The Tension Before the Approach

[Zenterus]

@Ulax Bro switched sides in a milisecond

[Ulax]

2 minutes ago, Zenterus said:

@Ulax Bro switched sides in a milisecond

Dw I'm Daddyamorous

[Miguel1]

2 minutes ago, Zenterus said:

@Ulax Bro switched sides in a milisecond

Bro has never had a real Father in his life showing him how to behave.

[KosmicGeng]

Don't you think this is white-washing or just a whatever take, due to power and being in favour and fame? Is fame the name of the game?

[Ulax]

22 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Bro has never had a real Father in his life showing him how to behave.

😂

[Olaf]

Okay I finally had my breakthrough in day game, holy fucking shit, can I curse on here? I went out with my wingmen and we killed it, murdered it, slaughtered it. Everything. All I was trying to do is just approach as much as possible and have a fun time, also challenging my wing to take action. I am gonna give you my daily report here, but this was from 2 hours, meaning this was only 2 hours, we went balls to the wall. If you ever consider day game, do it with a wing! Should have done this way earlier. He got two numbers of a 9 and an 8, I feel like a proud brother. Here is my daily report: 

Today I went to Utrecht, to meet my wingman, from Amersfoort. We had a good talk about approaching. First of all about magic etc. He said it would be a little difficult more during the day with magic, which is true. Then he talked and learned me his technique, which basically was to approach with hand towards her belly, standing in front of her. Then stop her, give her a compliment and after that an assumption, meaning "you seem like an intelligent person" or "you seem a bit extroverted" whatever. Just two after another or something. Anyways after enough talking we took action and we nailed it!

So before I even met my wingman I warmed up a little bit, by saying hi to people asking for a place to eat. Then when we set down I tried to stop some people for a magic trick, they didn´t stop. So we went upstairs, there my wingman said, approach those girls working there. So I showed them a magic trick. I had this really good line "I need to practice my magic, you don´t have to pay me" which is an assumption they have from time to time. They really loved it and we had a little conversation after that.

We went further and I tried to stop some walking people but got rejected. Then I decided to try out his approach. Now I might not really remember everything clearly, because we approached too many people. I approached someone, gave them a compliment and they walked away saying thank you, because I didn´t stop them with the hand. Then I told my wingman to approach a girl on the right who was smoking and standing still, that went quite well.

I tried to go two girls sitting down and approached them, I did some magic for them, then I went to the toilet and introduced my wingman, later on my wingman told me that probably I should have kept talking and staying for a bit longer, because after I left the other girl wasn´t occupied, which makes sense. That was our first longer conversation, lasted around 10 mins, we walked further and started approaching more people, we walked mainly the main street aswell as the streets surrounding it. Very busy with many girls.

In the beginning I was approaching a little more than my wingman, so I forced him to approach a bit more and at the end he was approaching more then I was. I walked through a small street, then we went to the church to rest a little bit and eventually walked further where I told him to approach a girl on the bridge and he seemed to open well, so I started to open another group sitting down, two girls sitting down, so we both were approaching him on the bridge and me some girls further sitting down, I did some magic for them and we had an allright vibe, I invited my wingman to join the conversation, it lasted like 8 mins and we both didn´t really had the courage to ask for a number yet, although I felt our vibe becoming much more in flow then before. We could more easily speak, but later on we get way more in flow.

So we kept walking there are probably many more girls we approached that I simply can´t remember. But anyways we went to a street where some people were walking, I saw a girl on the left who I approached, I did a good hard stop with the hand and I gave her a ccompliment and asked where she is from etc. We had like a good little talk and I never went for the close, shit.

Anyways, then we walked further and on the left of the shopping street I saw a beautiful girl, I was like, my wingman left, go! So he did and he kept talking forever hahaha, so I just started approaching some people on a square much further. He walked like 15 mins later back, I wanted to give him a high five, but that wasn´t smart as she could see it so I gave him a box instead. He killed it and got her number. She told him she doesn´t get approached ever, which is funny because she is really beautiful.

Anyways, we kept going, now we both were in flow, then he approached two girls on a bike, so I kept walking and approached a big group of 7 girls who were sitting at the terrace, to perform some magic. I did do some magic for them and told them again that it was for practice. Then in the middle of the trick my wingman called where I was, but it wasn´t really disturbing. I think it went really well, although they were quite young so I didn´t wanted to risk it, after a 2 min convo when my wingman came, we both left and went walking around, we sat down for a little bit somewhere and then I saw a girl with red hair and red dress, I really liked how she looked so I approached her, with a hard stop and compliment, then asking for her name and we had a nice conversation.

