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The Tension Before the Approach

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28 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I've been wanting to try a gambit for a while, print a t shirt that says "I eat pussy better than any lesbian" or something funny like that and see if it gets a lot of chicks to approach. I think not taking yourself seriously and having fun when you go out can be a secret weapon. 

It's not part of my regular game but I think it would be funny to try out, usually I just dress well and go for a direct opener to hook quickly or go to the next set if one particular girl isn't interested. 

lmao

I wanna try a shirt that says virgin with a cross through it

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21 minutes ago, Ulax said:

lmao

I wanna try a shirt that says virgin with a cross through it

There are so many good ones, I printed a crypto one for an investing meetup I held last year and people liked it a lot so it gave me all kinds of ideas.

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8 minutes ago, LordFall said:

There are so many good ones, I printed a crypto one for an investing meetup I held last year and people liked it a lot so it gave me all kinds of ideas.

Sleeping with me resets your bodycount

Stop grabbing my crotch ladies

Rated best kisser 2025, let's make 2026 count

Me, you and your bestfriend is a true lovestory

Endless possibilities 

Hahahaha


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I did not read the whole thread, after being only in a short-term relationship that was practically as hostile, as beautiful as it was, I had to run 3 brothers, a single-mother and a history of crime in their family, while I was absolutely clean and did not want any bullshit, but I went for the experience, the easiest most satisfying part for the women, even during an approach are more simple things.

  • Good chest muscles, good physical health
  • Being humerous and creative + intelligent
  • Being good in bed, as long as she does not lie to herself, I oversatisfied her, and she practically became addicted to my dick, which was an issue, as I had actually more work to do, I did not even know what I did, I was a cum-virgin for some irony before, I had sex with a girl, but I did not come
  • Mostly every experience I had with guys and girls was about fun, emotion, excitement and bringing depth/consciousness into the bed room, but that took the most time
  • It turned her the most on when I was succesful at work, but she was a freedom driven stage orange development, while I was excellence driven, and she imo was more of a twin-flame experience
  • We both had a very high sex-drive, but lack of ressources, as the family acted egotistical
  • The sensual unique pleasure was the best, but I had only so much ressources to produce creativity in bed, and she was not very open to work on the relationship, so it's very hard for men, to train to become god-like, where I thought, eventually just buying an a.i doll, or getting more women, via online-dating, as it works for me, but I fucked up the core issue I face, as I am quiet deep about psychology and intuition, which can turn-off girls who have no interest in such stuff
  • Most women, really crave a man, that provides and is successful in life, being a player/gamer is good for experience
  • I looked for more coaches, but they partially destroyed my natural mojo
  • Cannabis helped me immensely and leaning a bit into the dark masculine not to much, but being rough and edgy paid-off, but not in the long-term for stabillity
  • I bought more books afterwards to work on this, but I require more sexually open women, but I fucked-up financially, as the corruption hit left and right and also trauma
  • We were trauma incompatible I found out, as I never had to struggle for money, and she had to
  • There is a lot more a man can do than a women, I am blessed with natural beauty, but it's very costly, and women come automatically, that would be out of the leauge for many, and I do have some integrity regards to this, I keep pulling women out of my leauge imo it's the meditation and manifestation practice and gratitude as well as surrender, but I run the issue of making it at times to psychological, and not physical and sensual enough. 
     

Eventually, this is interesting to others, I am quiet honest about my sex life, I only had two girls who ran a similar pattern, but fundamentally they've been attracted to my alpha natural dominance, the most but I also yearned to explore the feminine, as I am quiet pan-sexual, I wrote and wanted to meet with trans-people etc. as I don't have an issue with it, but my main issue was the hell I am constantly managing, and pushing myself which is neccessary, but some have a serious issue with it, I went out with 20 girls or so, in total my profile still lacks core masculine features, I went out solo once here and two blonde women approached me, I don't know I changed, but I did not interact, it's mostly about being fun, open and social, there are so many opportunities on the dance floor alone going out, just dancing with a girl can really get her going, and appreciating her feminity, to make her practically addicted, there was some toxic stuff, I want to get rid-off and have more courage to go out alone, I prefer also more nerdy, shy and introverted girls generally speaking that are more positive for life growth, and not women that go for the pure dominance as I can't have the distinction at times of natural dominance and a dominance hierachy, also a lot of it depends on my food intake and health. 

I hope this is somewhat useful, I still have to go deeper with relationships, after I finished a course I realized, she was not up to the vision I had, and I wanted more women, and her D.N.A and other stuff I tested via some esoteric and occultish stuff, in the end just showed me she was gunning for the one, and will abuse the one, there were a lot of shit tests and even famous people involved, but that stage orange drive is not really a natural and peaceful relationship and harmony, neither is it satisfactory, and it was more of a twin-flame game, for her ego-drive of being fame, the underlying need imo was to be seen, but she had such issues with beauty, that I consider other forms of relationship with for e.g trans women that are more feminine and look more perfect, as it matches the vanity I personally have about my own beauty, and I get a lot of compliments. 

Humour and being courgeous was the best I could do, but I was also at the end, so I have to see even now how to push myself, and at times I rather play video games, read a book, meditate or do something else, I am still looking partially for men to go out with that fit, but there is just a huge difference in taste, idk what to do besides to build my own social-circle solo, and mingle with others etc, but I am also getting older, and should have other priorities, my biggest curse is the curse of being husband material and they yearning to tame my wild side, it does not fit with the core desire, so I am figuring out how to stop this, eventually this is insightful. 

