Why it seems impossible to get laid for me ?

[Majed]

I sort of summarized the situation when i answered leo before when he was telling me all i need to do is be fun and social to get laid :

"Dude, you live in the us. The standards of living in the us are like some of the highest in the world. Imagining telling a guy somewhere in Ethiopia, or in the Congo he needs to be fun and social and he'll get laid, it's like you don't understand just how down bad the situation is in Ethiopia and the Congo. Hell in my country in Lebanon if i work at McDonald i'll get paid like 400 dollars a month, for a full time job. If i had to spend 100 dollars partying once or twice a week, that's all my salary gone, and we haven't talked about getting food, shelter... Naturally in such a situation to get laid you need to focus on financial success first, then once you have the money, the time and energy, you can focus on improving social skills and picking up girls. 

In my situation it's even worse because i could've gotten a degree in a profitable field, and leave the country, which is the strategy most guys my age are doing, not just guys, even girls quite frankly. However still i am 22 years old and i didn't finish high school, because i was battling severe ocd and bipolar type 1. To this day after around 2 years and a half, of starting medications and therapy, i'm still recovering and struggling to develop the necessary discipline to finish high school and enter university. I might fail this year, and have to go again through it to finish high school. 

My strategy is to get a degree in a profitable field to quit the country, then i could focus on social skills and pick up. Hell i would've spent my 20s not getting laid, but building the foundation for my life and handling my mental health."

Only update on this issue is the severity of my mental illnesses makes it impossible for me to succeed academically in my studies. Therefore this seems like a hopeless situation. My health makes it impossible for me to discipline myself in order to earn money. Suicide seems the only option out of this hell. 

Edited 5 hours ago by Majed

[enchanted]

47 minutes ago, Majed said:

I sort of resumed the situation when i answered leo before when he was telling me all i need to do is be fun and social to get laid :

"Dude, you live in the us. The standards of living in the us are like some of the highest in the world. Imagining telling a guy somewhere in Ethiopia, or in the Congo he needs to be fun and social and he'll get laid, it's like you don't understand just how down bad the situation is in Ethiopia and the Congo. Hell in my country in Lebanon if i work at McDonald i'll get paid like 400 dollars a month, for a full time job. If i had to spend 100 dollars partying once or twice a week, that's all my salary gone, and we haven't talked about getting food, shelter... Naturally in such a situation to get laid you need to focus on financial success first, then once you have the money, the time and energy, you can focus on improving social skills and picking up girls. 

In my situation it's even worse because i could've gotten a degree in a profitable field, and leave the country, which is the strategy most guys my age are doing, not just guys, even girls quite frankly. However still i am 22 years old and i didn't finish high school, because i was battling severe ocd and bipolar type 1. To this day after around 2 years and a half, of starting medications and therapy, i'm still recovering and struggling to develop the necessary discipline to finish high school and enter university. I might fail this year, and have to go again through it to finish high school. 

My strategy is to get a degree in a profitable field to quit the country, then i could focus on social skills and pick up. Hell i would've spent my 20s not getting laid, but building the foundation for my life and handling my mental health."

Only update on this issue is the severity of my mental illnesses makes it impossible for me to succeed academically in my studies. Therefore this seems like a hopeless situation. My health makes it impossible for me to discipline myself in order to earn money. Suicide seems the only option out of this hell. 

Sorry to hear that you are going through this. If everyone could get easy sex than it wouldn't be a thing worth having, or flaunting.

The good news is that even the most desperate of people find partners. Don't give up and eventually you might find someone going through a similar life circumstance who you can relate to. The longer you have to wait the more rewarding the pay off will be. 

Edited 5 hours ago by enchanted

[LordFall]

Are you a virgin? If it's a big complex to you I would honestly recommend an escort, it's the fastest way to get the experience and is also quite enjoyable. From just looking into quickly seems like you got a few options available to you in Lebanon. You could get laid by end of the weekend for like $100. 

The organic route works too it's just gonna be more difficult. If you're in Beirut seems like daygame and online dating are alive and well. Have you tried either of these? You don't have to spend money to game it's just more difficult to do it cheaply. Most PUAs famously drink water at nightclubs for example and daygame is free. You'd have to go to her place or rent a hotel if she lives with her parents and your parents aren't cool with you hooking up though. 

For the love of God don't kill yourself for such a simple issue. Once upon a time I thought it would be easier for me to become a billionaire than get a girlfriend. I've had a few girlfriends since those days, once you get the hang of it dating and sex are pretty simple. You didn't reply to me in the other thread about starting to rap but bro that's easy mode lol. You can literally DM random girls on Instagram and say "Hey shooting a music video next Saturday afternoon wanna be in it?" probably 5-10% of girls will be down then you see how it goes and sooner rather than later you'll find yourself in some pussy my brother. 

Edited 5 hours ago by LordFall

[Majed]

@LordFall Dude i've done 2500 approaches and never got laid. I think an escort is the most effective route. Even though i don't know how it works. Do you recommend me mentioning this to my dad, as i would need him to help me find escorts and give me the money for it. 

[LordFall]

Ask Grok it'll tell you how to do it. You can also just google it and Reddit is filled with plenty of people that have tried everything in the world lol. Idk depends if your dad is conservative and will flip out at you or if he's chill and will understand. I'll DM you on IG we can talk more. 

 

Edited 5 hours ago by LordFall

[Rishabh R]

@Majed I get you I felt this when I was in college that I won't get a girlfriend. It's pretty miserable place once you take that beleif seriously (speaking from experience) .Either question that beleif or stop buying into it since it can lead you to emotional turmoil,suffering ,sadness - all of which I went through in college by believing this thought .Fast forward today , I have graduated and I rarely think of that beleif as well as I have replaced it with better ones - I can get a someone if I continue putting myself out there. 

Secondly , you can replace it with I don't know weather I would get laid ot not . 

Now a these days whenever guys tell me I won't get a girlfriend it feels little hurt for a while but eventually it bounces off my chest .