She really was feeling my vibe and I was standing not with my body fully faced to her, which I saw one of the instructors do. We talked about many things, I just kept yapping and the funny thing was that I was so much in flow, it wasn´t hard to yap, I didn´t let much moments for silence and I was focused on the vibe and emotion. This was my first time asking for a number after 10 mins, but she told me she had a boyfriend. I gave her a hand thanked her and moved on. My wingman said that conversation went really well, so that was good.

Next up I saw some blonde girls sitting down at a terrace, so I showed them a trick. The funny thing was that the vibe was there from the beginning and just as my wingman said, I didn´t even had to do the trick, because the vibe was really there. So I did the trick super casually, then introduced my wingman and by far this conversation went the best for me, I started to be allot more charismatic, I saw the blonde girl wanting my attention and looking my way, she lived in Houston and went on vacation in Utrecht, but she is dutch.

They both were dutch, I was calling them out for drinking coca cola on a terrace and making jokes about america, I asked her to talk in english and we both talked in english for fun. We were talking about cowboys and it was just a cool conversation. They were really enjoying the conversation aswell and I asked the blonde girl for her number, but she had a boyfriend, I didn´t feel rejected at all, we laughed and made some jokes and walked away feeling high, atleast me, my wingman was feeling a bit worse I think. Maybe I should have included him more.

Then my wingman also told me I should have talked with the other girl more, because I was too focused on the hot blonde girl hahaha, which was true. I forgot literally all the rejections, because in between all these conversations there were woman who I approached that rejected me. I don´t even remember them.

After this everything feels a bit more vague as I was getting tired aswell as the flow state was kind of wearing off. I did approach a woman who was eating fries, I said how is it? then we had a bit of conversation, she kinda looked concerned to me on her face so we talked a bit, but after 2 mins I decided she wasn't feeling comfortable or something so I went away.

Next up inside the mall. I approached a few people sitting down, got rejected, but my wingman and I had much fun, he told me that he got harshly rejected by a 6, so I helped him feel a bit better and talking positivity into him. We walked around a bit further and then I saw him already talking to another girl so I did my own thing, I approached a couple of girls, but got rejected and then we both were a bit tired after all the heat and warmth.

There might be more girls that I approached, definitely many more girls that I got rejected from who I didn't remember, but we had a good run. My wingman had 2 solid numbers of an 8 and a 9 and I had 0 numbers, but very long conversations and really more good flow then I ever had before, atleast during day game, I have had better night game.

So biggest breakthroughs for me were the way to stop girls, secondly how important state and flow is and how being together helps you so much as you can challenge eachother, also when I see him do an approach, I am like, I can do that too and then I start to approach so you battle eachother in a good way, also when I say left, go. It works so well, for example one time my wingman said, go left, girl on phone. I got rejected as she was on the phone, although I got her to stop for a minute and I wouldn't have approached someone calling on the phone before, so he pushed me to go further, which was good and I pushed him aswell, we both had a big breakthrough.

Also I realised magic works really well in bars and magic isn't really so necessary, just casually maybe still do it, but you don't have to do it almost, your energy is what matters, your state and vibe and boosting eachothers state, does wonders. I constantly was trying to get my wingman in a good state with talking positivity into him and my wingman also challenged me with approach, left or right. So together we go really well.

It is funny, because you lose eachother constantly during game and then later find eachother back. Everytime my wingman approached it gave me extra motivation to don't be a bitch and approach myself. Also when you talk with eachother, which I did endlessly, just talk talk talk, then you get into a social state and it is much easier to open from there. 

To conclude: KILLER day! Day game is 10x easier with a wing! (the right wing) and we hammered for 2 hours and after that got tired lol. But we nailed it and what Owen says is very true, approach, don't have excuse making momentum, see opportunity either for yourself or your wing. Literally at the end we were seeing opportunity everywhere. When the beginning is rough. So how was today? 1000 out of 10 as Owen would say it, fuck the rejections, I don't even remember them literally, it were too many, but nobody cares. 

[LordFall]

5 hours ago, Jirh said:

That's not the mind of a man.

That's the mind of any horny + unhinged creature.

I don't normally think or talk like that. My friends aren't like that, either.

