Do Women Prefer Long Hair or Short Hair on Men?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@LordFall I disagree. Confidence trumps looks every time - provided there are minimum appearance standards and cleanliness are met etc etc 

"Why not" - that's not a good reason to me.

This is not to say looks do not have an effect and should not be focused on. But you need to prioritise and being overly attached to hair signals to me you aren't doing so. This is why I raised earlier I would be vetting the person harder.

I don't want to date someone who is fighting their aging and devoting needless energy, money, time and resources to doing so.

Again this is my personal opinion. And while this does not exclude it from criticism, it is not something I am going to change my mind over.

Edited 2 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[LordFall]

Yeah that's fine you do you I'm just saying in general I think men should do it every time and I put the statistics for women as a whole to prove it. 

I don't think its a lot of time and energy, you get a cool Turkey trip and the results are permanent. You only need to redo it to patch up other areas that bald over time. I wouldn't spend my last dollar on it but if I had extra cash around then for sure.

The one interesting fact is that balding doesn't increase odds of divorce so if you already got a woman locked in there is little point but if you're single it's gonna make a big difference. Maybe not if one is 55(maybe still) but when still young fuck no brainer. 

Edited 2 hours ago by LordFall

[integration journey]

Who gives a shit what anyone prefers.
Do you and the right person will be attracted to you. 

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[LordFall]

11 minutes ago, integration journey said:

Who gives a shit what anyone prefers.
Do you and the right person will be attracted to you. 

The average man is single, depressed, broke and lonely. They are already being themselves; it's not working. 

[Leo Gura]

22 minutes ago, LordFall said:

The average man is single, depressed, broke and lonely. They are already being themselves; it's not working. 

Average man is not being social. There is the problem.

[Osaid]

16 hours ago, Zenterus said:

Doesnt matter.

What matters is how you're basing what you should be based on what you think women want, which makes you inherently unattractive to them.

This guy gets it.

[LordFall]

3 minutes ago, Osaid said:

This guy gets it.

What does he get? 

[Osaid]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

What does he get? 

Your only "job" in attracting a mate is embodying your own personal values. Essentially, being authentic without fear or insecurity. Anything less will be sniffed out by whoever you're trying to attract.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

19 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Average man is not being social. There is the problem.

Exactly.

Fuck the hair, you ain't going no where if you don't even interact.

Plus bald head gives the velcro feel! Unbeatable tactile sensations

[Natasha Tori Maru]

13 minutes ago, LordFall said:

What does he get? 

Something you do not, perhaps?

[LordFall]

11 minutes ago, Osaid said:

Your only "job" in attracting a mate is embodying your own personal values. Essentially, being authentic without fear or insecurity. Anything less will be sniffed out by whoever you're trying to attract.

Authenticity with your values is a good way to put it you can’t succeed at someone else’s dream 

3 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Something you do not, perhaps?

It’s possible, I don’t claim to know everything I just learn from what I’ve seen work. A lot of things that sound nice in theory don’t work and only help to make someone feel better temporarily and worse long term due to lack of results. I call it fortune cookie advice. 

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I don’t claim to know everything I just learn from what I’ve seen work. 

Well yeah, from what you have seen. Our experience is limited to us and can be a significant source of cognitive bias. Cognitive drift also.

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A lot of things that sound nice in theory don’t work and only help to make someone feel better temporarily and worse long term due to lack of results. 

Like hair transplants.

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[LordFall]

11 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Well yeah, from what you have seen. Our experience is limited to us and can be a significant source of cognitive bias. Cognitive drift also.

Like hair transplants.

No that was the casual way of explaining my beliefs. I have a put of a lot of time and effort in this field and learned from the people that seemed to have the best results. You seem to value your own opinions really highly for some reason. I don't really I make hypothesis and see what happens when I try it and if someone more competent than me and with more resources than me has tried it and make a judgement based on that. 

Most people's opinions by default is gonna be wrong because they value the road to least effort which is rarely the most optimal. So is mine so I research a lot and take a lot of notes and see how things evolve overtime and see if I was correct or not in especially areas of life that matter to me like dating. 

I like how @Osaid phrased it because it doesn't matter what works if your values goes against it but if you don't really care one way or another might as well do what works.

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[NewKidOnTheBlock]

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Hair transplant? The fuck lol. FUCK NO.

Bald is fine.

If you are so insecure as to be attached to hair holy shit. You need some meaning in life.

Either you are a 1) young nub or 2) no experience of life 3) have a pathology.

Obviously this is my personal preference - but anyone so fixated on hair is a marker they haven't got priorities. I wouldn't want to date them. Not saying I would rule it out, but I would be vetting what's going on for them psychologically / attachment wise a lot more extensively.

 

There's no way in hell I'd let myself to even get to Norwood 3, call me insecure all you want lol, hair is love, hair is life. A trip to Constantinople it is