talk about sex and fucking a lot of women without using derogatory terms. 

I love beautiful women with big boobs, it brings a lot of joy and peace to my existence. They are the muse to my masculine essence.

I'm legitimately considering getting into poetry to express my love for women better, I think it will add to my game as well to be able to seduce verbally and poetically. 

[yetineti]

@Leo Gura

You can see he's even arguing with you now. This has reached the point of ridiculousness. Your open-ended statements are not proper forum moderation. 

You are avoiding a very simple solution(s) here.

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AI-assisted summary, reviewed and edited by me. I’m providing direct links so you can evaluate the record yourself.

Leo, I want to clarify that my concern is not merely that this became another disrespectful discussion about women. It is that a moderator created the problem, acknowledged it, continued it, and repeatedly used trolling and personalized sexual remarks when challenged.

Chronology:

Inliytened1 initially admitted that he was being sexist and apologized: comment 1804648.

After that apology, he described women as “leftovers” and a “whale”: comment 1804847. He then continued with “ugly,” “fat,” “whale-like” and “old chicks”: comment 1804850.

When I entered the public discussion, he told me, “No one asked you,” said I had “nothing,” and implied I had no standing to comment: comment 1805242.

He then redirected the discussion toward my sex life, asking whether I had “fucked her” on my car: comment 1805248.

The personalized sexual mockery continued. He claimed I was “crying” because I had not gotten “that piece of ass”: comment 1805352. After I deleted a personal sexual story and explained why, he insisted that I could not take it back because everyone now knew how I lost my virginity: comment 1805377.

He publicly speculated that you had probably only been laid once and were therefore “mesmerized” by the thread: comment 1805407. He later said that you would not remove him and that, even if you did, he would return “without stars”: comment 1805430.

Natasha eventually got him to acknowledge directly that the degrading descriptions were inappropriate: comment 1805516. That concession was valuable, but it did not end the conduct.

When you finally instructed everyone to pause and reflect on the disrespect toward women, comment 1805850, his immediate response was to redirect responsibility onto you: “you are the one doing the pickup game, not us”: comment 1805851.

He then resumed competing with and mocking you sexually, saying you had “limited ability in this area” and that he surpassed you “by a mile”: comment 1805858. After I pointed out that he was continuing, comment 1805860, he characterized the criticism and moderation as “abuse”: comment 1805864.

I am not presenting myself as blameless. I became personally insulting and retaliatory at several points, including making comments about his age, attractiveness and sex life. I accept scrutiny or moderation for those posts. That does not erase the chronology above or the heightened responsibility attached to moderator status.

I am not demanding that anyone be banned. I am asking you to review whether repeatedly trolling members, sexualizing criticism, dismissing objections, speculating publicly about your sex life, and suggesting immunity from your authority are compatible with being a moderator.

This is broader than whether members are sometimes disrespectful toward women. It concerns whether the moderator responsible for escalating the thread can be trusted to enforce the standards you just stated.

 

 

Edited 1 hour ago by yetineti

[Rishabh R]

@Inliytened1 I hate to break it to you but regardless of the fact weather @Leo Gura is pro pickup or anti pickup . I have observed it in a huge number of guys. 

Guy reads pickup theory - then approaches a lot of women - then get's laid/relationship/sex whatever from the woman. Then breakups with her and again back to 0 still suffering like he will remain single his whole life. Again back to where he started .

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

It's not what you're trying to say it's how you're saying it. We can talk about sex and fucking a lot of women without using derogatory terms. 

I love beautiful women with big boobs, it brings a lot of joy and peace to my existence. They are the muse to my masculine essence.

I'm legitimately considering getting into poetry to express my love for women better, I think it will add to my game as well to be able to seduce verbally and poetically. 

i don't think i was being derogatory at all.  I apologized earlier for the wrong comments.  So now we're just trying to talk about pickup.  

[Rishabh R]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I love beautiful women with big boobs, it brings a lot of joy and peace to my existence. They are the muse to my masculine essence.

Man , there are ladies on this forum too. Don't generalise your intimacy .

[Oppositionless]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

I love beautiful women with big boobs, it brings a lot of joy and peace to my existence. They are the muse to my masculine essence.

Same man . I don't really see myself doing exactly what you laid out but I see myself taking my music to an audience, and throwing conscious parties . Ecstatic dance parties. I feel this passion that wants to come out.