You don't seem to me like you're comfortable with your sexuality, I don't think that's healthy man. @Inliytened1 is just talking openly about his, women that I'm comfortable with and platonic friends with do so as well. It's not just a locker room type of thing, it's part of integrated human communication. What else do you wanna talk about, how much we enjoy walks in the park?

[Inliytened1]

49 minutes ago, Olaf said:

Okay I finally had my breakthrough in day game, holy fucking shit, can I curse on here? I went out with my wingmen and we killed it, murdered it, slaughtered it. Everything. All I was trying to do is just approach as much as possible and have a fun time, also challenging my wing to take action. I am gonna give you my daily report here, but this was from 2 hours, meaning this was only 2 hours, we went balls to the wall. If you ever consider day game, do it with a wing! Should have done this way earlier. He got two numbers of a 9 and an 8, I feel like a proud brother. Here is my daily report: 

Today I went to Utrecht, to meet my wingman, from Amersfoort. We had a good talk about approaching. First of all about magic etc. He said it would be a little difficult more during the day with magic, which is true. Then he talked and learned me his technique, which basically was to approach with hand towards her belly, standing in front of her. Then stop her, give her a compliment and after that an assumption, meaning "you seem like an intelligent person" or "you seem a bit extroverted" whatever. Just two after another or something. Anyways after enough talking we took action and we nailed it!

So before I even met my wingman I warmed up a little bit, by saying hi to people asking for a place to eat. Then when we set down I tried to stop some people for a magic trick, they didn´t stop. So we went upstairs, there my wingman said, approach those girls working there. So I showed them a magic trick. I had this really good line "I need to practice my magic, you don´t have to pay me" which is an assumption they have from time to time. They really loved it and we had a little conversation after that.

We went further and I tried to stop some walking people but got rejected. Then I decided to try out his approach. Now I might not really remember everything clearly, because we approached too many people. I approached someone, gave them a compliment and they walked away saying thank you, because I didn´t stop them with the hand. Then I told my wingman to approach a girl on the right who was smoking and standing still, that went quite well.

I tried to go two girls sitting down and approached them, I did some magic for them, then I went to the toilet and introduced my wingman, later on my wingman told me that probably I should have kept talking and staying for a bit longer, because after I left the other girl wasn´t occupied, which makes sense. That was our first longer conversation, lasted around 10 mins, we walked further and started approaching more people, we walked mainly the main street aswell as the streets surrounding it. Very busy with many girls.

In the beginning I was approaching a little more than my wingman, so I forced him to approach a bit more and at the end he was approaching more then I was. I walked through a small street, then we went to the church to rest a little bit and eventually walked further where I told him to approach a girl on the bridge and he seemed to open well, so I started to open another group sitting down, two girls sitting down, so we both were approaching him on the bridge and me some girls further sitting down, I did some magic for them and we had an allright vibe, I invited my wingman to join the conversation, it lasted like 8 mins and we both didn´t really had the courage to ask for a number yet, although I felt our vibe becoming much more in flow then before. We could more easily speak, but later on we get way more in flow.

So we kept walking there are probably many more girls we approached that I simply can´t remember. But anyways we went to a street where some people were walking, I saw a girl on the left who I approached, I did a good hard stop with the hand and I gave her a ccompliment and asked where she is from etc. We had like a good little talk and I never went for the close, shit.

Anyways, then we walked further and on the left of the shopping street I saw a beautiful girl, I was like, my wingman left, go! So he did and he kept talking forever hahaha, so I just started approaching some people on a square much further. He walked like 15 mins later back, I wanted to give him a high five, but that wasn´t smart as she could see it so I gave him a box instead. He killed it and got her number. She told him she doesn´t get approached ever, which is funny because she is really beautiful.

Anyways, we kept going, now we both were in flow, then he approached two girls on a bike, so I kept walking and approached a big group of 7 girls who were sitting at the terrace, to perform some magic. I did do some magic for them and told them again that it was for practice. Then in the middle of the trick my wingman called where I was, but it wasn´t really disturbing. I think it went really well, although they were quite young so I didn´t wanted to risk it, after a 2 min convo when my wingman came, we both left and went walking around, we sat down for a little bit somewhere and then I saw a girl with red hair and red dress, I really liked how she looked so I approached her, with a hard stop and compliment, then asking for her name and we had a nice conversation.

