Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional

[AION]

@LordFall the girls that have been paying for the dates or splitting the bill where one of the hottest girls I have dated. Who pays doesn’t influence much as long as you keep the masculine frame. If your masculine frame breaks down becuase she paid for the ice cream  yea that is going to be a problem  

 

[AION]

If you say women only date for the  status hierarchy you are basically saying she is a smart prostitute.  Instead of fucking for money she fucks for status. And instead of multiple different ugly clients just one guy who does the provision. 

[LordFall]

I mean you can think about it in whatever way you want to. For me I like the harem builder game where I work on my business and date multiple women and subs that live under me and I fund their life and lifestyle while they chill and/or work for me and my business. 

The problem with not funding their lifestyle is your woman will end up working for another man or a system that probably exploits her and she'll come back home drained and not giving you and your children together her best. I think most women would rather be stay at home moms if their man could afford it but it's become too hard due macroeconomics and thus 90% of men in America can't fund that lifestyle for their partner.

 

[AION]

@LordFall I can’t finance that lifestyle but I agree that is dating on easy mode 

[Miguel1]

4 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I mean you can think about it in whatever way you want to. For me I like the harem builder game where I work on my business and date multiple women and subs that live under me and I fund their life and lifestyle while they chill and/or work for me and my business. 

The problem with not funding their lifestyle is your woman will end up working for another man or a system that probably exploits her and she'll come back home drained and not giving you and your children together her best. I think most women would rather be stay at home moms if their man could afford it but it's become too hard due macroeconomics and thus 90% of men in America can't fund that lifestyle for their partner.

This guy. And you says you are not stuck in orange 

You remind me of my younger self. Except, include also how they will benefit spiritually with you as well. Then you have the perfect self-deceived delusional drowned in his own success.

[LordFall]

Just now, AION said:

@LordFall I can’t finance that lifestyle but I agree that is dating on easy mode 

Are you working on a business now? You can start today and be quite successful in a few years. Every man and woman should work on their own business to become financially independent and be able to share that gift with their friends, family and lovers. 

I share my own journey on this journal thread here : 

 

1 minute ago, Miguel1 said:

This guy. And you says you are not stuck in orange 

You remind me of my younger self. Except, include also how they will benefit spiritually with you as well. Then you have the perfect self-deceived delusional drowned in his own success.

My philosophy won't work for everyone but it's built on avoiding the mistakes and pitfalls I see others fall into. I don't think I'm self-deceived but feel free to point out some blind spots if you believe they are genuine and not stemming from your own spiritual bypassing. 

[Ulax]

16 minutes ago, AION said:

If you say women only date for the  status hierarchy you are basically saying she is a smart prostitute.  Instead of fucking for money she fucks for status. And instead of multiple different ugly clients just one guy who does the provision. 

Yep, we all a hoe for something

 

[AION]

@LordFall I had an electric bike business on the side but I fucked up and flew too close to the sun with crypto and I lost everything. Now I’m trying to scramble back up. But I’m seeing you are very early in your journey. So I’m surprised you can finance multiple girls. That is basically what Andrew Tate suggests. Getting dates is not too difficult for me right now so I can’t imagine how easy it would be if I would contribute to a girl’s survival. You don’t even need game in that case. It is just basically Andrew Tate style control / provision to a girl’s lifestyle. I don’t even know if I want that. Because I’m not only in for the girls but also in for the skill acquisition of getting a girl. Currently I’m working on frame. It is easy to get girls but a lot of times I drop frame and fail shit tests. 

Edited 12 hours ago by AION

[LordFall]

Yeah crypto is tough, some people win big most people lose out. I don't like mentionning Andrew Tate I think he's a dishonest sociopathic rapist. I like more what Tony Huge is doing just living with and dating multiple women and building a cool life together, like a more intentional version of polyamory.

I'm not doing it myself at the moment, building up to it. I did regular game back when I lived in Toronto and it was fun but to me at least I ran out of what I could do without a large amount of cashflow and my own systems built. I would just date women and/or FWBs and hangout and that's fun but I wanted more and I felt like I hit a wall in the quality of the women I could attract.

Then I started doing photoshoot container events after learning the model from social circle coaches. It's fun but the programs are designed for high income professionals to reinvest their disposable income into their social life to attract more women than they otherwise could. That's not a bad plan but I like the idea of building a business around it and scaling it globally. That's what I'm working on right now. 

Also with all the models I get I see a common theme where they are down to go to events, photoshoots and shoot content but they have a hard time managing it all by themselves. A lot of modelling agencies are scams and make their money charging the models for expensive shoots. I'm working on my own agency to help them automate a lot of their brand outreach and standardize content production. I think the way Hugh Hefner did it with his setup being buit on top of a media agency is the way to do it to get global reach. It's also quite fun to work with women and "conquer the world" with them so I'll keep going down that path and seeing how it goes. 

You still need game to optimize it and be in a genuine relationship with the women and not just manipulate them to get what you want. It just structures the relationship in the right way if you come at it from a provider angle after you already have the lover one secured imo. Financial issues are one of the top causes for divorces and even in marriages that stay together a lot of couples are just stressed and barely surviving in life. I think putting the cart before the horse and setting up your business properly is so key to a high level dating life and relationships. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

Yeah crypto is tough, some people win big most people lose out. I don't like mentionning Andrew Tate I think he's a dishonest sociopathic rapist. I like more what Tony Huge is doing just living with and dating multiple women and building a cool life together, like a more intentional version of polyamory.

Ye Tate is a v bad comparison. That dude literally bragged about sex trafficking to sell a product.