FUCK COMPLIMENTS, This is what ADVANCED Flirting Looks Like! [Not for Beginners]!

[Thought Art]

I’ve boiled game down to this. Go to places in public like shows, events, or even restaurants. Talk to girls without wanting anything from them. Use social intelligence to read her eyes, face, voice and body language. Have fun with her make her feel good and feel good too. 
 

Have fun with girls. If there is chemistry penetrate with compliments. It can be like “you have really cute earrings” but say it with your sexual energy too….If she’s into you she will touch you and make eye contact. You’ll also be able to feel her energy. 
 

I mean, it’s simple really. I’ve met some amazing women the last few weeks. 
 

For example, one girl was travelling home the day I met her. So, at the end of speaking to her I just told her she was beautiful, had good style and nice earrings and she didn’t say anything she just gave me the biggest hug. I spoke to her maybe less than 5 minutes. And when she saw me later that day she hugged me again. 
 

Idk, I feel like I was too nervous about this. Just be yourself and make the initially contact. Doesn’t work every time but… girls are great just talk to them. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Thought Art

[Thought Art]

@Zenterus I like the vibe, frame and body language. That’s pretty much it. Be chill, have fun. Respect her, but be penetrating too. Man to woman. 

[Alexop]

Don´t over-complicate it. Just show up in places where you physically meet the women you desire.

-Have fun

-smile

-show confidence and leadership, healthy masculinity. Send a vibe of: You can relax in you feminine side, I will handle it. Don´t fake it! Women sense role palying easily. This behaviour takes years to be embodied and not role played.

-show competence (for ex. dance skills if it is  a social dance meeting)

-tell jokes

-ask emotionally stimulating, non-booring questions and open interesting conversations. ex: what was the most boring thing you expereinced this week? instead of: what do you work? Sooo many dudes are so fuking boring. This can give you cutting edge advantage.

-dress nicely! So may dudes dress like their mother picked the clothes for them in the morning.

DO all these and the woman who is ready to date and is vibing with you will pick you. It is soo easy to diferentiate from 90% of dudes these days, they are so bad at the above... GL!

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[Thought Art]

@Alexop This is so true. 
 

and when she looks at you and you think she is into you. Go talk to her! She’s wants you too. And if it doesn’t work out, try again with someone else. 
 

I feel like if you have some experience with women you can read her eyes… 

A lot of girls like to talk to people. You can also stop trying to “pick up” and instead you can try to connect, and make her day. If it’s on, you’ll know with 10 seconds. 

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[Raze]

12 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

I’ve boiled game down to this. Go to places in public like shows, events, or even restaurants. Talk to girls without wanting anything from them. Use social intelligence to read her eyes, face, voice and body language. Have fun with her make her feel good and feel good too. 
 

Have fun with girls. If there is chemistry penetrate with compliments. It can be like “you have really cute earrings” but say it with your sexual energy too….If she’s into you she will touch you and make eye contact. You’ll also be able to feel her energy. 
 

I mean, it’s simple really. I’ve met some amazing women the last few weeks. 
 

For example, one girl was travelling home the day I met her. So, at the end of speaking to her I just told her she was beautiful, had good style and nice earrings and she didn’t say anything she just gave me the biggest hug. I spoke to her maybe less than 5 minutes. And when she saw me later that day she hugged me again. 
 

Idk, I feel like I was too nervous about this. Just be yourself and make the initially contact. Doesn’t work every time but… girls are great just talk to them. 

- You are filtering for women who are more aggressive, some women are shy

- You are excluding women who aren’t engaged at first

- Fixating on her reactions will make you seek validation from them and crash your state if you don’t get them

- Women don’t usually lead, this says nothing about moving things forward

- Talk about what? Why are you talking to her? She won’t know what the point is. 

- This says nothing about trust, investment

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[Thought Art]

@Raze Nah man. Some women aren’t engaged at first. The girl who hugged me was face down in her phone eating breakfast before she gave me a hug 5 minutes after asking her if she was a painter (she was a physicist) Just opening the conversation brought in new energy. She was really grateful someone started talking to her. 
 

You are not seeking validation but using social intelligence. You want to be gauging her interest. The less interest the less you really need to invest. You also want to get to know her. Does she excite you? Is she interesting? Would you like to spend time with her? Does her facial expression and voice turn you on?
 

You don’t need to know what you will talk about. You just talk and the about comes naturally. Women aren’t looking for a point. The point is in the talking. There isn’t that much people meet for the first time say… haven’t you noticed this? 
 

If you like her, and there is possibility of going somewhere, or getting her number or getting coffee, you ask her. If she’s single or interested she will say yes. I’ve done this many times too. 
 

But, also, if she has a boyfriend or she’s travelling and you know you won’t speak again… you can just enjoy talking to her for a bit. She might even give you a hug even if she has a boyfriend. 
 

What I said says everything about trust and investment. You are engaging her, building trust rapidly, and if you two have a vibe you investment by trying to hangout more. Why not?

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[Zenterus]

I feel like so many of you here are missing the point of the thread.

This post is about the art of flirting at the highest level. I'm not saying you can't get girls without doing what I outlined. What I am saying is that you will have more CONSISTENTLY positive responses and engagement with the person of your fancy if you apply the above principles.

The issue I see here is that a lot of you guys are trying to maintain your sense of being "good enough" that you are unable to see information that challenges your idea of competence.

Every guy wants to think that "just being yourself" and keeping it "simple" and "not overthinking it" is the way to go, because it worked for them or someone they knew once or twice in their 30 years of living.

That's not good dating advice.

What I'm advocating here is the type of flirting and skillset that gets you women consistently. Its the type of skillset that if we were at a bar together, you could instantly apply and get results. But it takes practise. Intelligent practise. 

But most of you here don't even go out, let alone approach women you genuinely are excited about on a regular basis. Even worse, when you do, you don't treat it as something you can improve on and that keeps you stuck for life.

But hey, at least you can feel "good enough." 

[Thought Art]

99% of this is just going out. There’s a girl out there waiting for you. We are programmed to be into each other. A lot of the work is done for you at birth. 
 

 

Edited 1 hour ago by Thought Art