She really was feeling my vibe and I was standing not with my body fully faced to her, which I saw one of the instructors do. We talked about many things, I just kept yapping and the funny thing was that I was so much in flow, it wasn´t hard to yap, I didn´t let much moments for silence and I was focused on the vibe and emotion. This was my first time asking for a number after 10 mins, but she told me she had a boyfriend. I gave her a hand thanked her and moved on. My wingman said that conversation went really well, so that was good.

Next up I saw some blonde girls sitting down at a terrace, so I showed them a trick. The funny thing was that the vibe was there from the beginning and just as my wingman said, I didn´t even had to do the trick, because the vibe was really there. So I did the trick super casually, then introduced my wingman and by far this conversation went the best for me, I started to be allot more charismatic, I saw the blonde girl wanting my attention and looking my way, she lived in Houston and went on vacation in Utrecht, but she is dutch.

They both were dutch, I was calling them out for drinking coca cola on a terrace and making jokes about america, I asked her to talk in english and we both talked in english for fun. We were talking about cowboys and it was just a cool conversation. They were really enjoying the conversation aswell and I asked the blonde girl for her number, but she had a boyfriend, I didn´t feel rejected at all, we laughed and made some jokes and walked away feeling high, atleast me, my wingman was feeling a bit worse I think. Maybe I should have included him more.

Then my wingman also told me I should have talked with the other girl more, because I was too focused on the hot blonde girl hahaha, which was true. I forgot literally all the rejections, because in between all these conversations there were woman who I approached that rejected me. I don´t even remember them.

After this everything feels a bit more vague as I was getting tired aswell as the flow state was kind of wearing off. I did approach a woman who was eating fries, I said how is it? then we had a bit of conversation, she kinda looked concerned to me on her face so we talked a bit, but after 2 mins I decided she wasn't feeling comfortable or something so I went away.

Next up inside the mall. I approached a few people sitting down, got rejected, but my wingman and I had much fun, he told me that he got harshly rejected by a 6, so I helped him feel a bit better and talking positivity into him. We walked around a bit further and then I saw him already talking to another girl so I did my own thing, I approached a couple of girls, but got rejected and then we both were a bit tired after all the heat and warmth.

There might be more girls that I approached, definitely many more girls that I got rejected from who I didn't remember, but we had a good run. My wingman had 2 solid numbers of an 8 and a 9 and I had 0 numbers, but very long conversations and really more good flow then I ever had before, atleast during day game, I have had better night game.

So biggest breakthroughs for me were the way to stop girls, secondly how important state and flow is and how being together helps you so much as you can challenge eachother, also when I see him do an approach, I am like, I can do that too and then I start to approach so you battle eachother in a good way, also when I say left, go. It works so well, for example one time my wingman said, go left, girl on phone. I got rejected as she was on the phone, although I got her to stop for a minute and I wouldn't have approached someone calling on the phone before, so he pushed me to go further, which was good and I pushed him aswell, we both had a big breakthrough.

Also I realised magic works really well in bars and magic isn't really so necessary, just casually maybe still do it, but you don't have to do it almost, your energy is what matters, your state and vibe and boosting eachothers state, does wonders. I constantly was trying to get my wingman in a good state with talking positivity into him and my wingman also challenged me with approach, left or right. So together we go really well.

It is funny, because you lose eachother constantly during game and then later find eachother back. Everytime my wingman approached it gave me extra motivation to don't be a bitch and approach myself. Also when you talk with eachother, which I did endlessly, just talk talk talk, then you get into a social state and it is much easier to open from there. 

To conclude: KILLER day! Day game is 10x easier with a wing! (the right wing) and we hammered for 2 hours and after that got tired lol. But we nailed it and what Owen says is very true, approach, don't have excuse making momentum, see opportunity either for yourself or your wing. Literally at the end we were seeing opportunity everywhere. When the beginning is rough. So how was today? 1000 out of 10 as Owen would say it, fuck the rejections, I don't even remember them literally, it were too many, but nobody cares. 

Jesus Christ i was just looking for the summary.  So..end of day what happens? You getting laid?  