[LordFall]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

i don't think i was being derogatory at all.  I apologized earlier for the wrong comments.  So now we're just trying to talk about pickup.  

Yes you addressed it pages ago. That's how white knights work. Instead of providing genuine value they try to stir the pot and appeal to authority because they have none. 

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Rishabh R said:

Man , there are ladies on this forum too. Don't generalise your intimacy .

He likes big boobs.. Man, why is everyone so god damn sensitive.  We can't talk bout tits now?  What else are you guys gonna limit us to? Not being guys?  Just cut our balls off

 

[Rishabh R]

@Inliytened1 Nope I'm not talking about that. You can talk about it privately , with your romantic partner , with your guy friend but not here in public . The forum is a casual chat room not a casual sex room.

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Rishabh R said:

@Inliytened1 Nope I'm not talking about that. You can talk about it privately , with your romantic partner , with your guy friend but not here in public . The forum is a casual chat room not a casual sex room.

Well get rid of this section then, or really police it, Like Leo wants to do.  But we're guys, we're gonna be idiots.

[Rishabh R]

@Inliytened1 Read this man .  

I pasted this after copying it from forum guidelines .Read the point title hate speech ,racism , Sexism .

What’s NOT Allowed:

Self-promotion

Coming here to start your teaching/coaching/guru business by leeching off this audience

Multiple accounts. (If you are caught opening multiple accounts, both will be banned).

Posting in any language other than English

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Discussing group-buys or sharing of self-help products or courses.

Discussing torrenting, warez, or cracks

SPAM, including but not limited to: affiliate links, mass marketing, clandestine promotion, SEO, promotional PM

Harvesting member contact information

Links to pornography, graphic violence, religious/political propaganda, etc.

Hacking the forum

Viruses or malware of any kind

Recruiting members for chat-groups outside of this forum, including Skype, Discord, chatrooms, etc.

Starting new spiritual communities, private groups, or cults

Mass messaging or abuse of the PM system

PMing members with pitches or promotions or recruiting

PMing members to share copyrighted material or do "group buys" of self-help products

Duplicate-posting: posting the same thread in multiple locations

Posting AI-generate content like text, images, or video without disclosing that it was sourced from AI

Posting Deepfakes without disclosure

Verbal abuse

Verbally abusing moderators or administrators

Threatening or blackmailing other members, moderators, or administrators

Hijacking threads

Hijacking the community, mass manipulation of the community, sabotaging the community, leeching off the community

Excessive or repetitive creating of new threads or replies

Hate speech: racism, sexism, homophobic slurs, threats, harassment, or excessive profanity

Ganging up on other members, starting factions that splinter the community

Sharing private logins to Actualized.org products or services with other users

Reproducing or posting content from Actualized.org paid products

Calling members names like: stupid, idiot, moron, asshole, retard, etc.

Trash-talking, trolling, chronic criticism, blaming, and finger-pointing

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Offensive, grotesque, dirty, or sexual profile images or usernames

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Doxxing

[yetineti]

8 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Yes you addressed it pages ago. That's how white knights work. Instead of providing genuine value they try to stir the pot and appeal to authority because they have none. 

@LordFall

People have been DMing me privately because they don't feel like dealing with your fakeness on this matter or your insults.

It's also hard to call someone a white knight when it sounds like they have a better sex story in this thread than you. 

But you're not gonna acknowledge this because I break your paradigm. 

 

Edited 1 hour ago by yetineti

[Rishabh R]

@Inliytened1 But women complain about this place a lot . I mean not only that but you can engage in healthy dating / relationship discussion. Also I noticed something unusual about your behaviour earlier you used to be more active on other sections on the forum but why such as sudden shift lately . Are you ok ?

[yetineti]

Just now, Rishabh R said:

@Inliytened1 But women complain about this place a lot . I mean not only that but you can engage in healthy dating / relationship discussion. Also I noticed something unusual about your behaviour earlier you used to be more active on other sections on the forum but why such as sudden shift lately . Are you ok ?

Asking the real questions. 👍🏽

Edited 1 hour ago by yetineti

[Leo Gura]

@yetineti I have not even had time to read this thread and its problems. I was speaking in general.

When I have time I will investigate further.