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Magnanimous

Total newb here; how to get a girl in Uni?

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I'm a total beginner when it comes to talking to girls. I can literally count on my hands the amount of times I've flirted with girls.

I wanted to get a gf next semester when Uni resumes, like pull a girl from class. Any tips, like when I should talk to a girl, if I should sit at her table, etc?

Ofc I'll be going out to bars and clubs to increase the spots where I can get a girl but uni will be my favoured way.

If it helps I'm also very handsome and extremely charismatic.

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Rather than trying "pick up girls", just sit next to girls you like and start talking normal with them. Ask them some shit like why they are taking that class and what her dreams are.

Don't try to use pickup lines on them. Just be curious about them, ask questions, and grab a number at the end.

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I don't know how to build up from there to ask them on a date though. 

Like do I start with your aforementioned rapport building, when that's done I soak in some flirting naturally, then overtime I can keep building rapport and flirting steadily until I ask her say to get some food after class?

Should I just try sticking to the process of landing an instant date in pickup at uni? Just slower because its in the day and at uni?

(Sorry I didn't see your edit while I was writing this)

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Talk to them normally, then at the end say something like, "Say, you're cute. Let's swap numbers and we can grab a drink sometime."

Edited by Leo Gura

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9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Don't try to use pickup lines on them. Just be curious about them, ask questions, and grab a number at the end.

I like this very much. Not only the whole mindset is healthier than pick up lines, it is also beginner friendly approach, and safer approach in a classroom.

Pickup requires a hardcore mindset (a lot of times to the point of toxicity), and an environment where you can lose face and have no consequences.

Finally, to the OP, your first attempts will never be perfect. Maybe you will get lucky and it will work out, but most likely not - so don’t put too much pressure on yourself.


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