 

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 fuck you hehe 

[Inliytened1]

57 minutes ago, Olaf said:

Okay I finally had my breakthrough in day game, holy fucking shit, can I curse on here? I went out with my wingmen and we killed it, murdered it, slaughtered it. Everything. All I was trying to do is just approach as much as possible and have a fun time, also challenging my wing to take action. I am gonna give you my daily report here, but this was from 2 hours, meaning this was only 2 hours, we went balls to the wall. If you ever consider day game, do it with a wing! Should have done this way earlier. He got two numbers of a 9 and an 8, I feel like a proud brother. Here is my daily report: 

Today I went to Utrecht, to meet my wingman, from Amersfoort. We had a good talk about approaching. First of all about magic etc. He said it would be a little difficult more during the day with magic, which is true. Then he talked and learned me his technique, which basically was to approach with hand towards her belly, standing in front of her. Then stop her, give her a compliment and after that an assumption, meaning "you seem like an intelligent person" or "you seem a bit extroverted" whatever. Just two after another or something. Anyways after enough talking we took action and we nailed it!

So before I even met my wingman I warmed up a little bit, by saying hi to people asking for a place to eat. Then when we set down I tried to stop some people for a magic trick, they didn´t stop. So we went upstairs, there my wingman said, approach those girls working there. So I showed them a magic trick. I had this really good line "I need to practice my magic, you don´t have to pay me" which is an assumption they have from time to time. They really loved it and we had a little conversation after that.

We went further and I tried to stop some walking people but got rejected. Then I decided to try out his approach. Now I might not really remember everything clearly, because we approached too many people. I approached someone, gave them a compliment and they walked away saying thank you, because I didn´t stop them with the hand. Then I told my wingman to approach a girl on the right who was smoking and standing still, that went quite well.

I tried to go two girls sitting down and approached them, I did some magic for them, then I went to the toilet and introduced my wingman, later on my wingman told me that probably I should have kept talking and staying for a bit longer, because after I left the other girl wasn´t occupied, which makes sense. That was our first longer conversation, lasted around 10 mins, we walked further and started approaching more people, we walked mainly the main street aswell as the streets surrounding it. Very busy with many girls.

In the beginning I was approaching a little more than my wingman, so I forced him to approach a bit more and at the end he was approaching more then I was. I walked through a small street, then we went to the church to rest a little bit and eventually walked further where I told him to approach a girl on the bridge and he seemed to open well, so I started to open another group sitting down, two girls sitting down, so we both were approaching him on the bridge and me some girls further sitting down, I did some magic for them and we had an allright vibe, I invited my wingman to join the conversation, it lasted like 8 mins and we both didn´t really had the courage to ask for a number yet, although I felt our vibe becoming much more in flow then before. We could more easily speak, but later on we get way more in flow.

So we kept walking there are probably many more girls we approached that I simply can´t remember. But anyways we went to a street where some people were walking, I saw a girl on the left who I approached, I did a good hard stop with the hand and I gave her a ccompliment and asked where she is from etc. We had like a good little talk and I never went for the close, shit.

Anyways, then we walked further and on the left of the shopping street I saw a beautiful girl, I was like, my wingman left, go! So he did and he kept talking forever hahaha, so I just started approaching some people on a square much further. He walked like 15 mins later back, I wanted to give him a high five, but that wasn´t smart as she could see it so I gave him a box instead. He killed it and got her number. She told him she doesn´t get approached ever, which is funny because she is really beautiful.

Anyways, we kept going, now we both were in flow, then he approached two girls on a bike, so I kept walking and approached a big group of 7 girls who were sitting at the terrace, to perform some magic. I did do some magic for them and told them again that it was for practice. Then in the middle of the trick my wingman called where I was, but it wasn´t really disturbing. I think it went really well, although they were quite young so I didn´t wanted to risk it, after a 2 min convo when my wingman came, we both left and went walking around, we sat down for a little bit somewhere and then I saw a girl with red hair and red dress, I really liked how she looked so I approached her, with a hard stop and compliment, then asking for her name and we had a nice conversation.

She really was feeling my vibe and I was standing not with my body fully faced to her, which I saw one of the instructors do. We talked about many things, I just kept yapping and the funny thing was that I was so much in flow, it wasn´t hard to yap, I didn´t let much moments for silence and I was focused on the vibe and emotion. This was my first time asking for a number after 10 mins, but she told me she had a boyfriend. I gave her a hand thanked her and moved on. My wingman said that conversation went really well, so that was good.

Next up I saw some blonde girls sitting down at a terrace, so I showed them a trick. The funny thing was that the vibe was there from the beginning and just as my wingman said, I didn´t even had to do the trick, because the vibe was really there. So I did the trick super casually, then introduced my wingman and by far this conversation went the best for me, I started to be allot more charismatic, I saw the blonde girl wanting my attention and looking my way, she lived in Houston and went on vacation in Utrecht, but she is dutch.

