How to stop idealizing women?

[AerisVahnEphelia]

5 hours ago, LordFall said:

How do you find this true love? Seems like some people have an easier time at it that others. I think someone's best bet is optimizing for the patterns you can spot and if somehow the universe decides to drop a perfect partner on your lap take it otherwise follow proven systems that yield predictable results. Like cold approach and social circle game. 

You pray & ask god how to find true love.
 

You must die from the spirit of rationality & logic.

 

the shortest path is a lot of psychedelics or meditation.
 

Edited Saturday at 08:58 AM by AerisVahnEphelia

[PsychedelicEagle]

Have an orgasm. Stop idealizing in 1s.

Extrapolate that over the long term: the more experiences you have with 'hot' women (per your eyes), the less you'll idealize them. The hardest will be the beginning, when you have yet no experience. That will be hard, and you need to push through.

Define proxy metrics. E.g., if you want to hook up with a hot chick, that might happen so rarely you can't use it a reliable metric. So instead you track and act upon proxy metrics: how many hot chicks you talk to; how many hot chicks you get the number, etc. Be creative and use your intelligence to come up with proxy metrics that well characterize your own progress and adjust to your own stage.

Experience and action are king.

Edited Saturday at 10:10 AM by PsychedelicEagle

[Yimpa]

“i’m going crazy, i’m going mad. i want you, baby, so bad.” -olivia rodrigo 

[Yimpa]

I almost had a mental breakdown when I discovered a local artist I used to communicate with will be playing at the same music festival olivia rodrigo is hosting in a couple months 💀 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Become gay

[LordFall]

26 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Become gay

I heard some guys turn trans to get that validation that they crave from the dating market. That's fucking boys. Just learn to attract hot women it's not that complicated. Fuck some men if you want to but at least fuck some hot women too.

Can you imagine following the content on this forum, realizing you're literally God and infinite and still somehow you manage to not fuck hot women lol. It would take a divine level of coping to achieve that. 

Bro you stop idealizing hot women by fucking lot of them and making friends with a lot of them and then living happily ever after with your infinite selves. Any other way will not work scientifically we can break it down any way you guys want to. 

Edited 4 hours ago by LordFall

[Yimpa]

Me: “Say you’re God.”

Her: ”I am God.”

Me: ”Now what?”

Her: “Now, I hump you.”

[LordFall]

1 minute ago, Yimpa said:

Me: “Say you’re God.”

Her: ”I am God.”

Me: ”Now what?”

Her: “Now, I hump you.”

God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good.

[Joseph Maynor]

Women are gatekeepers to community oftentimes.