Low sex drive

[MarkKol]

This has been affecting me from a very young age, it seems, but only now I'm realizing that other men seem to have 10x more desire for sex than me.

Everyone around me seems to notice women first, my friends and coworkers have like a radar built in for ass and women, whereas It's not something my eyes or attention gravitate towards first or often at all.

An example recently, I was standing outside with coworkers, there was a Lamborghini Urus next to some good looking women. As you might imagine, I was just looking at the Urus, and I didn't even notice the women until someone pointed them out

I definitely have ED caused by night shift work, which is largely dealt with a daily dose of Cialis/Tadalafil at 5mg, still no morning wood though. And if you don't have morning wood, you have ED, many people don't even know this, especially women. Women are super ignorant of this, it's like they don't believe ED exists.

I'm definitely not gay but would like to know if someone has increased their sex drive in some way successfully.

I have tried to get tested for testasterone but because of the bureaucratic nature of the medical system I didn't do it, what would even be the point of testing for it? even if I have low test they're not going to put me on TRT at 22 years old, they're gonna give me generic advice like sleep better, yeah no shit, but I can't, you can't even get medication for sleep that works long term never mind a hormone. Seems pointless.

Edited 19 hours ago by MarkKol

[Sugarcoat]

Why you talk as if being drawn to look at women is what reveals your level of libido?
Maybe other men can be drawn to just ass, but maybe you need ass + something deeper, in order to be drawn to it. 
 

I’m not denying your health issues, it’s one of my top priorities for myself also to improve on, but perhaps you think that when they improve you’ll start to be more like those other men, but maybe you discover your sexuality works differently…

Edited 19 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[MarkKol]

8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Why you talk as if being drawn to look at women is what reveals your level of libido?
Maybe other men can be drawn to just ass, but maybe you need ass + something deeper, in order to be drawn to it. 
 

I’m not denying your health issues, it’s one of my top priorities for myself also to improve on, but perhaps you think that when they improve you’ll start to be more like those other men, but maybe you discover your sexuality works differently…

I don't see a point in looking at some random woman's ass, there still seems to be a gap. Other men have this animalistic level of libido.

True that women get sexier when you build up some rapport, but I think that's universal.

Edited 19 hours ago by MarkKol

[Sugarcoat]

25 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

I don't see a point in looking at some random woman's ass, there still seems to be a gap. Other men have this animalistic level of libido.

True that women get sexier when you build up some rapport, but I think that's universal.

I can’t tell if you thought I disagreed with something you said here or not, we’re saying similar things 

I also wanted to mention that there are people in society that have very bad states of health but they still somehow have raging libidos, looking at all kinds of stuff irl and online and smexualizing so much. 
 

Almost as if it can be something else at play here (you said your “problem” started at young age even before the ED so that’s one reason I mention this)

Edited 18 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[Leo Gura]

Try maca and horny goat weed supplements. They both increase sex drive.

How often do you get horny for women?

People have very different sex drives. That is not a mistake.

Edited 18 hours ago by Leo Gura

[MarkKol]

8 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I also wanted to mention that there are people in society that have very bad states of health but they still somehow have raging libidos, looking at all kinds of stuff irl and online and smexualizing so much. 
 

yes true

Maybe low libido is a curse for names Marko and Natalia, you never know. 

This post is more geared towards other men. I read some things about Macca and horny goat weed but it's iffy

[MarkKol]

1 minute ago, Leo Gura said:

Try maca and horny goat weed supplements. They both increase sex drive.

How often do you get horny for women?

I have tried maca for about 1.5 month and it didn't help

I get horny 2-3 a day maybe when I'm free and maybe 0-1 when I'm working, but it's not intense.

[Leo Gura]

Maca increases horniness a lot.

[Sugarcoat]

41 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

yes true

Maybe low libido is a curse for names Marko and Natalia, you never know. 

This post is more geared towards other men. I read some things about Macca and horny goat weed but it's iffy

Ok good very straight forward there I will stfu

 

Edited 17 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[Elliott]

43 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

I get horny 2-3 a day maybe when I'm free and maybe 0-1 when I'm working, but it's not intense.

Is it intense when you're free? Maybe you just hang around porn addicts that are hypersexually retarded.

[Schizophonia]

Health (sleep, foods…) + mood + genetic.

[Leo Gura]

Exercise can help too.

Heavy squats and lifting.

[Schizophonia]

59 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

I get horny 2-3 a day maybe when I'm free and maybe 0-1 when I'm working, but it's not intense.