They both were dutch, I was calling them out for drinking coca cola on a terrace and making jokes about america, I asked her to talk in english and we both talked in english for fun. We were talking about cowboys and it was just a cool conversation. They were really enjoying the conversation aswell and I asked the blonde girl for her number, but she had a boyfriend, I didn´t feel rejected at all, we laughed and made some jokes and walked away feeling high, atleast me, my wingman was feeling a bit worse I think. Maybe I should have included him more.

Then my wingman also told me I should have talked with the other girl more, because I was too focused on the hot blonde girl hahaha, which was true. I forgot literally all the rejections, because in between all these conversations there were woman who I approached that rejected me. I don´t even remember them.

After this everything feels a bit more vague as I was getting tired aswell as the flow state was kind of wearing off. I did approach a woman who was eating fries, I said how is it? then we had a bit of conversation, she kinda looked concerned to me on her face so we talked a bit, but after 2 mins I decided she wasn't feeling comfortable or something so I went away.

Next up inside the mall. I approached a few people sitting down, got rejected, but my wingman and I had much fun, he told me that he got harshly rejected by a 6, so I helped him feel a bit better and talking positivity into him. We walked around a bit further and then I saw him already talking to another girl so I did my own thing, I approached a couple of girls, but got rejected and then we both were a bit tired after all the heat and warmth.

There might be more girls that I approached, definitely many more girls that I got rejected from who I didn't remember, but we had a good run. My wingman had 2 solid numbers of an 8 and a 9 and I had 0 numbers, but very long conversations and really more good flow then I ever had before, atleast during day game, I have had better night game.

So biggest breakthroughs for me were the way to stop girls, secondly how important state and flow is and how being together helps you so much as you can challenge eachother, also when I see him do an approach, I am like, I can do that too and then I start to approach so you battle eachother in a good way, also when I say left, go. It works so well, for example one time my wingman said, go left, girl on phone. I got rejected as she was on the phone, although I got her to stop for a minute and I wouldn't have approached someone calling on the phone before, so he pushed me to go further, which was good and I pushed him aswell, we both had a big breakthrough.

Also I realised magic works really well in bars and magic isn't really so necessary, just casually maybe still do it, but you don't have to do it almost, your energy is what matters, your state and vibe and boosting eachothers state, does wonders. I constantly was trying to get my wingman in a good state with talking positivity into him and my wingman also challenged me with approach, left or right. So together we go really well.

It is funny, because you lose eachother constantly during game and then later find eachother back. Everytime my wingman approached it gave me extra motivation to don't be a bitch and approach myself. Also when you talk with eachother, which I did endlessly, just talk talk talk, then you get into a social state and it is much easier to open from there. 

To conclude: KILLER day! Day game is 10x easier with a wing! (the right wing) and we hammered for 2 hours and after that got tired lol. But we nailed it and what Owen says is very true, approach, don't have excuse making momentum, see opportunity either for yourself or your wing. Literally at the end we were seeing opportunity everywhere. When the beginning is rough. So how was today? 1000 out of 10 as Owen would say it, fuck the rejections, I don't even remember them literally, it were too many, but nobody cares. 

What I am seeing from this is that you are relying way too much on your wingman.. So start doing things for yourself.  That's just my observation looking at this unbiased.  

5 hours ago, Ulax said:

Damn we have a battle of the daddys 

6 hours ago, Ulax said:

I've seen you say way more fucked up things on here lmao

 

 

[Inliytened1]

10 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Damn we have a battle of the daddys 

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 fuck you hehe 

Your putting too much into the wingman. I see that.  So everyone else can too.  No one is going to get your dick up for you.  You are gonna have to do that yourself.

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 I can't take you seriously after all you said lol

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 I can't take you seriously after all you said lol

Which part about the HPV? i I put my heart out for you guys so you don't make the same mistakes.  If you want to be heartless fucks that just fuck, then come to me.  Otherwise, look elsewhere.  And i suggest the latter.

[Jirh]

4 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 I can't take you seriously after all you said lol

💯🤝

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, Jirh said:

💯🤝

He doesn't wanna take me seriousy.  Because he just wants to submit to his wingman.

But his wingman isn't gonna fuck for him.  Is he?  I mean if he is you are gonna have to tell me something that AI doens't know.

