Most Dating Books/Teachers Aren't Exceptional

[Terell Kirby]

36 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

How do you enjoy the sex if you’re in the back of your mind holding an agenda?

The agenda is fulfilled once sex is procured. Everything leading up to it is a subtle form of manipulation to get what you want in the bedroom 

[AION]

7 hours ago, Valach said:

But the men are just as immature and shallow as woman so I do not understand why we highlight it in woman?

Exactly that is what I said. Humans are shallow thus women are shallow too. I think it is disgusting taht @Miguel1 is trying to throw me under the bus here just because he fancies some female members here on this nerd forum. Obviously women won't be attracted to an intellectual forum. If Miguel fancies more females I think some child rearing forum might be more appropriate for him. 

At the end I can reframe my message but I won't refrain from telling the truth. If that causes me to be banned by some weirdo, I'm fine with that. You guys take this forum way too serious which comes off as creepy. 

This forum should aim at being SD Teal/Turqiouse and not be trapped in the SD green social justice swamp.

[Miguel1]

@AION I am not throwing you under the buss. It just oozes off of you that you lack respect.

[AION]

3 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

@AION I am not throwing you under the buss. It just oozes off of you that you lack respect.

I think you don't show respect for free speech. 

So tell me

Why can I say "humans are shallow" or "men are shallow" but why can't I say "women are shallow"?

 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Men are shallow - sexist.

Women are shallow - sexist.

Humans are shallow - not discriminatory in a targeted way against a group.

We make assumptions if we think moderating sexism against men doesn't happen here. It does.

[Yimpa]

52 minutes ago, AION said:

I think you don't show respect for free speech. 

https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/7-guidelines/?_fromLogin=1

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This is not a free-speech zone and we will definitely "censor" you and ban you if your presence here drags down the overall quality of the forum.

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I’ve fallen for this trap, too. Convincing myself I can say or do anything I want. I was wrong! I was posting high all the time in the past and was on my high horse! 

The quality of my posts, mind, and thinking have vastly improved when I surrendered and took the whole into consideration.

Edited 1 hour ago by Yimpa

[VioleGrace]

10 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

I can sense something building up between some guys on the forum and Natasha.

i dont think that it is natasha per se,

A lot of people here don't do the work to really think about what they are posting, 

When someone like you or leo or zenetsu and other say that "women they are dating are shallow and game is shallow too ..." i can understand that is from experience and that you are not making generalisation or assumption there and you can clearly put just nuances in you speech and thinking 

But a lot of peoples here are just purely biased and are just repeating some red pills points they fumbled into, it is so clear that they have no deep thinking into their post and no deep experience in women too and no deep thinking into them neither, they are just brainwashed and self deceived about these topic, there is no nuance is there comment 

So of course when natasha try to get them accountable and think about the BS they are mindlessly spouting they get defensive cause they ego want them to think that they are right

And that is just more obvious with Natasha cause she is calling out these types of comment when more often than others

That's what i feel when i see the exchanges anyway  

 

Edited 6 minutes ago by VioleGrace