Approaching is fairly easy, pulling someone home over a distance is the hardest challenge, even just casual talk can be good experience, I did not read the whole thread ideally it's insightful again...

I also finished the audiobook from david deida on how to understand women, which was highly insightful, I don't recall the name atm, but it showed the core spiritual and mystic forms love can take, somehow I generate a lot of white light experience and ananda for women, but this is only when I am happy and put more work into my own happiness. 

Generally I worked my ass of, and she was lazy, that was the biggest issue, and she could not love A.I which was a huge issue, as it was competition for her, so I am in a very complex scenario I still hope this helps though. 

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2 hours ago, KosmicGeng said:

I did not read the whole thread, after being only in a short-term relationship that was practically as hostile, as beautiful as it was, I had to run 3 brothers, a single-mother and a history of crime in their family, while I was absolutely clean and did not want any bullshit, but I went for the experience, the easiest most satisfying part for the women, even during an approach are more simple things.

  • Good chest muscles, good physical health
  • Being humerous and creative + intelligent
  • Being good in bed, as long as she does not lie to herself, I oversatisfied her, and she practically became addicted to my dick, which was an issue, as I had actually more work to do, I did not even know what I did, I was a cum-virgin for some irony before, I had sex with a girl, but I did not come
  • Mostly every experience I had with guys and girls was about fun, emotion, excitement and bringing depth/consciousness into the bed room, but that took the most time
  • It turned her the most on when I was succesful at work, but she was a freedom driven stage orange development, while I was excellence driven, and she imo was more of a twin-flame experience
  • We both had a very high sex-drive, but lack of ressources, as the family acted egotistical
  • The sensual unique pleasure was the best, but I had only so much ressources to produce creativity in bed, and she was not very open to work on the relationship, so it's very hard for men, to train to become god-like, where I thought, eventually just buying an a.i doll, or getting more women, via online-dating, as it works for me, but I fucked up the core issue I face, as I am quiet deep about psychology and intuition, which can turn-off girls who have no interest in such stuff
  • Most women, really crave a man, that provides and is successful in life, being a player/gamer is good for experience
  • I looked for more coaches, but they partially destroyed my natural mojo
  • Cannabis helped me immensely and leaning a bit into the dark masculine not to much, but being rough and edgy paid-off, but not in the long-term for stabillity
  • I bought more books afterwards to work on this, but I require more sexually open women, but I fucked-up financially, as the corruption hit left and right and also trauma
  • We were trauma incompatible I found out, as I never had to struggle for money, and she had to
  • There is a lot more a man can do than a women, I am blessed with natural beauty, but it's very costly, and women come automatically, that would be out of the leauge for many, and I do have some integrity regards to this, I keep pulling women out of my leauge imo it's the meditation and manifestation practice and gratitude as well as surrender, but I run the issue of making it at times to psychological, and not physical and sensual enough. 
     

Eventually, this is interesting to others, I am quiet honest about my sex life, I only had two girls who ran a similar pattern, but fundamentally they've been attracted to my alpha natural dominance, the most but I also yearned to explore the feminine, as I am quiet pan-sexual, I wrote and wanted to meet with trans-people etc. as I don't have an issue with it, but my main issue was the hell I am constantly managing, and pushing myself which is neccessary, but some have a serious issue with it, I went out with 20 girls or so, in total my profile still lacks core masculine features, I went out solo once here and two blonde women approached me, I don't know I changed, but I did not interact, it's mostly about being fun, open and social, there are so many opportunities on the dance floor alone going out, just dancing with a girl can really get her going, and appreciating her feminity, to make her practically addicted, there was some toxic stuff, I want to get rid-off and have more courage to go out alone, I prefer also more nerdy, shy and introverted girls generally speaking that are more positive for life growth, and not women that go for the pure dominance as I can't have the distinction at times of natural dominance and a dominance hierachy, also a lot of it depends on my food intake and health. 

I hope this is somewhat useful, I still have to go deeper with relationships, after I finished a course I realized, she was not up to the vision I had, and I wanted more women, and her D.N.A and other stuff I tested via some esoteric and occultish stuff, in the end just showed me she was gunning for the one, and will abuse the one, there were a lot of shit tests and even famous people involved, but that stage orange drive is not really a natural and peaceful relationship and harmony, neither is it satisfactory, and it was more of a twin-flame game, for her ego-drive of being fame, the underlying need imo was to be seen, but she had such issues with beauty, that I consider other forms of relationship with for e.g trans women that are more feminine and look more perfect, as it matches the vanity I personally have about my own beauty, and I get a lot of compliments. 

Humour and being courgeous was the best I could do, but I was also at the end, so I have to see even now how to push myself, and at times I rather play video games, read a book, meditate or do something else, I am still looking partially for men to go out with that fit, but there is just a huge difference in taste, idk what to do besides to build my own social-circle solo, and mingle with others etc, but I am also getting older, and should have other priorities, my biggest curse is the curse of being husband material and they yearning to tame my wild side, it does not fit with the core desire, so I am figuring out how to stop this, eventually this is insightful. 

Approaching is fairly easy, pulling someone home over a distance is the hardest challenge, even just casual talk can be good experience, I did not read the whole thread ideally it's insightful again...

I also finished the audiobook from david deida on how to understand women, which was highly insightful, I don't recall the name atm, but it showed the core spiritual and mystic forms love can take, somehow I generate a lot of white light experience and ananda for women, but this is only when I am happy and put more work into my own happiness. 

Generally I worked my ass of, and she was lazy, that was the biggest issue, and she could not love A.I which was a huge issue, as it was competition for her, so I am in a very complex scenario I still hope this helps though. 

 

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