[Jirh]

@Inliytened1 You seem horny, bored, and possibly drunk. That is a killer combo, and not in a good way.

[Jirh]

@Olaf Great job, man! Very inspiring!

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Jirh said:

@Inliytened1 You seem horny, bored, and possibly drunk. That is a killer combo, and not in a good way.

All of the above.  But i stopped wanting to jerk off.  Somebody took the porn,

You can't tell me I'm not right either way.

[hundreth]

1 hour ago, Olaf said:

Okay I finally had my breakthrough in day game, holy fucking shit, can I curse on here? I went out with my wingmen and we killed it, murdered it, slaughtered it. Everything. All I was trying to do is just approach as much as possible and have a fun time, also challenging my wing to take action. I am gonna give you my daily report here, but this was from 2 hours, meaning this was only 2 hours, we went balls to the wall. If you ever consider day game, do it with a wing! Should have done this way earlier. He got two numbers of a 9 and an 8, I feel like a proud brother. Here is my daily report: 

Today I went to Utrecht, to meet my wingman, from Amersfoort. We had a good talk about approaching. First of all about magic etc. He said it would be a little difficult more during the day with magic, which is true. Then he talked and learned me his technique, which basically was to approach with hand towards her belly, standing in front of her. Then stop her, give her a compliment and after that an assumption, meaning "you seem like an intelligent person" or "you seem a bit extroverted" whatever. Just two after another or something. Anyways after enough talking we took action and we nailed it!

So before I even met my wingman I warmed up a little bit, by saying hi to people asking for a place to eat. Then when we set down I tried to stop some people for a magic trick, they didn´t stop. So we went upstairs, there my wingman said, approach those girls working there. So I showed them a magic trick. I had this really good line "I need to practice my magic, you don´t have to pay me" which is an assumption they have from time to time. They really loved it and we had a little conversation after that.

We went further and I tried to stop some walking people but got rejected. Then I decided to try out his approach. Now I might not really remember everything clearly, because we approached too many people. I approached someone, gave them a compliment and they walked away saying thank you, because I didn´t stop them with the hand. Then I told my wingman to approach a girl on the right who was smoking and standing still, that went quite well.

I tried to go two girls sitting down and approached them, I did some magic for them, then I went to the toilet and introduced my wingman, later on my wingman told me that probably I should have kept talking and staying for a bit longer, because after I left the other girl wasn´t occupied, which makes sense. That was our first longer conversation, lasted around 10 mins, we walked further and started approaching more people, we walked mainly the main street aswell as the streets surrounding it. Very busy with many girls.

In the beginning I was approaching a little more than my wingman, so I forced him to approach a bit more and at the end he was approaching more then I was. I walked through a small street, then we went to the church to rest a little bit and eventually walked further where I told him to approach a girl on the bridge and he seemed to open well, so I started to open another group sitting down, two girls sitting down, so we both were approaching him on the bridge and me some girls further sitting down, I did some magic for them and we had an allright vibe, I invited my wingman to join the conversation, it lasted like 8 mins and we both didn´t really had the courage to ask for a number yet, although I felt our vibe becoming much more in flow then before. We could more easily speak, but later on we get way more in flow.

So we kept walking there are probably many more girls we approached that I simply can´t remember. But anyways we went to a street where some people were walking, I saw a girl on the left who I approached, I did a good hard stop with the hand and I gave her a ccompliment and asked where she is from etc. We had like a good little talk and I never went for the close, shit.

Anyways, then we walked further and on the left of the shopping street I saw a beautiful girl, I was like, my wingman left, go! So he did and he kept talking forever hahaha, so I just started approaching some people on a square much further. He walked like 15 mins later back, I wanted to give him a high five, but that wasn´t smart as she could see it so I gave him a box instead. He killed it and got her number. She told him she doesn´t get approached ever, which is funny because she is really beautiful.

Anyways, we kept going, now we both were in flow, then he approached two girls on a bike, so I kept walking and approached a big group of 7 girls who were sitting at the terrace, to perform some magic. I did do some magic for them and told them again that it was for practice. Then in the middle of the trick my wingman called where I was, but it wasn´t really disturbing. I think it went really well, although they were quite young so I didn´t wanted to risk it, after a 2 min convo when my wingman came, we both left and went walking around, we sat down for a little bit somewhere and then I saw a girl with red hair and red dress, I really liked how she looked so I approached her, with a hard stop and compliment, then asking for her name and we had a nice conversation.