You don't have a low libido. I'm naturally horny about once every 2/3 days.

Without compulsion

Edited 17 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, MarkKol said:

I get horny 2-3 a day maybe when I'm free and maybe 0-1 when I'm working, but it's not intense.

That sounds within normal.

[MarkKol]

42 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Ok good very straight forward there I will stfu

Hopefully you find a cure for your female hormones. Male ED is easier to diagnose I think, there’s more commonality in male advice around this topic.

In my life, women have been very ignorant of this topic, some past long gone partners and family, consciously really refusing to understand that a man could ever have problems like this. 

12 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

That sounds within normal.

When you took macca how long have you taken it for? I took gelatinized macca, I don’t think it was an extract.  

[LordFall]

 

2 hours ago, MarkKol said:

This has been affecting me from a very young age, it seems, but only now I'm realizing that other men seem to have 10x more desire for sex than me.

Everyone around me seems to notice women first, my friends and coworkers have like a radar built in for ass and women, whereas It's not something my eyes or attention gravitate towards first or often at all.

An example recently, I was standing outside with coworkers, there was a Lamborghini Urus next to some good looking women. As you might imagine, I was just looking at the Urus, and I didn't even notice the women until someone pointed them out

I definitely have ED caused by night shift work, which is largely dealt with a daily dose of Cialis/Tadalafil at 5mg, still no morning wood though. And if you don't have morning wood, you have ED, many people don't even know this, especially women. Women are super ignorant of this, it's like they don't believe ED exists.

I'm definitely not gay but would like to know if someone has increased their sex drive in some way successfully.

I have tried to get tested for testasterone but because of the bureaucratic nature of the medical system I didn't do it, what would even be the point of testing for it? even if I have low test they're not going to put me on TRT at 22 years old, they're gonna give me generic advice like sleep better, yeah no shit, but I can't, you can't even get medication for sleep that works long term never mind a hormone. Seems pointless.

Do you watch a lot of porn or not really? The problem with a low libido is your weak is will. Just reading your comment I got a bit puzzled? What do you mean it's not like they're gonna give it to you? You're gonna make them give it to you or you're gonna source it yourself, either way you'll get it if you want to get it. That's the masculine spirit to bend reality to our will. 

I don't know if it's necessary a good thing to have high libido it makes life very frustrating for me because I can't reach my goals at the very moment but if I had less thirst for my goals I don't know what I would do like take more walks in the park lol? 

My ideal self is more jacked than I am now, richer than I am now, is smarter than I am now, has more power than I have now, has more impact than I have now, fucks everyday multiple times a day and is pushing humanity forward with my existence on earth.

What does your ideal self look like? 

Also I agree with that if you get horny a few times a day you have normal libido sounds like you mostly have a victim mindset and are stuck in apathy. 

Edited 16 hours ago by LordFall

[Leo Gura]

20 minutes ago, MarkKol said:

When you took macca how long have you taken it for? I took gelatinized macca, I don’t think it was an extract.  

I have not taken it in a decade.

But I feel it within a day.

[mmKay]

How much food do you eat per day / per week / per month? 

You absolutely need to stay on top of your calorie intake, on the higher end.

Chronic undereating or too much fasting will slow down your metabolism. A sex drive is a luxury feaure for your body if you're starving.

Also get enough protein, cholesterol, zinc and fats in your diet. They're the building blocks for hormones.

Generic advice like sleep better could be it. Why can't you sleep properly? I understand you have a night shift but is your sleep that bad at day?

If you have chronic sleep debt don't expect to have much sex drive. You need consistent high quality sleep.

Physical exercise is key too. You must be moving your body every single day, cardio or sprints are ok but heavy weights are great. Mix and match to your needs.

Also if you have a problem with adult content or excessive fapping, that can kill your drive too

Get your general health tested. Chronic infections, inflammation , allergies can kill your drive too. Some people struggle with libido due to COVID aftermath

 

Supplements are nice but these are essential 

 

There also can be some psychological reasons. You may feel unworthy of sex, feel like intimacy is dangerous, have fear, shame, anxiety around girls, to various degrees ( and sometimes it's extremely subtle) that makes your system dismiss sex with women because it's " obviously not for you"

 

 

Edited 8 hours ago by mmKay

[Raze]

Get hormones checked. It may not be low testosterone.

If it is low testosterone that is a health issue even aside from libido that needs to be addressed.

[Spiral]

I also have low libido, although I don’t see the issue with this. I can think less about women and more about other more important things