Total newb here; how to get a girl in Uni?

[Magnanimous]

I'm a total beginner when it comes to talking to girls. I can literally count on my hands the amount of times I've flirted with girls.

I wanted to get a gf next semester when Uni resumes, like pull a girl from class. Any tips, like when I should talk to a girl, if I should sit at her table, etc?

Ofc I'll be going out to bars and clubs to increase the spots where I can get a girl but uni will be my favoured way.

If it helps I'm also very handsome and extremely charismatic.

[Leo Gura]

Rather than trying "pick up girls", just sit next to girls you like and start talking normal with them. Ask them some shit like why they are taking that class and what her dreams are.

Don't try to use pickup lines on them. Just be curious about them, ask questions, and grab a number at the end.

Edited 5 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Magnanimous]

I don't know how to build up from there to ask them on a date though. 

Like do I start with your aforementioned rapport building, when that's done I soak in some flirting naturally, then overtime I can keep building rapport and flirting steadily until I ask her say to get some food after class?

Should I just try sticking to the process of landing an instant date in pickup at uni? Just slower because its in the day and at uni?

(Sorry I didn't see your edit while I was writing this)

Edited 5 hours ago by Magnanimous

[Leo Gura]

Talk to them normally, then at the end say something like, "Say, you're cute. Let's swap numbers and we can grab a drink sometime."

Edited 5 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Miguel1]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't try to use pickup lines on them. Just be curious about them, ask questions, and grab a number at the end.

I like this very much. Not only the whole mindset is healthier than pick up lines, it is also beginner friendly approach, and safer approach in a classroom.

Pickup requires a hardcore mindset (a lot of times to the point of toxicity), and an environment where you can lose face and have no consequences.

Finally, to the OP, your first attempts will never be perfect. Maybe you will get lucky and it will work out, but most likely not - so don’t put too much pressure on yourself.

[LordFall]

I would host events and parties on your campus. Great way to go from being a beginner to knowing hundreds of girls. 

Hector Castillo has some good content on the topic, he's one of the leading writers for Girlschase and campus game was his specialty

Basically people want to get to know people on campus and cold approach can be done a bit but you can't do too many or you'll ruin your rep but you can do the complete opposite and build your rep and status through social circle game i.e. hosting events on campus.

Partner up with a few friends and host a monthly event and then invite every single hot girl you see to it and if she's busy say all good letme get your IG and you can come to our next event and you'll end up with the same status as varsity athletes and be able to know so many girls on campus if you do it properly.

You don't need to get to that level you can do it more lowkey but if you're gonna try to get one girl why not takeover the whole campus in the meanwhile, it'll be quite fun and you'll get probably even more than one girl in the process. 

Edited 35 minutes ago by LordFall

[Miguel1]

@LordFall Jesus. In what world do you live, where you go from absolute zero experience with girls to hosting parties for hundreds of girls just like that?

[LordFall]

36 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

@LordFall Jesus. In what world do you live, where you go from absolute zero experience with girls to hosting parties for hundreds of girls just like that?

He said he's handsome and charismatic so that helps but also not necessary. Hosting parties is not that complicated you start with not even really a party but a back to school event and you put up posters and DM people and they'll come. He should partner up with friends but if he had balls he could do it by himself.

You don't start with hundreds of people, some events are successful with 5-10 people but since it's back to school he can piggy back off of that and probably get to a 50-100 person event pretty easily.

You will run into the problem of escalation in your own social circle which you can solve in many ways but the two best ways is to practice light flirting with a lot of women in it, so you don't actually commit to the full trying to sleep with them or ask them out but you just give everyone compliment and pump them up and they'll give it back to you usually. Then you'll see some girls will be more into you than the others and often times at this point the circle will work in your favor and one girl will tell you omg @Magnanimous Jenny clearly seems into you why don't you ask her out? 

The other way is to do actual cold approach outsite campus so you can practice more direct game and escalation which will give you calibration for your social circle back on campus. 

Cold approach was mainly developped as an antidote for not being served by your social circle and not having status so if you just start a social circle in which you have the highest status from the start it's gonna eventually start to solve all your problems. You can steer it in many directions depending on your personality, interest and the connections you build throughout this process. It could be used to network with TAs and campus recruiters so you can get yourself and people you like in your circle a job after 4th year or go towards frats, sororities and sports if you like that better, depends on his interest. 

You can use social hacks like partner up with a frat/sorority and use psychology like they'll be too lazy to promote their own events a lot of times and so you just take the first 2 weeks of classes and approach all the hot girls on campus and the cool guys. Now you're one of the most well known people on campus and gained status by using their brand instead of doing a direct approach and now during the rest of the school year girls will be coming up to you and warm approaching you since they remember you and you can tone back your social efforts and be a cool guy almost magically. 

You can also use the hack of the network effect where a college campus has like 10k people and a cool extrovert will know maybe 300 people if they're like in sports but if you throw events you can know 1000-2000 people after 1 year of doing it and get massive status. 

You don't need to go out all the time and drain your energy if you're an introvert, if anything if you just do 1 event every 1-2 months it'll add to your prestige and you can still stay at home most of the time watching anime but now you're cool and can get laid way easier. 

Social circle game is mostly strategy and business lite so you can learn it from a forum, youtube or a course pretty reliably. This is the cumulated knowledge of a lot of many generations of men, use it wisely young one and make sure to wear protection unless you aim to repopulate our species!  

Edited 51 minutes ago by LordFall

[Sugarcoat]

4 hours ago, Magnanimous said:

If it helps I'm also very handsome and extremely charismatic.

Why you asking then 😂😂😂

[Schizophonia]

9 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Why you asking then 😂😂😂

He is aspiecel 

Like me 👉👈

[Sugarcoat]

7 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

He is aspiecel 

Like me 👉👈

You’re kinda just throwing around those terms

[Schizophonia]

3 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

You’re kinda just throwing around those terms

I am very smart so I create syllogisms to express myself.

[Schizophonia]

@Sugarcoat Did you pass your year btw