She really was feeling my vibe and I was standing not with my body fully faced to her, which I saw one of the instructors do. We talked about many things, I just kept yapping and the funny thing was that I was so much in flow, it wasn´t hard to yap, I didn´t let much moments for silence and I was focused on the vibe and emotion. This was my first time asking for a number after 10 mins, but she told me she had a boyfriend. I gave her a hand thanked her and moved on. My wingman said that conversation went really well, so that was good.

Next up I saw some blonde girls sitting down at a terrace, so I showed them a trick. The funny thing was that the vibe was there from the beginning and just as my wingman said, I didn´t even had to do the trick, because the vibe was really there. So I did the trick super casually, then introduced my wingman and by far this conversation went the best for me, I started to be allot more charismatic, I saw the blonde girl wanting my attention and looking my way, she lived in Houston and went on vacation in Utrecht, but she is dutch.

They both were dutch, I was calling them out for drinking coca cola on a terrace and making jokes about america, I asked her to talk in english and we both talked in english for fun. We were talking about cowboys and it was just a cool conversation. They were really enjoying the conversation aswell and I asked the blonde girl for her number, but she had a boyfriend, I didn´t feel rejected at all, we laughed and made some jokes and walked away feeling high, atleast me, my wingman was feeling a bit worse I think. Maybe I should have included him more.

Then my wingman also told me I should have talked with the other girl more, because I was too focused on the hot blonde girl hahaha, which was true. I forgot literally all the rejections, because in between all these conversations there were woman who I approached that rejected me. I don´t even remember them.

After this everything feels a bit more vague as I was getting tired aswell as the flow state was kind of wearing off. I did approach a woman who was eating fries, I said how is it? then we had a bit of conversation, she kinda looked concerned to me on her face so we talked a bit, but after 2 mins I decided she wasn't feeling comfortable or something so I went away.

Next up inside the mall. I approached a few people sitting down, got rejected, but my wingman and I had much fun, he told me that he got harshly rejected by a 6, so I helped him feel a bit better and talking positivity into him. We walked around a bit further and then I saw him already talking to another girl so I did my own thing, I approached a couple of girls, but got rejected and then we both were a bit tired after all the heat and warmth.

There might be more girls that I approached, definitely many more girls that I got rejected from who I didn't remember, but we had a good run. My wingman had 2 solid numbers of an 8 and a 9 and I had 0 numbers, but very long conversations and really more good flow then I ever had before, atleast during day game, I have had better night game.

So biggest breakthroughs for me were the way to stop girls, secondly how important state and flow is and how being together helps you so much as you can challenge eachother, also when I see him do an approach, I am like, I can do that too and then I start to approach so you battle eachother in a good way, also when I say left, go. It works so well, for example one time my wingman said, go left, girl on phone. I got rejected as she was on the phone, although I got her to stop for a minute and I wouldn't have approached someone calling on the phone before, so he pushed me to go further, which was good and I pushed him aswell, we both had a big breakthrough.

Also I realised magic works really well in bars and magic isn't really so necessary, just casually maybe still do it, but you don't have to do it almost, your energy is what matters, your state and vibe and boosting eachothers state, does wonders. I constantly was trying to get my wingman in a good state with talking positivity into him and my wingman also challenged me with approach, left or right. So together we go really well.

It is funny, because you lose eachother constantly during game and then later find eachother back. Everytime my wingman approached it gave me extra motivation to don't be a bitch and approach myself. Also when you talk with eachother, which I did endlessly, just talk talk talk, then you get into a social state and it is much easier to open from there. 

To conclude: KILLER day! Day game is 10x easier with a wing! (the right wing) and we hammered for 2 hours and after that got tired lol. But we nailed it and what Owen says is very true, approach, don't have excuse making momentum, see opportunity either for yourself or your wing. Literally at the end we were seeing opportunity everywhere. When the beginning is rough. So how was today? 1000 out of 10 as Owen would say it, fuck the rejections, I don't even remember them literally, it were too many, but nobody cares. 

Good job, dude. I think you figured it out but the magic aspect of it isn't as necessary as your state being dialed in. I think you could drop the magic and go for more simple direct approaches. Sometimes it is easier when you start by telling them you are interested in them. That way it doesn't feel as awkward when trying to go for the number. A simple "Hey, I just thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" works wonders.

[Olaf]

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