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Do Women Prefer Long Hair or Short Hair on Men?

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Long hair or short hair on men?

What’s your take?

 

 

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Doesnt matter.

What matters is how you're basing what you should be based on what you think women want, which makes you inherently unattractive to them.

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32 minutes ago, Zenterus said:

Doesnt matter.

What matters is how you're basing what you should be based on what you think women want, which makes you inherently unattractive to them.

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If that man came up to any woman it wouldnt matter.

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It doesn't matter. There is no universal preference. 


It is far easier to fool someone, than to convince them they have been fooled.

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Depends on your head shape. Also on the sub-demographic you are trying to attract. 

I am rocking a buzz cut and it really works for me. 


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Because of society it will lean towards short but dosent matter if it fit.

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2 hours ago, Zenterus said:

Doesnt matter.

What matters is how you're basing what you should be based on what you think women want, which makes you inherently unattractive to them.

There is truth to this mindset but be careful with the lack of nuance in it. Dating is a market. If you don't cater to what customers want you are unattractive by default. 

My default desired strategy is I stay at home in my pyjamas and hot women from all over the city and the world come and beg to fuck me. That strategy does not seem to work. I get much more success when I respect myself but still cater to the desires and needs of the women I want to invite into my life. 

@Monster Energy Test it. Who knows until you try it and see if you get the desired results from the women you're attracted to. 

 

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No hair 9_9


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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11 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

No hair 9_9

I don't think that's ever optimal. You should try a hair transplant especially if you like younger women. This came up in our friend group with an acquaintance that's balding that decided to shave it all off. 

 

 

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Yeah for real they compared a male super top model with his bald alter ego that's pretty crazy stats. According to Gemini a super attractive male would get 10-35% match rate and an average guy 1-2%. At my peak when I was using it a lot and my algorithm was really good I'd say I had maybe 15%. 


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@LordFall I asked it how you would get a 40 percent and it said selective matching, it didnt make sense. This has gotta be fake or something 40 percent is insane. Its like the only person ever to get 40 percent.

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I think it means like you only swipe on girls that are perhaps less attractive or the archetype that you know feels you whereas even if you're one of the top guys in your city a lot of the hottest girls are still gonna left swipe. 

With the chubby women population maybe I could've done 40% B|

You ever been on photofeeler? Another coach showed it up to me and I used it a lot for my profile and clients. Key is doing a bunch of photoshoots and testing all your pics so your profile is maximized. When I used tinder casually I only had like 14 total matches over a few years and then when I used platinum, a lot of boosts and doing this strategy I got to over 700.

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Hair transplant? The fuck lol. FUCK NO.

Bald is fine.

If you are so insecure as to be attached to hair holy shit. You need some meaning in life.

Either you are a 1) young nub or 2) no experience of life 3) have a pathology.

Obviously this is my personal preference - but anyone so fixated on hair is a marker they haven't got priorities. I wouldn't want to date them. Not saying I would rule it out, but I would be vetting what's going on for them psychologically / attachment wise a lot more extensively.

 


It is far easier to fool someone, than to convince them they have been fooled.

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@Natasha Tori Maru Any man who is losing their hair is facing a serious crisis, dont pretend like its not. Especially woman. Every single human attached to their hair.

You will have to cry about it, thats how identified people are with it.

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@Natasha Tori Maru Why not? It's not that expensive and only takes like 6 months to heal and regrow to more than you had before. Also harmless. You don't need it but if it improves your results I think you'd be silly not to do it.

My hair is starting to thin I'm looking into easier remedies like dermarolling and Finasteride but if it doesn't work I'm 100% going to Turkey. Women love nice hair I get so many compliments on mine. 


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@LordFall All I get are fat woman and trans men. I clearly wrote I dont want either.

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1 hour ago, LordFall said:

@Natasha Tori Maru Why not? It's not that expensive and only takes like 6 months to heal and regrow to more than you had before. Also harmless. You don't need it but if it improves your results I think you'd be silly not to do it.

Because it does not address the root (huehuehue a pun!!!) issue.


It is far easier to fool someone, than to convince them they have been fooled.

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This video and this guy's channel are top notch for online dating

I would get a friend or sibling and if you even had a good iphone like 14 and above you can do dating pics on a phone. If you have a nice DSLR it helps as well. Use photofeeler to rank your pics idk if its still free you could just rank other people's pics to get free credits before. Use mostly Tinder it has the most women, Hinge and feeld as well especially if you like kink. On Tinder try getting platinum and using boosts so you don't have to swipe as much and it helps your algorithm. It's normal to not get much results at the start these apps. The mainstream ones are 75% men so you need to use every strategy in the book to beat out the competition, no shame. 

This is also a good community for specifically online dating stuff

https://www.reddit.com/r/SwipeHelper/

You can DM me or anyone else reading this if you have more questions, I don't mind answering. A lot to learn but it's worth it. Your children will thank you. 

@Natasha Tori Maru You can be as confident as you want but the better you look the more baddies you pull. 

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